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Strong sub. Big strong subby puppy. You’re only able to pin him down when he lets you. You didn’t win dominance over him, he gave it to you. Tied up in restraints that only keep him down if he doesn’t try to struggle. And he doesn’t try. He trusts you, he relinquished himself to you, he lets you get him out of his own head, you couldn’t physically overpower him if you tried, but he lays under you nonetheless. I think trust is pretty damn hot.

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F*c&!ng First Aid: A Quick Guide to Common Sex Injuries

New from our founder, Heather Corinna, a guide for those sexual times that wind up more “ow” than “oooh.”

It’s remarkably easy to hurt ourselves in the pursuit of feeling good. From genital abrasions to broken skin to pulled muscles to infections to allergic reactions, even fractures or breaks, exploring our bodies and their capacities sexually can sometimes mean finding out⁠ what’s past a bodies’ limits. We can think there was enough lube, but who among us (cough) hasn’t found out at least once that there wasn’t? We can forget that when it feels to us like we couldn’t possibly get enough of something, our body parts may have an entirely different and considerably threshold (um). Heck, you can hurt yourself just getting a date a glass of water (says my once-broken toe, bitterly).

For whatever reason (probably a combination of ableism⁠, totally inhumane sexual⁠ ideals and maybe some leftover stuff from our DNA way back when we lived a wilder existence), if and when people get hurt during sex⁠, they often feel ashamed or embarrassed, like they have ruined something. Getting hurt in our bodies is as acceptable an experience as feeling good in them. It’s not “weak” to get hurt, and it doesn’t mean anyone failed at anything, it just means we’re living in the body of a mere mortal, not a sexual superhero. So, if some kind of sex injury happens to you or a partner⁠, don’t get hung up in negative feelings about it. Instead, turn your attention to yourself or whoever got hurt. Not only might you or they need physical care, caring for ourselves and each other in attentive, tender ways is only likely to enhance our sexual experiences and the ways we connect to ourselves or one another through them. This kind of care, much like general sexual aftercare, can be something that is a highlight of a sexual experience, even when something painful or bummerful happened which that care is centered around.

This simple guide covers the most common sexual injuries for people in the age group we serve, what needs to be done when and after they have happened, and how you can best prevent them. Read F*c&!ng First Aid: A Quick Guide to Common Sex Injuries over at Scarleteen.

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“god, you’re such a loser.” mid-fuck. ok so you want me to die. you want me to get so horny I pass away.

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Anyone else have a fetish where you yourself aren’t into it but you think other people being into it is ridiculously hot

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sorry i moaned when you took my chin and forced me to look up at you, it will happen again

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your butch, who’s usually so strong, so composed, is tied to the bed, her arms straining against the restraints as she watches you: bratty and absolutely irresistible, sitting there, running your fingers over your clit with a teasing smirk.

“baby, untie me,” she growls, her voice low and rough, her eyes dark with frustration. “you know I’ll make you feel so good. just let me touch you.”

but you ignore her, moaning softly as you slip two fingers inside yourself, your other hand running over your chest. your head falls back, your breath hitching dramatically.

“fuck, you look so good,” she groans, her muscles flexing as she pulls at the restraints. “i swear, baby, just untie me, and i’ll fill you up so good, you’ll forget all about teasing me.”

you look down at her, a playful pout on your lips. “oh, but why would i do that when you look so cute begging?” you tilt your head, your voice dripping with fake innocence. “besides, i think i like this… having you all tied up, helpless. watching me while i touch myself.”

“you’re such a fucking brat” she growls, but there’s a desperation in her voice that makes you grin.

“yeah? and you’re so needy.” you climb onto her lap, positioning yourself over her strap but refusing to sink down. instead, you run your hands over your chest, playing with your breasts as you grind against her, just enough to drive her crazy.

“fuck, baby, please,” she begs now, her voice cracking. “let me move. let me hold you. let me fill you up. you know you need me.”

“hmm, maybe,” you tease, your tone soft and breathy as you finally, slowly, take her strap inside you. you’re gasping as you sink down, your hands flying to your chest, and her eyes widen as a guttural moan escapes her lips.

“that’s it, baby,” she groans, her hips twitching as much as they can beneath the restraints. “look at you. you’re so perfect, bunny. fuck, i need to touch you- untie me, please.”

but you don’t. instead, as you start bouncing on her strap, you let your hand drift back down to your clit, circling it softly, your breath hitching in broken gasps. your eyes flutter closed, and the way your body trembles under your own touch has her on the verge of tears.

“fuck, baby, please- ” her voice is hoarse now, her head falling back against the bed, eyes glistening. “i need to touch you. you’re so fucking beautiful, i can’t take it.”

you smirk down at her, your voice shaking as you tease, “you’re gonna cry, aren’t you?”

she growls, her voice breaking. “i’ll cry if it gets you to untie me. please, baby. let me make you cum. let me take care of you. i’ll do anything.”

you ride her harder now, moaning loudly as your fingers press against your clit, chasing your release. “no,” you gasp out, leaning forward slightly. “you stay there… you watch.”

her lips part, her breathing ragged as she struggles against the restraints, utterly wrecked beneath you.

“you’re gonna kill me, baby,” she chokes out, voice trembling as she watches you fall apart on her. “untie me so i can make you cum again. so i can make you feel everything.”

“maybe,” you whisper, leaning forward to kiss her, your lips barely brushing hers. “but only after you’ve begged enough.”

THIS POST IS ABOUT LESBIAN SEX ! MEN, MINOR DNI

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we should hype up bottom surgery more i think. both twitter transphobes and chronically online trans people really like to be disgusted at phalloplasty, vaginoplasty, ext. and i really think we should treat them as cool and sexy and neutral like top surgery scars or whatever

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Me after I eat chips in bed and leave a bunch of crumbs

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ICE raids are starting on Tuesday in Chicago.

Yell “ICE” and “LA MIGRA” to disrupt them. Notify people and use your privilege as a citizen to make ICE’s job as difficult as possible.

Fascism has been here. It’s just loud now. Time to be loud too.

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@ disabled + chronically ill trans people

you’re still your gender if you can’t shave at all or often

you’re still your gender if you can’t put on makeup at all or often

you’re still your gender if you can’t wear a binder or a bra

you’re still your gender if you misgender yourself or forget your chosen name if you have one

you’re still your gender if you can’t go on hrt or get certain surgeries

you’re still your gender if you can’t do all the steps abled people think you should do to be a Real Trans

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i think we should normalize having sex with friends like i think that could heal the world a little bit

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Did you study the blade?

your mom is studying my blade right now

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I think it's so odd and racist to compliment Americans for discovering that Chinese citizens are people

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What if I told you sex is enjoyable without having to cum?

normalize focusing on intimacy and pleasure vs everyone having to cum as an endgoal.

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‘we support all people with disabilities’ are you normal about people being disabled because of being fat

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This isn’t necessarily what you asked about. But on the other side, being a stone top, I experience something similar.

I feel a crazy drop for touching myself, receiving and not being able to give. It sometimes makes me feel fake because of it.

I understand when you’re coming from:)

that makes so much sense 💓 i feel like a lot of people kinda treat masturbating as such a nothing thing (which is fine!) but it can also be so so tough and tied up with all these complex feelings esp when you’re stone. thank you for sharing

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Not every single butch likes to be called handsome, a boy, or by any other masculine term. Not every single butch likes to be called pretty, a girl, or by any other feminine term.

Some butches enjoy feminine pronouns, and others prefer more neutral ones. Some butches are women, and some butches are not.

Everything can coexist. Chill.