#[ i totally...winged it on the face tbh o.o ]

[funkymbtifiction]

Hi, Charity! I have an EFJ friend who I believe is a 621 (still unsure about her core, but most of the times I lean towards 6 since she’s very reactive and quick to express negative emotions).

This would probably make her a 6, yes. 6 EFJs do not image-manage in the way 2s do, which is to cultivate how you see them 24/7 by identifying what is valuable in them (how generous, loving, supportive, sweet, optimistic, and selfless they are). 2/EFJs are positive types who usually self-censor negativity because of an idea in their mind of how they 'should' be optimistic and cheerful, so as not to burden other people with their negative feelings.

She always mentions how much she enjoys when people remember things she cares about and when people simply worry about her, even if it’s in a small way. Since she’s 24/7 focused on people, she’s the friend who will remember details about others, so I guess it’d be natural for her to expect the same attention in return. It doesn’t happen often, though.

That's sad, and unfortunately, the plight many nice EFJs suffer from -- their lives are totally about other people and their feelings, but they are often neglected in return. Especially when dominant social types (and a lot of them are), relationships, closeness, intimacy, being paid attention to, responded to, thought of, is everything.

A couple of days ago, a few family members of hers went out for lunch and didn’t invite her. She said that they were discussing where they’d go at the living room while she was working (she’s a designer, so she works from home most of the time and has a pretty flexible schedule) and they left without asking if she’d like to go with them or not.

Wow.

How incredibly rude of them, to discuss where to eat IN HER HOUSE and not invite her out of common courtesy. o.O

I asked her why she didn’t ask them if she could join, to which she responded “Well, they’re aware that I like eating out! They could’ve invited me if they wanted my company, but they didn’t, so why would I invite myself?”

It's also rude from a "social" perspective to invite yourself anywhere, and that may have been on her mind or in the back of it. EFJs are very attuned to what's "done" and what's not, especially someone who is triple super-ego and highly aware of appropriateness.

It’s not the first time I see her acting like this, constantly she wants people to “guess” her needs as well as she does with others, otherwise, she gets upset (she won’t say it right away, but it’s always written all over her face — and if you ask her what happened, she’ll quickly say what’s going on). Could a 6 with a 2 fix behave like this? Or is it something only a 2 core would feel? Thanks for the insights <3

A 6 could be like this, yes. Even if you are a 6 core, 2 fixes are still drowning in super-ego -- I SHOULD... not be selfish, not assert my needs, not have any needs, only give generously without expectation of return... etc, never mind that a 2 fix also keeps score and secretly wants love, affection, closeness, intimacy, and gratitude in return. All 2s and 2 fixers must learn to admit they have relationship needs and to learn to 'take up space' by asking for those needs to be met, but because they always are thinking about what everyone else needs, anticipating that, and meeting it ahead of time, they forget that other types are not as attuned to them as they would be.

TBH, a 2 core probably would have addressed this with them -- either from a 1 wing stance of "that was incredibly rude and you hurt my feelings" way or done so as a 2w3 with more subtlety but still an assertive tendency to get the attention the 2 wants. (I mean, since when does Molly Weasley hold her tongue?) It's more 6ish to allow other people to run off without you and just accept it, or say they had a good reason, or try to be "rational" instead of admitting to how hurt you felt by it.

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first kiss

Genre/Summary: You, 1:08 A.M, I was just thinking about this but have any of you had your first kiss?

Member: Taeyong/Reader

Word Count: N/A

A/N: literally had a conversation about this earlier sorta so i got inspiration from that. haechan nor jungwoo are in this because it’s 2 am and i’m sleepy. enjoy owo

You, 1:04 A.M hey. Hey guys

You, 1:06 A.M any of you awake?

You, 1:08 A.M cool I’m going to talk anyways

You, 1:08 A.M I was just thinking about this but have any of you had your first kiss?

You, 1:08 A.M because I had mine in middle school but it was because of a dare

You, 1:08 A.M and you know… me and ty… haven’t really

You, 1:09 A.M WAIT TAEYONG HAVE YOU HAD YOUR FIRST KISS???

You, 1:09 A.M oh my god taeyong probably did he’s way too beautiful not to have dated someone

You, 1:09 A.M he’s probably dated like a HUNDRED PEOPLE

You, 1:10 A.M …to be honest though you’re all pretty attractive……..

You, 1:12 A.M ……………

You, 1:13 A.M I don’t know why I’m friends with any of you nor why I asked if you had your first kiss

You, 1:13 A.M BECAUSE OF FUCKING COURSE YOU ALL HAVE JUST LOOK AT YOU

You, 1:13 A.M I hate all of you

Johnster, 1:14 A.M y/n please go to sleep you have class in the morning

You, 1:14 A.M JOHNNY ANSWER MY QUESTION

Johnster, 1:14 A.M GO TO SLEEP WE CAN ANSWER TOMORROW

You, 1:14 A.M YOU’RE GOING TO MAKE ME SUFFER THAT LONG???

You, 1:15 A.M MY DREAMS WILL BE FILLED WITH DESPAIR KNOWING ALL MY FRIENDS HAVE HAD KISSES AND I HAVEN’T HAD ANYTHING BUT A DARE KISS THE DUMB BOY DIDN’T EVEN WANT TO KISS ME I’M GOING TO FUCKING CRY

Johnster, 1:16 A.M …you are ridiculous I hope you know that

Johnster, 1:16 A.M go to sleep

You, 1:16 A.M you go to sleep

Johnster, 1:16 A.M okay goodnight

You, 1:16 A.M no wait don’t leave me

You, 1:20 A.M johnny please

You, 1:20 A.M wow betrayed by my own father

Johnster, 1:20 A.M I hate how memey you are

You, 1:20 A.M FATHER

Johnster, 1:20 A.M if I’m your father LISTEN TO ME AND SLEEP

You, 1:20 A.M …touche

You, 1:21 A.M goodnight father

Johnster, 1:21 A.M Okay stop it’s weird now

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Yuto (CHANGE MY NAME Y/N), 9:09 A.M why can’t y/n sleep at a natural time

Johnster, 9:09 A.M because she’s y/n -_-

You, 9:09 A.M you guys act like you don’t love waking up to my millions of texts

Brother Do, 9:10 A.M just mute her that’s what I do

You, 9:10 A.M Σ(T□T)

You, 9:10 A.M betrayed by my best friend

You, 9:10 A.M can you guys believe

Johnster, 9:11 A.M yes

Brother Do, 9:11 A.M yes

Yuto (CHANGE MY NAME Y/N), 9:11 A.M yes

ILLvocalsTAE, 9:11 A.M yes

Marker LEE, 9:11 A.M yes

Winwinner chicken dinner, 9:11 A.M yes

Youknow, 9:11 A.M yes

Pupper Tae <3, 9:11 A.M yes

You, 9:11 A.M babe.

You, 9:12 A.M betrayed by my own boyfriend

You, 9:12 A.M can you guys believe

You, 9:12 A.M wait don’t answer that

You, 9:12 A.M OH SPEAKING OF ANSWERING

You, 9:12 A.M ANSWER MY QUESTION FROM LAST NIGHT

Brother Do, 9:13 A.M what was it??

You, 9:13 A.M PLEASE UNMUTE ME DOYOUNG

You, 9:13 A.M I WANTED TO KNOW IF YOU GUYS HAVE HAD YOUR FIRST KISS

You, 9:13 A.M YOU’RE ALL REALLY ATTRACTIVE IT HAS TO BE YES RIGHT

Johnster, 9:13 A.M that’s not the case for everyone you know

Johnster, 9:13 A.M you think haechannie or mark have had theirs?

You, 9:14 A.M um you do know mark is stupidly popular right? I’M SURE HE HAS

Johnster, 9:14 A.M …no way he would’ve told me

Johnster, 9:14 A.M MARK

Marker LEE, 9:14 A.M I’M ALMOST TWENTY JOHNNY

You, 9:14 A.M the little bird flies out of the mama’s nest…

You, 9:14 A.M to spread its own wings…

You, 9:15 A.M wait a fucking second MARK WHO ARE YOU KISSING

Marker LEE, 9:15 A.M oh my gosh no one no one!!!!!!

Johnster, 9:15 A.M mark you’re too young to be kissing anyone

Marker LEE, 9:15 A.M once again, almost twenty

Yuto (CHANGE MY NAME Y/N), 9:15 A.M I’ve had my first kiss y/n

You, 9:15 A.M OHH???? YUTO STEPS UP TO THE RING

You, 9:15 A.M *yuta

Yuto (CHANGE MY NAME Y/N), 9:15 A.M I can’t tell if you’re doing it on purpose or if your spellcheck is really that bad

You, 9:15 A.M : D

Yuto (CHANGE MY NAME Y/N), 9:16 A.M -_- jerk

You, 9:16 A.M anyways first kiss tell me about it!!!!

Yuto (CHANGE MY NAME Y/N), 9:16 A.M It was back in elementary school

Yuto (CHANGE MY NAME Y/N), 9:16 A.M me and this girl sat next to each other and she kissed my cheek after I protected her from a dog

Yuto (CHANGE MY NAME Y/N), 9:17 A.M I dream about her every night

You, 9:17 A.M …wow a cheek kiss not what I was looking for but I’ll take it

You, 9:17 A.M TAEIL WHAT ABOUT YOU

ILLvocalsTAE, 9:17 A.M I haven’t yet ;;;;;;

You, 9:17 A.M …oldest member is kiss free

ILLvocalsTAE, 9:17 A.M I’m just waiting for the right girl

You, 9:17 A.M sounds fake mr pervert

You, 9:18 A.M JOHNNY WHAT ABOUT YOU

Johnster, 9:18 A.M pretty sure I kissed a few girls back in high school?

Johnster, 9:18 A.M all the girls I hung out with were usually into my friends instead of me though so i didn’t have many

You, 9:19 A.M same!!!!

Johnster, 9:19 A.M the life we live

Johnster, 9:19 A.M and now here you are dating one of my best friends

You, 9:19 A.M …wow I’m sorry for leaving you behind

Brother Do, 9:20 A.M I’ve had mine too

You, 9:20 A.M WOAH BEST FRIEND?? AND HE DIDN’T TELL ME???

Brother Do, 9:20 A.M it was with you why would I have to tell you when you were there

You, 9:20 A.M o.o

You, 9:20 A.M WE KISSED?/?????

Pupper Tae <3, 9:20 A.M you’ve kissed?

You, 9:22 A.M DOYOUNG DON’T LEAVE US HANGING

Brother Do, 9:30 A.M it was on your birthday last year

You, 9:30 A.M oh now he replies -_-

Brother Do, 9:30 A.M you got drunk and were all “ty ty let me kiss you” because dy sounded like ty

Brother Do, 9:30 A.M so you got us mixed up

Pupper Tae <3, 9:30 A.M and you let her kiss you?

Brother Do, 9:31 A.M well when she pushes you to the ground it’s kind of hard to stop her

Brother Do, 9:31 A.M she’s dumb and kissing her isn’t even that great

You, 9:31 A.M I HAVEN’T HAD PRACTICE

You, 9:31 A.M DID THIS REALLY HAPPEN

Brother Do, 9:31 A.M of course it did because right after you puked all over me

Brother Do, 9:31 A.M I’d never forget something like that

You, 9:33 A.M …I don’t remember therefore it didn’t happen

You, 9:33 A.M moving on sicheng

You, 9:40 A.M sicheng

You, 9:42 A.M DOES HE HAVE ME MUTED TOO

You, 9:42 A.M T_T

You, 9:42 A.M Jaehyun what about you??

Youknow, 9:42 A.M I actually think my first kiss was with mark

You, 9:42 A.M WHAT

Johnster, 9:42 A.M dude what

Youknow, 9:43 A.M don’t take it the wrong way okay

Marker LEE, 9:43 A.M jae why

Youknow, 9:43 A.M we were wrestling on a hotel bed and we fell off

Youknow, 9:43 A.M and ended up smacking our faces together

Johnster, 9:43 A.M oh my god I can’t believe you didn’t tell us

Marker LEE, 9:43 A.M IT WAS EMBARRASSING

Youknow, 9:43 A.M rather than kissing though I think it was mostly teeth and face against face

You, 9:44 A.M this is the funniest thing I’ve ever read in my life

You, 9:44 A.M yall idiots

Marker LEE, 9:44 A.M y/n ;;

You, 9:44 A.M still cute though marker <3

You, 9:45 A.M I’m totally counting that as a first kiss though

You, 9:45 A.M OH LAST BUT NOT LEAST

You, 9:45 A.M kind of the guy I’ve been wondering about this entire time

You, 9:45 A.M yongie?

Pupper Tae <3, 9:45 A.M no

You, 9:45 A.M no?

Pupper Tae <3, 9:45 A.M I’ve never kissed anyone

You, 9:45 A.M so…… then I’d be your first?

Pupper Tae <3, 9:45 A.M mmhmm

You, 9:45 A.M ///// I wanna kiss you now ////

Brother Do, 9:46 A.M this is why I have her muted

Pupper Tae <3, 9:46 A.M when are you free?

You, 9:46 A.M after noon. Wanna have lunch together?

Pupper Tae <3, 9:46 A.M I’ll make food and bring it to you

Pupper Tae <3, 9:46 A.M is that okay?

You, 9:46 A.M of course!

You, 9:46 A.M //////////// I’ll give you lots of kisses then /////////

Pupper Tae <3, 9:46 A.M :) I’ll look forward to it

Johnster, 9:47 A.M can we not in the group chat

Marker LEE, 9:47 A.M tbh it’s really cute

Marker LEE, 9:47 A.M hyung is so red right now

You, 9:47 A.M REALLY

You, 9:47 A.M ////// SO CUTE TY /////

Pupper Tae <3, 9:47 A.M you’re cuter

You, 9:47 A.M EGFBN NKJDVKJEJK can I just skip class

Pupper Tae <3, 9:48 A.M sure I’ll make breakfast instead

Johnster, 9:48 A.M DO NOT

You, 9:48 A.M father please

Johnster, 9:48 A.M GO TO CLASS

You, 9:48 A.M : (((( but ty

Johnster, 9:48 A.M CLASS

You, 9:49 A.M yes father

Pupper Tae <3, 9:50 A.M see you at lunch then <3

You, 9:50 A.M <333333

You, 9:50 A.M unless father doesn’t allow it

Johnster, 9:50 A.M STOP MAKING IT WEIRD

[oceannocturne]

S2E2 of Titans

Because I got my eyes dilated and can’t do homework

Spoilers under cut!

RIGHT OUT THE GATE WITH THE DICK JOKES THIS IS WHAT I CAME FOR

Dick is totally a trekkie nerd pass it on

I love Ryan Potter as Beast Boy but rn I’m getting serious Tim Drake vibes from him and I miss my boy

BATTRAINING FTW

This is incredibly sexy ngl

“If I’m not Robin, who’re you?” WHEN WILL WE GET NIGHTWING

Did Hank retire? Pls tell me he retired. I just want him and Dawn to be happy on a ranch with horses and lots of space. He’s so good he deserves so much. 

He went through recovery!! He got help!!! I’m so proud of him!!!!!

“I’m good Donna. You don’t have to worry about me.” See, now I’m worried. 

I am living for this Wondergirl/Starfire banter!

“I’m starting to think Roy Harper isn’t always wrong.” ROY?!? WHERE IS HE???  Pls show me Roy oh pls put him in here I want to see my disaster son (not to be confused with my other ten disaster sons)

I love that people keep referring to the new titans as “the kids,” I love the older-sibling/parent-mentor-vibe

ROSE. FREAKING. WILSON. (looks like she lost her eye recently, will we see what happened?)

Why is Dick making cauliflower pizza xDD “If we hate eating, we have more time to train.”

Oh no Gar is scared of Dick :(

Now I’m wondering why Dick is getting so intense about training. Does he feel like he failed with Trigon? Is he trying to stop the others from failing like he did? What happened with the old Titans? Was there some kind of screw up or falling out that drove them apart and fueled Dick’s guilt complex?

I think Jason’s just ready to love anyone who punches a cop xD

Jason’s falling in love right before my eyes xD

ok so not only did Hank get clean and get his and Dawn’s dream of a ranch in Wyoming, but now he’s helping OTHER people get clean as well with horse therapy?? Find yourself a man, holy crap

Don’t poke sleeping assassins Dick

Is Dawn...is Dawn going after the people making drugs? I did not see this coming. I would’ve expected Hank to be the one to get violent O.O

Frick Dawn

Oh I don’t like this, keeping secrets in a relationship never ends well :/

Maybe this is sexist of me or whatever but I honestly didn’t expect Hank to be the reasonable one in this relationship and now my heart is breaking for him. He wants a happy marriage! And kids!! And a normal life!! I respect the heck out of that, and honestly the guy’s been through enough crap to more than deserve it. 

What the FRICK was in that meth?!??

Aaaaand Dick has adopted another stray. He is the new Batdad.

AND he’s spying on her. Total Bruce move.

They’re lucky they park the car weirdly far from the house. By all rights it should’ve exploded too xD

Superheroes keep getting dragged into the life even when they want to quit and while I’m excited that Hawk and Dove will continue to be part of Titans I also just feel my heart breaking for Hank :(

Rachel put her hand up to hold Jason back and I can’t tell if he was going to attack or fangirl over Rose cuz either is a valid option tbh xD

“She’s been here an hour and you guys are already obsessed with her.”

“Maybe her idea of paradise isn’t sharing a bathroom with you Jason.” Look, maybe I’m just starved for Jason content because everything I’ve seen about him is post-Ethiopia, post-Robin. But I love all these digs that humanize him and make him even more of an obnoxious dork (I bet he spends an hour doing his hair)

DICK CALLED THEM A FAMILY DC is finally delivering with the found family feels and I am L I VI N G

“Face it Dick you can’t resist a bird with a broken wing.”

“I didn’t help Jason.” “Can anyone help Jason?”

“She actually shimmers. Huh!” Donna’s look of disgust is amazing xD

Kori and Donna are the most badass team up and I love them ^.^ 

Lies Bruce doesn’t have a smartphone he has a Nokia because those are the only things that last longer than a week in his house.

“You and me kind of special.” ...anger issues she works out through vigilante violence? Cuz Dick and Bruce aren’t metas...

“How long did it take?” Dick asks like he isn’t fully aware that he was still sneaking out of the manor when he was like eighteen.

“Do you know why I stayed?” ...this is kinda weird exposition? Like don’t get me wrong, Dick talking with his dad is amazing, but he was like 12 when he came to live with Bruce. Wouldn’t he remember at least a little bit? ...although I guess my memories of 12 are a little fuzzy too, so *shrug*

“You’re a person” “More or less” B R UCE

Also is Bruce saying that Dick stayed because...he hated Bruce? I’m confused.

ROY IS CALLING DONNA oh pls oh pls put Roy in this show PLEASE

*GASP* another Tamaranean!!!

Well frick

I love how Dick says Rose is free to leave...and then doesn’t let her leave. 

I love that they’re really leaning into the whole “Dick Grayson can win over any superhero he is a universal constant” thing. It makes me happy ^.^

OK wait what exactly made the car explode?? Who is Dr. Light??

I can’t believe they’re actually running DNA analysis on her bloody eyepatch *eyeroll*