#‘i’m sure glad i don’t talk to xyz anymore because they would have blown their lid abt this. lol anyways-‘
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I think the worst part abt being a teenager was the idea a lot of my peers/“friends” had of only one person being able to have a certain hobby/aesthetic/interest/etc. and that being “Their Thing” they have sole-ownership of.
and now as an adult i’m just like “OH THANK GOD YOU ALSO ENJOY THAT THING / HAD THAT EXPERIENCE. I’M NOT ALONE”. if anyone tried to tell me that listening to a certain artist or buying a shirt Made Them Insecure. or that they “owned” it or something. I’d just go “not my problem + skill issue + open your heart or Die” and block them lmao
#dis.txt#not every person obviously but enough that sometimes i engage with / buy something and go#‘i’m sure glad i don’t talk to xyz anymore because they would have blown their lid abt this. lol anyways-‘#i think if i hadn’t been in that environment i wouldn’t have grappled with it myself b/c looking back it wasn’t a true insecurity#just like. autism mimicking and trying to mask / not be bullied again which. hm don’t like that#if this is not a common experience and you go ‘wow your life kinda sucks’ than yeah. yeah it did. but we move past it and Thrive#anyways i’m getting back into the beach mermaid aesthetic i loved as a kid. and being a horsegirl/horseboy
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