#“He is a huge red flag”
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its all fun and games until i fall in love with this character of a such a smaller fandom that I don’t have anyone to ramble or talk about NEITHER i have the necessary fanarts nor fics.
LOOK A MY POOKIE CROWE GUYS, HE MAY BE OBSESSIVE AND EVEN ISANE BUT HE LIKES ANIMALS AND KNOWS HOW TO COOK ☹️☹️💜💜
#⋆ ࣪ 𖥔 . crowe lynn#Justice for this green haired mf#I am in love w/ him#And I won’t hide#“But he is a maniac”#“He is a huge red flag”#Jokes on all of you i am into that shit 🤬🤬#I wish i could kiss crowe#And eat (him) his food 🙁
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he says i hate everyone except you and that is addictive and that is kind of romantic and beautiful because you're young and you're kind of a sarcastic asshole too and you don't like bad boys, per say, but you don't really like good ones either. and you like that you were the exception, it felt like winning.
except life is not a romance book, and he was kind of being honest. he doesn't learn to be nice to your friends. he only tolerates your family. you have to beg him to come with you to birthday parties, he complains the whole time. you want to go on a date but - people are often there, wherever you're going. he's just so angry. about everything, is the thing. in the romance book, doesn't he eventually soften? can't you teach him, through your own sense of whimsy and comfort?
at first - you know introverts often need smaller friend groups, and honestly, you're fine staying at home too. you like the small, tidy life you occupy. you're not going to punish him for his personality type.
except: he really does hate everyone but you. which means he doesn't get along with his therapist. which means he has no one to talk to except for you. which means you take care of him constantly, since he otherwise has no one. which means you sometimes have to apologize for him. which means he keeps you home from seeing your friends because he hates them. you're the single exception.
about a decade from this experience, you'll type into google: how to know if a relationship is codependent.
he wraps an arm around you. i hate everyone except you. these days, you're learning what he's actually confessing is i have very little practice being kind.
#i used to think it was romantic too and then i was like. now i see it as a HUGE red flag#writeblr#it is also almost EXCLUSIVELY said by immature ppl who think this is normal#fyi even if u think it's funny and ur like 'im an introvert it's just TRUE' like. you need therapy (ily tho)#healed introversion is just ''i would prefer to be by myself'' not ''i hate every person'' ... hate is not normal. that is not healthy#im sorry. i know it feels accurate. but if you're walking around with that kind of rage....#1. you're making a LOT of assumptions about every single person u have ever met. which is often unfair and unkind#and also usually involves judging people based on their worst moments or little mistakes#2. you are being unfair to the person who is ur ''exception''#3. there is a VAST difference between ''ur my favorite person'' and ''the ONLY person i like.''#idk i think this is just a personal bias thing tbh#im sure there are people who have this experience normally#but i have YET to find a man who thinks like this and ISNT absolute DOGSHIT. although tbh.... like. im sure he exists#when u hit like 30 some of the things that were once kind of hot now just sound fucking exhausting. like ''im in a band''#edit in the tags: i used to kind of be like this too. but the thing is that like. my life became so much more peaceful#once i started believing that people are generally good. like yes i am mad at the world at large#but it's just.... a very hard way to live. you're not a bad person or wrong for the ways other people hurt you and taught you to be angry.#but that anger will continue to hurt YOU. it will punish YOU. it will prevent YOU from making new deep connections. it will protect you yes#but it will also cause MASSIVE blowback. bc if you lose the One Person... your life will fall apart. i know this personally.#i really recommend just trying to be... cautiously optimistic instead. like. yes#people can be horrible and cruel and there are some communities (incels for example) that aren't worth that optimism#but i think like... most people will hold a door for you . most people want to help you find your wallet .#i hope one day you are able to find peace. i hope that rage eventually smooths over. i know how hard it is PERSONALLY#and i know what must have happened to you. and im deeply deeply sorry we share the same wound.#but i promise - sometimes we all need someone else to help us carry the weight. eventually the rage has to die so that we can let help in#i had to spend years biting at outstretched hands. i still often do. im still very wary . and my heart breaks that you flinch too.#here's the thing: i don't blame you. but we were both acting out of fear and pain. .... not out of healthy behavior. and ... change#was needed. i needed change too. rage was useful for a while. then it just left me isolated and bitter. i had to (with effort)#choose to let that rage go. and let people in . VERY SLOWLY THO LOL
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I am crying
There are people calling Fit and Bagi the RedFlagDuo
And now they are also calling Tina and Pac the ColorBlindDuo
Kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
#qsmp#qsmp pac#qsmp tina#qsmp fit#qsmp bagi#i love like we act as if pac and tina are not a huge red flag too#fit did not said he would kill pac#bagi is not the yandere in their relationship
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I don’t mean this in a mean or elitist way but I’m not like terribly concerned about bad/strange takes on KNT S3 from people who haven’t read the manga because I feel like a lot of stuff that happens in this arc makes more sense and/or redeems itself later on…Stuff like for example how weird and stupid Kazehaya acts this season makes a bit more sense once you know more about his relationship with his father and to authority etc…and if you find Ayane and Kento kind of weird and unnatural or abrupt that is sort of the point and key to how it unravels for them later on (and to Ayane’s character arc which is only just starting to unfold here)…and Ryu and Chizu not getting together yet might not satisfy your need for instant gratification but does make sense in terms of both of their characters and how long they’re going to need to figure their new dynamic out after 17 years of acting completely platonic…and their ultimately getting together feels more natural and believable because they took their time with it…I could go on but like ofc the conclusion of S3 isn’t going to be totally satisfying because it isn’t even the end of the second third of the story. And that’s fine but it’s not bad writing (it’s actually incredibly well thought out writing and characterisation) it’s just the risk of adapting things this way unfortunately
#kimi ni todoke#KnT spoilers#i’m not even a huge kazehaya fan he’s one of the characters that interests me least but i even feel defensive of him atm lol#some ppl talking like he’s suddenly a red flag GET REALLL he’s not evil he just hates himself and he’s 17
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It really is bold of Raoul to go "Christine, there is no Phantom of the Opera!" when 1) Christine disappeared for a whole fucking night with her "Angel of Music" and had a very mixed review on that experience, 2) everyone regularly receives notes from the Opera Ghost and they pay him a goddamn salary, and 3) the Phantom literally just murdered a man in front of a packed theater not two minutes prior.
#raoul sure is A Guy#huge props to John Riddle for being so talented and handsome and charismatic#that i was actually on team raoul for the first time in my life i am actually in love with him#like yeah neither of them are good options for christine#but raoul is so pretentious and bland that we all just overlook all of the Phantom's red flags because at least he's a romantic & dramatic#but this time? john riddle??#no contest christine go with handsome man with gorgeous voice who doesn't live in the sewer basement#anyway im still on a phantom high after seeing it#poto
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It truly is me and my terrible taste against the world
#guys you heard him!!!! we are curse soulmates!!!! me and who#oh you guys I fear my mind is massive and my brain HUGE#I KNEW RUI GAVE MAIN CHARACTER VIBES FROM THE INTRO AND I PICKED CORRECT GOD I LOVE BEING SO GOOD AT THIS GAMES SKSKSK#OH my headcanon is going wild rn#Haku AND Rui???? on my same wavelength this game was truly made for me and me only my favs so far together oh#good for my oc that she has two hands and can hold them with both haku and Rui! great taste i fear runs in her blood#he might be a red flag but good for us our fav color is red and that won’t stop us !!!#I’ve had Rui for like 10 lines of dialogue and I ss all the scene already oh I know my delusional ass#tokyo debunker#I also love you Haku anything for you Beyonce!!!#Rui#haku
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i personally think there was no need to make remarks about age
#i dont need to feel any more ashamed about this when i shouldn't feel ashamed about this in the first place#because three years is not a HUGE difference. it IS an age gap but it isn't a GIGANTIC red flag-waving age gap.#but i guess for a guy it is if the girl is older#but anyway man it was comment after comment line after line and i felt like i was standing in front of a firing squad#not gonna lie my whole chest literally hurts when i think about it too deeply!#i have literally never been told before that i'm not an option because i'm too old#i also personally (and this is a bit bitter of me to say so maybe) i resent the fact that he did take the time to tell me that he was not#personally attracted to me. and then add at the end of the conversation that if i were younger he'd consider it#like. you literally told me you don't like me that way and aren't attracted to me that way#so the only reason you'd consider me as an option really is the fact that you know I'M interested in you ????#anyway makes me want to throw up:)#the waiting room chapter
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Oh he’s so crazy. He’s so insane. BUT I LOVE HIM. MMMMM. When I saw him the first time on screen I melted and squealed.
#ror loki#loki record of ragnarok#MMMMM YUM YUM#he’s so crazy#his red flags are huge but so are his-#ror#record of ragnarok
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I hate him. Listen to me, do you understand? I hate him. I hate him, I hate him, I hate him, I hate him.
[seething with lust]
#hes horrible and i hate him#nasty man#i want him so bad#but i do hate him#he is fucked up and unsettling and I need him so bad it makes me look stupid#my attraction to him and more specifically to what he is capable of is in itself a huge red flag#this is why i should never be allowed to have intimate partners#why is my type homicidal women and predetory men?? who let this happen???#john tyler#tell me your secrets#tmys#hamish linklater
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ngl how i feel about ludgers qualifications as a teacher/professor is gonna heavily depend on how he treats erendir and wolfberg in the sidestories
#we do not talk enough about how biased ludger cherish was as a prof#bro had been letting his personal feelings affect how he does his job too much and thats a huge red flag for me#rambles
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is anyone feeling like khun becomes a stalker and is the one who stabs vivi? that dude gives me such creepy vibes, especially after ep 4!
#i got a weird feeling from him from the start#and he's already being weirdly possessive and trying to sabotage her other relationships#huge red flags!#but we shall see#reverse 4 you#reverse 4 you the series
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So the stocker we hired after the last one ghosted us missed a few days because his car got hit and then he had a funeral to go to. Ok, we're very understanding people. But he assured us over and over that he'd be here today. Surprise, it's 5:10 and he's not here yet! And he's been good about being on time and communicating when he can't come in, so I'm assuming that means he's ghosted us too.
I don't get it. I know retail isn't great but we're a pretty good place to work.
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#date went rly well but it was SO rainy and cold lol. he's really#really sweet and we might hang out again and i think he just kind of asked me out on impulse LOL#no red flags etc we have a lot in common; he's lived in washington and in california for a long time so we got to talk about that#hes a dnd nerd and even with a beard he's even better looking in person which was... very intimidating#i was trying REALLY hard not to stare at his hair but it's like 3 feet long and bright red and smooth and beautiful and#also he has huge brown/hazel eyes and a rly nice smile so i really felt like a potato with bad skin rip#i think he was relieved i wanted to have a sort of low-key and chill hangout instead lol and i think we'll hang out again#but unfortunately bc it was more just like chatting and gettign to know each other i didn't get the chance to be like sooooo im asexual#so im still nervous abt that#and he's so sweet that i feel rly bad if that was a huge disappointment for him :(#anyway#that's how my date went who woulda thought stupid old goblin me would go on a first date with a very beautiful ginger wizard boy at age 32#tbd
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finally watching Barbarian (2022) and this man has negative charisma tbh. incredibly funny to cast a man this good looking in a role like this.
#james talks#james watches stuff#barbarian#barbarian 2022#watch the stupid ass twist be he's some fucking virgin 500 year old or something and why he uses 'young lady'#man has so many fucking red flags#like he's trying to be genuinely nice but it also reads as such huge blaring sirens#casting a skarsgard brother for this was an incredible choice btw#also tbh so far the filmmaking is fun but i don't know what it really wants to be like if it's trying to be traditional horror or—#despite my distaste for the term it has unfortunately stuck around in the discourse so forgive my usage but—#it wants to be more cerebral or like 'elevated horror'#anyway uh the opening had some really bad fake rain#back to the movie i go
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My family is supposed to meet my sister’s boyfriend on Sunday but idk if she wants me there. She’s really nice and she would never say anything but I’m scared that I’ll make him uncomfortable by not talking to anyone. I don’t want to embarrass her, I feel like I should just stay home
#but also. i need to make sure he’s good enough for her#i don’t trust him from what I’ve heard#and if he can’t handle disabled people that’s a huge red flag
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I love the duality of Griffin in the 1933 the invisible man movie, in the village he says that he wouldn't just crawl out of the window like a common criminal but only 10 minutes later he goes out full naked, steals a bike, breaks in a shop window and tramps over several people, you know like a common criminal but I guess not really because he's caked invisible
#shout-out to Claude Rain's ass#also I loved Jack every time he was on screen but Kemp was insufferable#how he spoke to Flora was giving me huge red flags
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