#❨ your friendly neighborhood trash can. ❩ || ooc

[familylightfox]

Shy?: Accepting

Anonymous asked:

✨ @sxturn-bxrs

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OOC: You're not the first to tell me this, but I promise I'm a lot nicer than some out there might tell you. I just am very clear on my boundaries and don't allow myself to be a doormat.

Come talk to me sometime. If not on Tumblr, hit me up on Discord.

The new change to usernames hit me already but you can find me at xxphoenixflamesxx.

I'm just a friendly neighborhood trash panda living in your local dumpster fire.

[wingmanriley-blog]

hi i think i’m going to make a multimuse for ocs,,,

[lchaiim]

yall know who i miss? samuel motherfuckin tallma/dge that’s who

[sanemreid]

hey hey everyone, it’s your friendly neighborhood trash bin ( aka ari ), definitely excited to be here, maybe a little nervous too 👀 but still shoutout to ashley for convincing me to join ! ANYWHO this is my dancing queen Sanem, HERE i’ve already got her full bio posted, it’s kinda wordy, my bad, so i’ll try my best to sum her up down below, and hope you all enjoy reading on !

QUICK FACTS.

name: sanem yasemin reid

nickname(s): san, emmy ( mainly used by her adoptive mother :// ) 

d.o.b. / age: march 15th / 28

zodiac: pisces

gender: cis female

pronouns: she / her / hers

sexuality & romantic orientation: pansexual / panromantic

occupation: choreographer / owner of momentum dance studio / youtuber

faceclaim: one of my many wives melisa pamuk

trigger warning for mentions of death.

born in turkey, to very young parents, that while excited to be having her, were met with a harsh reality of traditional and unsupportive families, with no real means otherwise to raise her themselves, so they reluctantly gave her up for adoption. 

lawrence & alanah reid; who already had a 3 year old son and unfortunately unable to conceive anymore, had already been considering adoption when they scooped her up at just a few months old, giving her exactly the love and care her biological parents had been hoping for.

because of their respective careers, the family spent the majority of her childhood hopping all over the world, allowing sanem to call various cities & towns home. quickly fell in love with music and dance as a result of immersing into all the different cultures she’d grown up around.

at 15 her world came crashing down when her adoptive mother passed away while on a shoot when they were in argentina, slipping off the edge of a ravine, with rescue efforts not being able to get to her on time. 

after that, her father hauled them to redwood bay, her adoptive parents hometown, for a permanent stay, accepting a job in portland. sanem lost a lot of her spark for the next few years, becoming a lot more closed off and stopped dancing. until eventually her father sat her down for a much needed conversation, reminding her of the light she was, and how alanah would always be smiling down on her.

it was enough of a kick to pull the old her back, slowly yet steadily. at first with joining classes at the local dance studio, before eventually becoming an instructor, and starting her own youtube channel that showcased her class routines, and the tutorials to them. 

from there her career took off faster; from teaching classes in various studios across the country & abroad, to ending up on the world of dance tour, and choreographing routines for a few different artists. her styling ranges from hip hop, being the more prominent one she teaches, to jazz, latin, fusion and more. 

today she lives in meadowlark hills; with her bengal cat nyx, and shiba inu cairo, keeping herself based out of redwood bay, especially when the previous owner of momentum announced he was leaving and handed the keys to the studio over to her. 

has also been in touch with her birth parents, and family in turkey, after seeking them out not too long ago, always curious about them, and finally wanting to learn the reason they’d given her up. they talk pretty consistently, and she’s gone back to visit a couple other times, in order to get to know them, and her 2 younger siblings more.

OHHH AND uhhh she happens to be elaheh’s muse / not really secret affair and catch her constantly making the only heart eyes at that woman kjdgkdfjgn

CONNECTIONS.

FRIENDS: whether close or not, anyone that might’ve broken through her guarded shell when she first moved to town, or that she’s gradually made over the years.

CONFIDANT: i mean i would like to have that one best best friend that she can go to for any and everything, like platonic soulmates if you will. 

(FRI)ENEMIES: they may not always get along, or at all even, just gimmie all the pettiness thanks.

HOOKUPS: self explanatory really, and open to pretty much anyone.

EXES: she’d never truly been one for commitment, but i don’t see why there maybe couldn’t have been one or two short lived things.

STUDENTS: idkk anyone interested in learning to dance, she’s always down to teach her passion to anyone who’s up for it.

literally anything.

that’s it i’m done, and if you’ve made it THIS FAR wow bless, and please plot with me <33, feel free to hit my i.m.s or message me on d*scord ( gay van buren#4248 ) not gonna be in the ooc chat, simply due to bad experience and, while i’m sure you’re all LOVELYYYY, they make my anxiety flare up. 

[remembernorules-blog]

Hi guys! I know the face claim change might be jarring to some. I guess I’m wondering out of you wonderful followers--who might still want to do things with me?

[crwally-blog]

ooc: hello, it’s your friendly neighborhood trash can! *finger guns* i would love to have some fresh threads for wally! i owe two (i think) starters on him that take place during the last few days of school, but it’d be awesome to have some event threads! 🙏 

if you want a random event starter, please comment with a word, phrase, song, or really whatever you’d like! AND IF YOU’D RATHER IN-DEPTH PLOT (FOR THE EVENT OR OTHERWISE), JUST HIT LIKE AND I’LL NYOOM TO YOUR IMS. ILY ALL <3

[jxxhyuk-blog]

( JEON WONWOO | CISMALE | HE/HIM ) you’ve heard of matthew kim, right ?? wait, really ? they’re the friendly writer who’s way too obsessed with music, geek culture, & web toons. somehow, they managed to major in english in college. i think they’re twenty-one. they’re the kind of boy next door that enjoys doodling all over his notebooks or any papers around him, staying home to read a good book or watch a tv show instead of going out, & writing song lyrics. some people told me they’re supposedly pretty imaginative, supportive, & considerate. but i think they’re just blinded by a pretty face. they’re clearly laid-back, forgetful, & compulsive. their favorite thing about buzzfeed is the quizzes.

‘SUP KIDS! this is your friendly neighborhood spider-man hels, the mid-20s old ass woman girl who typed an app in record time and almost hurt herself (the problems of being old, istg). you know what else is a record? me, having a 21 year old muse. IT’S BEEN MONTHS, ISTG, I’M THE GRANDMA FRIEND™ (please refer to this post) I CAN’T KEEP UP WITH YOU YOUNGSTERS. but here i am, SO LOVE MY BABY GEEK LAZY BOY. he’s very Relatable as you all might notice in this post and in future interactions djaskld. ALSO!! i didn’t forget the people in my ims, ok, i will get there in a bit. but if we ain’t talking yet and you’d like to plot with matthew, like this post and i will message you! enough about ooc bs, let’s go to the interesting (and actual helpful to plot) part, shall we!?

everyone knows him by matthew, but that’s his “adopted” english name. his real name is kim joohyuk. he’s too used to matthew (or matt), though!! his mother (and me) is the only one who still calls him joohyuk or hyukie.  

talking about his mother: she is his only family. she got pregnant during high school, the child was obviously her boyfriend’s, but he couldn’t accept the situation (it would ruin his future, the college applications he had already sent, would make his parents drop him, for sure). on another hand, she never thought on not having the child, as she grew up in a christian, catholic family. telling her parents was a pain, though―they said how disappointed they were and how they would not help her, that she would have to take full responsibility for her doings. and so she did: through struggles of moving far away from her family and past for her own sake, she gave birth to matthew in new jersey.  

the age difference between he and his mom is 17, almost 18. that being said, it comes with no surprise that she is his best friend. she raised him, making sure he would never think she didn’t support him, and basically put all her future on him. he knows her story and she is the person he admires the most and never stops trying to make her even more proud of him.  

truth be told, he had a pretty normal childhood. he was a happy, intelligent kid, very accepting of others, had a lot of friends and played with them a lot. he also played soccer growing up and, tbh, he’s pretty good? though he became kind lazy the older he got...  

although bullied in middle and high school, he managed to keep himself together. of course, though, that made him grow a bit more introverted and insecure, more into trying to enjoy his own person and not putting much expectation on other people (or even himself).  

he was always a year ahead, thus, he got into college earlier and recently graduated in nyu. he was an intern in buzzfeed new york, but after graduation, he got transfered to atlanta as a writer (he couldn’t be happier, tbh).  

although his mother doesn’t live with him, she did move to atlanta too. talk about the best mom and hype woman in the world.  

i wouldn’t say he is new around here, because, you know, he’s been in atlanta for months now so...  

EXTRA STUFF...  

“has he ever been to sdcc?” you can bet he saved money just to go literally to the other side of the country (as he lived in new york) just to go to sdcc (he went at least three years in a roll during college). “but there’s a comic con in new york!” he doesn’t care, he wanted SAN DIEGO’s.  

“what kind of tv shows he likes?” sci-fi, anything that doesn’t make any sense, comedy shows, anything that makes him think too hard.  

though his taste for books follow this same thing, he doesn’t deny “classics”... he’s a bookworm... he reads anything, truly.  

“marvel or dc?” he prefers to die than to choose (but he is trash for xmen, so... you see the problem...)  

as for music... he listens pretty much anything? it really depends on his mood.  

which brings me to: he will sing disney movies songs, he might even sing high school musical (rip son), and he will quote animation movies and expect you to get it (and if you don’t, he will shake his head with a tsk)  

ngl, he’s kind of a hopeless romantic. you know those people who believe in fate and “things happen for a reason”? so... matthew.  

he’s always writing something... either for work or for himself. from song lyrics to actual stories, either messy organized on his desk or on his laptop’s folders.  

ALSO! his specs are for real... he has eyestrain and little astigmatism. but no, he doesn’t use them all the time, but at work? while writing? definitely!   

so, that all being said, let’s talk about PLOTS: anything is very wanted, so bring it on, fAM!! a best friend, close friends, ex fling (i am saying fling bc??? “has matthew ever dated for real?” idk man???), other writers!!!!!, people who try to drag him out and he gets all “my tv shows won’t be watched by themselves”, people to complain about his mess at work, people to press him to do his stuff on time, people from the tasty team that has to kick him out before he gets the food, neighbors!!!!!....... seriously, anything, just come @ me and let’s brainstorm

[ardentflower-blog]

gonna work on revamping this blog which means :

cleaning out the blog

cleaning out those i’m following

fixing my theme + bio

and redoing icons

[wingmanriley-blog]

also here’s a starter call! 

[wingmanriley-blog]

do i,,,, come back here again ??? 

[wingmanriley-blog]

so...... is now the time that i come back here again???

[wingmanriley-blog]

i’m 1 away from 200 followers and i love you all

[wingmanriley-blog]

ri, every time he sees cap: *tom holland voice* oh my god it’s captain america

[wingmanriley-blog]

oh hi it’s munday but i’m not taking new pictures today so here’s one from my sorority’s formal and one from my little brother’s graduation

[wingmanriley-blog]

pls someone give me a defense of steve in civil war my friend is on some bullshit right now and i’m just... too tired to argue for my son

[wingmanriley-blog]

someone pls come be ri’s friend he doesn’t have a lot of those