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50 selfship relationship building questions !

hallo !!! here is . 50 questions to build your selfship . answer these however youd like , feel free to use this as an ask game also :] practice reblog karma if u do !

what role would you say you take on in your relationship? what about your f/o?

what are you and your f/o like in public together? do you enjoy pda?

how comfortable would you say you are with each other? were you two slow to get comfortable or was it really quick?

what's your favorite thing to talk about with each other? what about favorite thing to do?

who has a worse sleep schedule? is there anything you do for the other one to help them sleep if they can't?

are you married to your f/o? if you are, would you say that being married changed your relationship in any way? how so? if you aren't married, do you plan on it?

do you have any routines that clash with the others?

which one of you is more sociable? how comfortable are you both in social situations?

do you two have pets? do you want pets? what kind? how many?

what nicknames do you like to give each other? do you like them? why or why not?

if your f/o had a bad day, how would you cheer them up? how would your f/o cheer you up if the situation was reversed?

what kinds of physical affection do you both enjoy? is there anything one of you likes that the other doesn't?

what drew you to each other? is there anything specific, or do you think it was just love at first sight?

do either of you believe in love at first sight? why or why not?

which one of you tends to make breakfast/lunch/dinner more for the other? do you have any go-to's you enjoy?

who does the shopping, usually? who's more likely to buy useless stuff?

what were you both like in the beginning of your relationship? what are you like now? if it's still the beginning of your relationship, what do you think will change?

how do you like to celebrate the others birthday?

what's it like when the other is sick? how do you like to take care of each other?

what's a quirk your f/o has that you love? what's a quirk you have that your f/o loves?

what's a small thing that your f/o does for you that makes you happy? what's something you do for them that makes them happy?

do you have any alternate ways of telling your f/o you love them? what about your f/o? (ex. giving them gifts, making them food, a different phrase instead of 'i love you')

what kind of dates do you and your f/o like? do you have a favorite date that you've been on together?

how would you describe what it's like when your f/o hugs you? what about when you hug your f/o?

what's your f/os favorite kind of gift to receive? what's your favorite gift to receive?

do you and your f/o play fight? what do you do?

which one of you is more serious? when things are tense, how do you or how does your f/o like to lighten the mood?

how do you balance each other out?

what kind of decor does your f/o like to decorate with? what kind of decor do you like to decorate with? if you live together, how do you combine your tastes?

what's your f/os morning and night routine? what's yours? when you and your f/o began your relationship, did your routines change? how so?

is there anything you're insecure about that your f/o loves? is there anything your f/o is insecure about that you love?

if you had to pick one part of your f/os physical appearance that is your favorite, what would it be? what about the reverse?

what does your f/o smell like? what does your self insert/you smell like?

what does a normal day look like for you and your f/o?

if texting exists in the universe your selfship is in, how do you text each other?

what was it like when you were interested in your f/o? what was it like when your f/o was interested in you? could the other tell, or was it a well kept secret?

are either of you spontaneous? or do you prefer to plan things out before you do them?

if you and your f/o were to have a movie night together, what kind of movies do you like to watch together?

who catches the spiders in the house and releases them and who kills them out of fear?

who stands up for the other more often? what is it, usually?

you and your f/o go on a road trip. where to? or would you rather just go on an adventure with no destination?

what did other people think about your relationship? (irl or in source). how did you and your f/o respond to that?

what's different about your relationship in comparison to most others? anything?

do you lie to each other about anything? (serious or silly). why or why not?

what's your favorite form of non-physical affection to show your f/o? what's your f/os favorite?

what's one thing that reminds you of your f/o? what's one thing that reminds your f/o of you?

do you have any clashing opinions? (silly or serious).

what has your f/o helped you learn about yourself in the time that youve been together? what have you helped your f/o learn about themselves?

is there any habits you've picked up from your f/o? is there any habits they've picked up from you?

what are some little things you do for each other in your day to day life?

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meet my f/o ask game !!!

💘 - what's your f/o favorite kind of gift to give?

🌸 - whats your f/o's favorite flower? is there any reason that's their favorite?

🍬 - do they like sweets? whats their favorite kind of candy?

🏩 - how does your f/o act when they're sick?

🧶 - other than their main hobby/career, what other sorts of things do they like to do?

🧼 - what scent of soap do they use?

🩵 - does your f/o (if romantic) use any kind of pickup lines on you?

🫂 - how does your f/o feel about physical touch? what's their favorite kind?

🫐 - do they have a favorite fruit? what is it? why is it their favorite?

💠 - do they have a favorite thing to do when they're bored? what is it?

✈️ - what's their dream place to travel to?

🧊 - how do they feel about winter time? do they like it? what do they wear to stay warm?

💜 - if your f/o could receive any gift in the entire world, no matter what it was, what would they want?

🪻 - if your f/o has ever bought you flowers, what kind do they buy you the most? do they go to a florist? or do they get them from a convenience store? maybe they grow their own?

🍇 - what's a food your f/o will not eat. just absolutely will not touch at all. they hate it.

👾 - does your f/o have a favorite video game? if they do, what is it? if they don't, what do you think they would like?

🧬 - if your f/o could go into any other career than they're currently in, what would they go into?

reblog or whateva you want to use :) feel free to send me some asks as well! (I love infodumping hsjbsgsja)

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oh no....cringe!!!

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how it feels lowkey

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Today was my Birthday!! Of course Pim wanted to take me out again, so we went on a sunset sail. He’s such a romantic hehe

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You know your selfship is perfect when it be looking like this:

Proship dni

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Imagine putting your hand under your f/o's chin and scritching them.

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What self ship will we be seeing next?

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F/o spooning you and kissing your neck and telling you words of love and then dozing off

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Saw this on a facebook page, and I - 🥹 Y'all imagine your f/o(s)

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⋆.˚ ᡣ𐭩 .𖥔˚ Things to do with your f/o! (no drawing!)

♡Write a love letter themed around your f/o!

Pour your heart out! Decorate the page with stickers, doodles, or your favorite pens. Write about your feelings, confess your love, or pen a romantic poem. You can even keep it casual—just ask how their day is or tell them about yours. They'll love hearing from you!

♡Create a wall/journal collage!

Print out some photos/quotes of your f/o and create a collage for them. Include things that they love--like their favorite colors, hobbies, or symbols. Hang it on your wall or make it a journal spread!

♡Go on a IRL date!

You could go on a movie date, have a picnic with all of your f/o's favorite foods, or chat with them while going on a walk! Create a special moment just for them.

♡Make a character journal!

Imagine your F/O writing about their feelings for you! What would they say if they kept a diary? Write from their perspective and explore their inner thoughts. (Just make sure not to get caught snooping!)

♡Create notes that your f/o would write to you!

Write sweet messages from your f/o's perspective to leave around your home or room. They could remind you to take out the trash, cheer you on for the day, or simply say “I love you.” It’s a fun way to make their presence feel real!

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I HAVE to post this here too...y'all selfshippers are so strong and real, tysm....

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your f/o doesn’t just love you, they are utterly devoted to you. they don’t just look at you, they gaze at you as if you were the brightest star shining in the night sky. they don’t just touch you, they caress you as if your skin was made of marble, as if you were the finest work of art on this or any other plane. if they could, they would sink into your chest and nestle themselves within your heart for as long as you’ll have them.

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Parts of an overheating HVAC System

Timelapse and Shadow-face ALT

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mm.....your f/os helping you sleep by humming your favorite song and stroking your hair gently.... theyll continue to do it until you manage to fall asleep, willing to lose sleep if it means that you get the rest and recharge you deserve...

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Imagine returning to your f/o after not seeing them for a while and running into their arms, happy and giggling, as you litter their face with kisses. Their hands are securely around your waist to steady you as you continue to shower them with affection 💖💖💖

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the other guy