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[sweetreliever]

hello !! i have no idea if ur active atm but id love to be your friend if you're up for it !

ofccc <3

i was busy with school, cross country and theater its all hectic!

[sweetreliever]

IM SORRY THAT I HAVENT BEEN ON HERE IM SO BUSY WITH SCHOOL, CROSS COUNTRY AND THEATRE HI

[sweetreliever]

do you have a tagslist?

yes! but im extremely busy at the moment and barley on here :(

[sweetreliever]

hey sorry to disturb but i heard ur autistic and i really want ur opnion on smth nick said. i don’t rlly know if i can find it offensive since i’m not but on twitch stream he said to chris “stimming like a physcopath” and he’s being kinda cancelled for being ableist and calling any blind person in chat helen keller but the stimming part was really icky to me idk can i get ur thoughts on this? they’ve also laughed at that autism joke in quens vid when she said “u got that tism in u” but that was more jokingly not harmful way this way nick insulting chris telling him he can’t stream with him if he starts stimming like a physcopath , idk it rubbed me the wrong way , have a great day!

im upset as well but im sure nick is just really stressed, mind that he went out of the country for the first time and he was just annoyed with chris stimming is kinda valid? but im sure he wont say shit like that again

[sweetreliever]

WELLL HELLO??

[sweetreliever]

“ i told chris i can’t stream with you when you’re gonna stim out like a psychopath “ oh okay nick.

❕❗️ Nick’s Insensitive & Ableist “Stimming” Comment

Yeah this is something I reallyyyy want to talk about! ☝🏾

I love Nick, as we all know by my literal username lmao. But, it’s actually so disappointing to see Nick make a comment like that. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Associating stimming as something “negative” or “crazy” or “psycho” is straight-up ignorant, even if he wouldn’t call himself an ableist. Because at the end of the day, rhetoric matters, even if the intention wasn’t to hurt. You’re still putting out a certain narrative (in this case that people who stim are abnormal or crazy) even if your intention isn’t to actually say this.

Chris himself has commented about how he feels that he might have ADHD or something along those lines, so idk why TF Nick thought that was funny or cool. 🤔

Even if Chris never had those speculations, using rhetoric like that is still wrong. But it’s especially rude and ignorant when someone has literally expressed that they feel that they might have a certain diagnosis where stimming is common, normal, and soothing for them. And it’s even more rude because you’re streaming to hundreds of thousands of people. Dome are impressionable and will start saying shit like that, others are actually people who do stim who will be offended and feel bad for just… existing.

It may seem like “oh he’s just talking who cares”, but in reality, there wouldn’t be such an uproar if people didn’t care.

He genuinely needs to apologize for that. I feel that’s something he definitely should not gloss over since they’re words that literally came out if his mouth, and there are people within the fandom who do stim and will absolutely be offended by this, and ultimately they’ll feel unsafe or unwelcome in this community.

❗️��� ANOTHER IMPORTANT THING FOR THE FANDOM: ❕❗️

Stop telling people not to be offended by this! Stop telling people to not call them out! There’s a reason why Nick is being called out for this, and telling people to hush is hurting the communities who take offense to what was said, and it can make them feel unsafe within the fandom.

Fandoms are supposed to be here to make people feel united and respected while sharing a common interest. To send death threats or call someone rude names simply because they’re just looking out for the people within the fandom who have been hurt makes you 🫵🏾 a shitty person!

I really do hope Nick makes an effort to apologize for this, or to just acknowledge it as a whole. It would just be the right thing to do. 💞✨

[sweetreliever]

i hate the anon shit like, lets see you?

i agree as well <3

LMFAOOOOOO here y'all go starting shit again 😂 if you not gon say shit OFF anon keep my name & acc out yo mouth & off yo lil phones. don't play with me cs i will really go off.

[sweetreliever]

the type of vibe i bring to the function

dez from austin and ally

chris sturniolo

tarayummy

larray

sabrina carpenter

danny gonzalez

kurtis conner

drew gooden

joe from impractical jokers

cam from modern family

phil from modern family

[sweetreliever]

thank you for the tag @asherrisrandom <3

favorite color: lilac

last song: something, somehow, someday by role model

currently reading: a good girls guide to murder

currently watching: the amazing world of gumball (i still watch it)

craving: thai noodles!

tea or coffee: coffee

no pressure tags @cherib3lla @bratzforchris @dominicfikeenthusiast

@baileysturns @nicksbestie @flouvela

✴︎ rules: answer + tag 6 ppl, thank you for the tag @xxbimbobunnyxx mwah <3

✴︎ favorite color: red + lavender

✴︎ last song: wildflower by Billie Eilish

✴︎ currently reading: clarity & connection by yung pueblo (im a poetry girly by heart)

✴︎ currently watching: twisters (2024)

✴︎ currently craving: cookie dough ice cream 😣

✴︎ tea or iced coffee: coffee 1000%

tagging: @cameronsprincess @shawtycoreee @fallbhind @bunnyrafe @babygorewhore @drewstarkeys-world

[sweetreliever]

wait i read ur a minor and ik there’s tons of accs that say MDNI do u actually listen to that ? like be completly honest , bc i feel like most people don’t and i was just wondering lol 😭 have a great day!

it depends, i have friends on here that say MDNI but they're really kind people in general and will tone it down messaging but yeah!

[sweetreliever]

chris sturniolo is for the girls that get excited over small things & talk a little too much

[sweetreliever]

For the love of god a CNC warning is not something you should be forgetting PLZ. It’s not normal sex if someone is asking for things to stop and saying no—even if they have a safe word.

I shouldn’t have to say this but the fact I’ve seen more than 10 Fics in the past week alone missing this CRUCIAL warning is so upsetting. You’re hurting people, you’re triggering trauma. Please stop forgetting this warning. It does so much damage when you teach young people that that’s normal and minors will lie about their age or interact regardless of your wishes. That and SA survivors don’t deserve to feel devastated after reading a post that was missing important warnings like that.

Please please PLEASE do better.

Likes / REBLOGS are deeply appreciated. Let’s spread the word to make this less of an issue in our community here please.

Also this isn’t targeted to anyone in specific. Majority of people I’ve reached out to have fixed it but I’m done seeing this all the time.

Tags — @patscorner @muwapsturniolo @bbernard-03 @cindylcuwho @chestersturniolo @evie-sturns @endereies @freshloveforthefit @mattscoquette @nicksgirlfriend @pouring-rains @pettydollie @sturnioloshacker @vanteguccir

[sweetreliever]

i’m so proud of them 🥹🥹 alr 7mil they deserve so much more and i’m so happy to be apart of this 🫶🏽

nick teaches me growth and how to be myself and not give a fuck abt anyone else. always can be my calming person. he’s the funniest person and never forgets to put a smile on my face. he helps me build that confidence within myself whether it’s the way i talk, wear, every day tasks… he just makes it better that i just can’t express into words.

matt teaches me that it’s okay to not be okay. there are days where you can be alone and just not feeling the best but surrounding yourself with people who care and love you is the most reassuring thing ever. he also teaches me that not everything has to be what other people like, i’m allowed to feel like i don’t have to do things just because others are doing it. lastly, letting me know that mental health is not easy and that im not the only one going through it.

chris teaches me that i can be myself no matter what. he teaches me that it’s okay to be goofy and weird because that’s who i am. he teaches me that i should love who i am even if no one does. he never fails to make me smile and laugh even on my darkest days. he teaches me that i can talk how i want to talk, stand up for myself, strut myself in the woman that i already am. chris is just chris. i can’t explain how much he helps me but he means the world to me. (they all do)

all 3 of them never fail to make me laugh, smile no matter the day i am having. my stress and problems go away when i watch them. they are the only few youtubers that i actually watch and enjoy content from. they keep it real and make sure that us fans feel warm and welcomed 🫶🏽 thank you for all that you do and i can’t wait to see what the future still holds for you 3 🫶🏽 you all mean the world to me

(p.s. is it just me or does matt looks a lot like nick in the photo next to chris 👀)

[sweetreliever]

gonna combust

oh okay

[sweetreliever]

real

If life turns its back on me, let it be Chris's

[sweetreliever]

someone sedate me. chris sturniolo THE MAN THAT YOU ARE

[sweetreliever]

HI PRETTY GAL

HI RING AROUND THE ROSIE!!!!