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generously tipping women working here and being always nice to them and giving nothing to men while they serve me 💗 feminist victory

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i repeat, i beg all women, even those who are 4b, celibate, homosexual, or don't willingly interact with men at all, still get some form of birth control!! they will try to force you to become pregnant, esp if you're openly feminist and not interested in men. protect yourself in case you end up assaluted so that you don't have to fear this kind of forced pregnancy.

Came home from the beach and reconnecting with the ocean, opened my TikTok and every video on my fyp is a 4b endorsement with millions of likes…

Mother Earth answered my prayers! 💙🌊

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mutuals send me a 💌 and ill tell u something i love about you

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what contraceptive pills do you use? can you tell me their brand names/drug names?

drovelis. i used to take belara, but it messed up my migraines. not sure what brands you have in your country. drovelis is relatively new, so be careful, but it's the brand that gives me the least side effects. first two months on it sucked, but it got better over time and i also have endometriosis, so maybe that played a role, too.

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okay, angels, i'm leaving in few hours. i may lurk here and there on mobile, but i'm going mostly inactive from now on. it's questionable whether i will be able to use internet and, honestly, i don't want to for a while. i need to sort some of my thoughts, feelings, and decide how to be more active when it comes to actual real life actions regarding feminism and other women. this trip is female exclusive, so i'm quite happy. feel free to message me here anytime or ask for my discord, even if non-mutual, but at least tell me who you are. we may talk later after i come back. ily and take care!! 💞💗 be back on 23th or so.

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it's a party in the monastery i guess.

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"i am celibate and i practice sexual abstinence from men only until they start treating me right!" girl just put a lock on the pussy forever, that will never happen. buy a sextoy if you must.

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i just said this in my reblog, but all women, even those who aren't american, should use some sort of birth control. i know it's not ideal nor perfect. even if you're a b4, female celibate, you may be sexually assaulted and raped, which might result in pregnancy. if you're a feminist openly, pro-abortion, woman of color, poor woman, a lesbian or bisexual woman not interested in having relations with men, you have a massive target painted on your back already. make sure you're protected from those violent pests. the whole abortion, birth control ban has been in the talks here in slovakia for years now and i'm afraid more countries will take inspo from the us after the election. the forced-births group will become as bold as ever.

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if you don't get an iud like i won't because of multiple reasons, get the pills. even if you don't have sex with men. i use birth control pills in case i get raped. i'm not going to ever deal with "pregnancy scare" after being assaulted again. if you stop having sex with men, it will put target on your back. esp if you're openly feminist. even if you're a b4, female celibate, use the birth control!!!

(Probably) final post relating to the election. I haven't checked recently but last I checked, Trump pretty much won.

So with that said, whether you like me or hate me, hell, copy this post yourself if you can't bear reblogging me I know I'm controversial sometimes, but this information needs to spread, not just on tumblr but to as many women in america as possible. Let me know if there's any other tags I should add, and add to the list. Women shouldn't have to do this but women's rights are going to go to shit in america, F A S T.

if you are in the position to:

-STOCK UP ON PLAN B (or equivalent)

It has a shelf life of 4 years, do not store it in a damp place (like the bathroom). Plan B taken within 3 days of sex will (likely) prevent a pregnancy. If you have the resources, get extra. Every woman NEEDS to have a box hidden in her home. We do not know when this option will become illegal, they are already targeting it. When buying it, hide yourself from cameras. Use cash, wear a mask, a baggy sweater, and a hat with a brim, treat it like it's already illegal.

-STOP USING PERIOD TRACKING APPS

These apps will rat you out if the police order it. Buy a notebook at the dollar store or something, and track manually. Don't let anyone know where your book is, treat that shit like the nuclear codes. Take the average of your past 6 cycles and that will help you predict when your next period will be. This is exactly what those apps do anyways.

-Get long-acting, reversible contraception 

If you know you don't have a negative response to IUD(effective for 3-10 years depending on type), get one. If you know you don't have a negative response to the birth control implant (effective for 3 years), get one. If you've never tried one, try it. These may be targeted, but once they're in you it's unlikely you'll be forced to remove it. if both of these decrease your quality of life, then sadly:

-Stock up on birth control pills

Buy as much as you can. 4 years ideally, but it's dependent on the expiration date of it. Some last one year, others last 4. Birth control pills are easily tampered (just need to be heated) so, no matter how much you ~love~ or ~trust~ your boyfriend, hide that shit. Long-acting, reversible contraception is preferable, but pills are better than nothing.

-Don't have sex with men

If you do not have the ability to prevent pregnancy (condoms don't count, men control them and can tamper them), don't have sex with men. This is not due to any moral stance, genuinely it is for your own health I say this. A pregnancy could KILL you, and doctors will do nothing about it. If a man wants to knowingly put you at that risk, consider whether he even loves you.

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reject the need for male attention and approval. you are a whole person without men in your life, and your accomplishments do not need their praise.

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I’m sure most of radblr knows already but Blaire White is a disgusting person

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I have absolutely zero empathy for passport bros who get robbed or murdered in foreign countries. 100% deserved and good riddance. Going 2 third-world countries with your dollars manipulating poor women 2 fulfill ur degenerate desires. The majority of these males r sex pests with no intention of marriage, there are so many stories of local women getting pregnant by these lowlifes, and ending up single moms, funnily by the same males who complain about single mothers lol.

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men can never be normal

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you don't have to imagine, we're right here. also, you're the same people who called bisexuality "inherently transphobic", backwards, bigoted, and forced many bisexuals to start using "more inclusive labels", like pansexuality. keep your trans besties to yourselves. your people tried to get rid of bisexuality for years, so you can stop forcing them on us now.

I was thinking, imagine a transphobic bisexual

Like I don’t care what gender you are as long as it’s your birth gender

Then I remembered that half of reddit exists

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"op is a terf" yeah i sure hope i am!!

call me a terf idc, terfs r cool

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