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You should probably add the fact that NSFW isn't allowed to the rules to avoid confusion in the future. Not saying I was going to send any lol but that post made me genuinely surprised it's not allowed on a confessions blog of all things, it usually comes with the territory

Friendly reminder, we are a mogaiblr / editblr confession blog. And who is primarily in that community? That's right, minors! We do not follow the "normal rules" of normal confession blogs. If you would read the link, you'd realize that's the content we prioritize posting. I don't care how passive aggressive I am being, I care about the people of this community. I don't want people to be subjected to seeing someone talk about their at-home activities on a confession blog for their community.

Cancel us for being passive aggressive, do whatever for all I care.

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wait Spencer and Mary are minors? Dang learn something new everyday 😎

(assumed everyone was an adult because it usually comes with the territory of a confessions blog lmao)

Yes, they are. It was only myself on the blog for a little, and then I asked for some help and those two volunteered.

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To the anon who just sent in a very not safe for work ask, what the actual fuck is wrong with you. Be glad I'm the one who saw it and not the two children on this account. You are a predator, why would you send that to a random account you don't even know?? Shame on you.

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Auðr opinion time.

As an intersex person who fluctuates with my transfem identity, non transfem folk are more than welcome to make transfem flags. We have very little flags already compared to transmasc ones, and I adore seeing all the ones posted. If perisex ofab (Observed female at birth) folk try to say they are transfem, that is another story.

As a therian who identifies with one or two miscverse labels, miscverse is not NSFW. It was a term created by minors, and the predominant community is minors. Claiming terms that have been reclaimed from NSFW origins are in fact NSFW is wrong. Besides, kink at pride is one of the most common things in this community as pride was founded by kink and black transfems.

[Image ID: On the left side is a girl with long, light-brown hair glaring at the viewer. She's got purple eyes and is holding a shark plush in her right arm. Next to her is desaturated purple text reading, "Auðr or Żaneta. They/Them and Xe/Xem." // end ID. ]

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Could you guys add an image id/alt text to your little mod images? Like the ones with the pronouns and names on it? I think it'd be helpful for not only you guys but also those who may not be able to read those images for whatever reason

I hope this didn't come off as rude in any way, shape, or form ^_^

Oh my god yeah! I almost completely forgot about that, I'm so sorry! We'll definitely be doing that starting now :)

[ID: On the left side is a girl with brown hair that has pastel reddish-pink streaks through it. She has cat ears and hot pink eyes. The text to her right reads, "Spencer or Liuz. Mys/Myr and Cake/Cakes." END ID.]

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welcome back! the new look is adorable.

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Thank you, 🦢 nonnie! I'm especially glad you think it's adorable, ehehe!

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asking people to tag queer is strange to me tbh. if it bothers you so much nobody is forcing you to interact with accounts that use queer as a self descriptor. ngl nobody is forcing you to interact with accounts that use other slurs like the f slur and t slur as self descriptors, especially since they are used on the INDIVIDUAL. if you’re upset that they aren’t tagging them then the block button is right there ngl

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Hey, sorry if this is a weird ask but when people use artists artwork as a theme do they usually ask?? Like I know credit is given, that's amazing. I'm just wondering if I have to ask the artist or not? Like do people normally ask or do they just use? ((Sorry if this is rude, I'm confused and wanting to do a retheme of one of my blogs with some art from my favourite artist but I'm not sure if I have to ask them or not))

It generally depends on the artist! Some artists clarify that their work is fine to use with or without credit, others state you need to ask permission first. Personally, I go by the rule that unless I'm told otherwise or their account says so, their work is good to use with credit :)

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oh, no! i don't mean it that way, i mean it in a sense that "bad person" is being mean to others, not in that sense. i should've specified, sorry! ^ ^

I see, thank you for clarifying!

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just a personal thing but I think it's iffy when beings recoin someone else's terms with the excuse that they're a bad person. /not directed.

I apologize anon, but I have to disagree with this. A good example is the bigender flag. The original creator of it is a horrible person, so most people resort to using alternatives instead. I understand this is a personal thing, but you do have to look at the other hand.

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i missed you guys welcome back??!;;

We missed you as well! Happy to be back with you all! 🫶

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Liuz Opinion: Not crediting artists for any reason is weird! Especially if you want to "gatekeep" them, they're a whole person and the likeliest case is that art is their livelihood. Not crediting artists is an asshole move. It's thievery.

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i’m always really bewildered by people who reclaim slurs but point blank refuse to tag them or acknowledge that they’re a slur

like to be clear i like reclaiming slurs i think that’s cool and fine!

but you have to be able to acknowledge that because this is a slur, people are going to be uncomfortable with it, especially if they live in places where the slur is used as a slur. i see this a lot especially with the q slur (queer) and the bg slur (boygirl) and its so strange to me.

like again, you can reclaim slurs. but if someone nicely asks you to tag it (even just as the word itself) ….maybe do that?

Queer has been reclaimed by a majority of the community as an inclusive self-descriptor word for us. Boygirl ... isn't a slur. There's no results at all for it ever having been a slur. I don't know where you got the information that it was one to begin with.

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ngl a lot of the popular editblr people are lowkey parotting terf ideology but idk thats probably just me

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I need some of yall to put that fucking phone down now

So incredibly real.

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Can someone make a masterlist of editblr drama please I've only started being chronically online recently

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