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it sucks that you have to keep yourself busy to feel okay

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"I'm so fucking proud of you" after giving you bruises and a sore cunt.

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how were you trained to be able to cum from his words?

Here's Daddy making me blush:

The short answer is: erotic hypnosis.

Yes, it’s very real and effective. Yes, you and your partner(s) can learn to do it. Yes it’s the cats pajamas and everything you ever thought you wanted out of D/s play but available immediately instead of requiring any working up to. Once you’re comfortable in trance — which can happen the very first time or in just a few sessions — it’s like your play now begins where most play dates peak and end. You’re both immediately in deep subspace/Domspace.  You’re both incredibly open and energized and orgasmic. And you’re both prepared to have the best sex of your lives in every new moment.

Learn more by reading this article:

https://narratively.com/what-its-like-to-have-a-hypnosis-fetish/

This book:

"Mind Play” by Marc Wiseman

And listening to every episode of this incredibly informative and practical podcast:

“Two Hyp Chicks”

Like anything truly worth having in life, this requires a bit of effort. But of course, once you start to see results, the payoff is so spectacular that you will be motivated to learn more and go deeper.

If you want to get even better at sex and life, keep reading.

Relaxation is the key to everything you do in sex. As a Dominant man I strive to help my female partners relax more deeply, completely and profoundly into the present moment, into their bodies, into their submission, into their trances and into their orgasms.

That’s a lot of layers of letting go. But once you help your partners feel safe with you and held by you, this tends to happen more and more easily.

Mona is such a lovely partner. She’s so smart and creative and open and fun and sensual and lusty and so deeply and beautifully submissive.

Yet for the longest time, and in spite of various efforts, we were not able to get her to climax reliably during our hours-long play sessions together. Although she could cum with some effort on her own — sometimes in just 5 minutes, sometimes in 20 or more — she couldn’t yet do it with me.

I loved being with her so much and I wanted to please her so badly. But I also didn’t want to keep pushing in ways that frustrated us both when we still could share so much pleasure and fun.

In certain ways it was all the more difficult for me because I was able to get many other women to cum harder, faster and many more times than they’ve ever been able to before. I was learning to expand their orgasms beyond the boundaries of their pussies — to every square inch of of their bodies. I was learning how to feel my sexual energy and theirs and to consciously move it around our bodies (combining my understanding of chi from mediation, yoga and Qi Gong with my studies of Tantric sex). And I was beginning to learn how to make my partners cum on command.

I wanted so badly to bring all of that into my relationship with Mona but I wasn’t sure how to do it.

This past summer I realized I was already speaking hypnotically to my partners. So I decided to formally learn hypnosis and see what would come of that.

I’ve been deliberately actively practicing hypnosis for a few months now. And the results have been amazing. I’ve done it with about a dozen people, some multiple times.

Before last week, I had used trance on Mona twice to relax her and help her sleep. The third time was our first attempt at using hypnosis erotically. And boy did she take to it right away. I did an intuitive Ericksonian conversational induction and she slipped deeply into trance within a few minutes. Her eyes were open but she was completely mine — my pretty little brainwashed sex doll — focused absolutely and only on my words and my will.

We had an incredible play date. Our sex has been getting better and better but this was the best day yet. We were so connected. Our energy was flowing so strongly together. We were both having multiple energetic Tantric orgasms. (Only Mona wasn’t realizing she was having them yet.)

Near the end of the date, we were cuddling when I wondered aloud about teaching her to cum on command. She said she felt like she almost could just from my mentioning this desire.... But something wasn’t quite working.

And then it just came to her. What if she imagined herself feeling like she would right before she cums when she masturbates with her wand toy. And I encouraged her: “Right. That’s right. You’re right there, right in that feeling and that moment, one second before your pussy lets go and cums for me.”

And she did. And she’s kept cumming for me, getting exponentially better at it in the last week. She’s expanded the range of sensation, the location in her body and the type of orgasm she can have for me on command. She’s able to think herself off now, too, to enjoy handsfree masturbation whenever she wishes.

And all because of the way hypnosis helped us both get her to let go of that one habitual way she had been feeling orgasms in her body. Which is not unlike the so-called “death grip syndrome” men sometimes get when they masturbate in one way for years choking their cock. It’s a habit of the body but it’s really more a habit of the mind.

Ironically, it was only by first marrying that feeling of the orgasms she was most used to having to my commands that we have been able to transcend the old ways of cumming so quickly, powerfully and effectively.

Hope some of this helps. Feel free to ask follow-up questions.

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I mean, fuck, I like bed. I like sleep. I like cozy blankies I like napping, I like to eep. I like Z catching and wink catching and counting sheep. I like doing beddie bye shit. Snooze it? Honk mimi

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*I close tumblr*

*I click on a new app*

*it’s tumblr*

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might fuck around and show you what soft, calm, safe love truly feels like.

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I need a new shirt for family game night 🤣

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i’m actually pretty attractive if you never compare me to anyone ever

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Love the word "also". I have more things to say

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#my post #FB finds

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She's the type of girl that would give you the whole world but her mental health makes her want to die sometimes

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my love language is ruining my sleep schedule to talk to you

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Okay, so I made a flowchart for some of you dumb little sisters who get confused about what they should do when they're high.

Any other questions? Take another hit and read it again.

What an obedient baby sister.

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Casual and subtle signals to hint at what they're in the mood for.

No uniform

Being normal. Friendly dynamic as if we were just friends hanging out. No title, no expectations, just friends

Collar on (loose)

Dom/Sub dynamic is there, but nothing sexual. Title is expected at the end of every sentence. The sub is expected to speak properly and obey the Dom's commands, no matter how small. Sexual acts are not expected but not out of the question. Corrections will be handed out if deemed necessary.

Collar on (tight)

Sub is in the mood to have their body and mind toyed with. Dom/Sub dynamic is there, and sexual acts are encouraged. Title must be used, and commands are expected to be followed. Dom is encouraged to touch and grope the sub whenever as they're essentially free use at this state. Completely normal for dom to randomly bend sub over at their will and use the subs body as they please.

Collar on (tight) + Uniform

Started when the sub tightens the collar and is sent to put on the uniform. Either as a punishment, reward, or at the dom's whim, the uniform is put on before a session.

Uniform is predetermined, but is decided on beforehand ranging from skimpy slutty clothes to cosplay.

Sub must listen to their dom, and be an obedient little slut. Sub must let their pretty little minds slip away until they're nothing more than a pile of mess.

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Spring moo-d! 🐮💐🍓

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I’m ruined😭 I was just going on a walk in the woods and all I could think about was getting r@p3d