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Sarah Everard

PLEASE READ!!!! (tw sexual harassment, murder, rape)

Sarah Everard was a British, 33 year old woman who was walking home in Clapham on the 3rd of March 2020 when she disappeared. She was missing for over a week before human remains were found, that are supposed to be hers (confirmation hasn’t come yet)

So far one man has been arrested in regards to Sarah’s disappearance and assumed murder.

A police officer.

A fucking police officer, the people that we’re supposed to trust. The people that we now have to believe are bringing her justice. The one place we are told to always go if we need to feel safe. Well I don’t feel safe. And the main reason this is so scary is:

Sarah did everything right.

She was wearing bright colours, she was wearing clothes that covered her entire body, she was walking on a main road, she was in a well lit area, she was on the phone to her boyfriend, she had shared her location to her friends.

Sarah had done everything that us women and girls have been taught to do since we could leave the house by ourselves, and it still wasn’t enough to save her.

And, out there, are still people blaming her for what happened saying she shouldn’t have been walking home alone at night.

It was 9:30pm on a Wednesday and she was walking to her flat.

WOMEN SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO WALK HOME ALONE AT 9PM.

WOMEN SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO WALK HOME ALONE AT ANY TIME.

We are taught so many lessons when we are young, because we grow up learning that we need to know how to protect ourselves.

We are told, walk on main streets, stay on well lit areas, keep your keys between your fingers (like you’re wolverine), shared your uber trip with friends, share your location with friends, make sure a friend is expecting a call when you arrive at your destination, be on the phone to a “boyfriend”, don’t have your headphones in, make a note of licence plates, go to the other side of the street if someone is following you, wear bright colours, don’t wear your hair in a ponytail or plait (easier to grab) - and these are just for walking home alone.

We have to walk home as if we’re Jason fucking Bourne.

As well as that, we are told, avoid ground floor flats, never take the stairs and instead take the elevator if you can (there’s rarely a camera in stairwells), if you’re driving alone at night never wait in your car to put on music and instead drive off straight away, always check under your car before getting in, always check your back seat, if your driver’s seat door is next to a truck or other car that has someone in then get in through the passenger seat door, the elbow is the strongest part of your body and if you need to hit someone then use that, and if you are going to hit someone then make sure to always aim for the groin if you can.

I knew all of this by the time I was 12.

A recent study has shown that 97% of women in the UK aged 18-24 have experienced sexual harassment, and 81% of women in the world have experienced sexual harassment of some kind. This is a staggeringly high figure that, believe it or not, is increasing.

As a woman, this is terrifying.

Now, obviously, there is the point of “not all men” and that’s very true, not all men do that at ALL. In fact, a lot of them are nice, and caring and protective and would save you from creeps like these. But, how do we know who they are? How do I know that you’re making sure that I’m okay, not making sure that I’m not paying attention or that I’m walking alone?

I once crossed the street when a man was walking behind me, and he called out saying “why would you do that, I wasn’t going to do anything to you?” and I replied with “I’m sorry but I didn’t know that. I’m just being safe.” and he actually said back “well thanks for just assuming I’m a rapist, now I feel great about myself.”

Okay, so in this situation, the worst case scenario for you is getting your feelings hurt, but for us it’s being raped and murdered, so I think it’s safe to say we all know which one is worse. But I couldn’t help feeling guilty, and it was as if I started to blame myself for being safe.

This has to stop.

We cannot keep continuing to have to teach women to protect themselves. It has to end. We need to actually teach consent, to stop degrading women, to stop victim blaming. It is not women that need to fix the system, it’s men.

Please call out others on their sexist language and do not let them get off lightly. Support a woman who is being bothered by interrupting the conversation and pretending to be her brother or family member or friend. Leave distance between you and a woman walking home alone at night and, if you really want to make sure she knows you aren’t following her then cross the road. Allow a woman to open up about past experiences, and do not victim blame or say “not all men”, give her a safe space to trust you and do not pass it off as nothing. Try to keep your face visible if you can. 

By forcing women to be the ones to avoid male behaviour, it encourages victim blaming. It comes across as “we didn’t do enough to stop them” but sometimes women, women like Sarah, do everything right and this still happens. And what does that show? It shows that it isn’t up to us to avoid your behaviour. It’s up to you to be a decent human being and let women feel safe to walks the streets around where they live.

Don’t just protect your daughter, educate your son. Consent is not the golden standard but the bare minimum.

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PSA

this blog will now be moved over to @ddarkhours​ , i’ll have something up on it either later tonight or tomorrow<3

i won’t be using this blog anymore but i will be more active on there!!

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Hello, I just read that one Bang Chan smut and I kinda want another one (lmao) So can I request a Chan smut but the plot is up to you? With spitting, choking kind and dirty talk please (and some kinks you want to add ;)) ) Btw I really love your writings!! I hope I know how to write too 😆

here it is,, im sorry it took so long, im just finishing up my school semester so hopefully I'll have more free time afterwards

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8.31pm; Bang Chan

warnings: exibitionism kinda hehe; SoftDom!Chan; Fem!reader; choking; hair pulling;

word count: 840; proofread: yessir; requested: yeah!

a/n: this was kind of written hastily so I’m sorry if it feels a little empty, i’m at the end of my semester and after i finish it i’ll have a lot more free time and be able to write a lot more and i hope this isn’t to bad eheh also please tell me if there are any mistakes in my writing!!

“Knock it off lovebirds” Hyunjin yelled from the living room of the dorms, the other members laughing and giggling while Chan pulled you towards his room. You were supposed to hang out with them that night but Chan had other things planned. As he got to the door, he pushed you in before glaring at the members and closing and locking the door behind him. “Chan you’re being so obvious”, you shook your head, the blush on your cheeks clearly showing your embarrassment, “So what? Are they not allowed to know how much I love my girlfriend” he sat down on his bed, tapping his thighs to signal you to sit in his lap. You timidly walked over to him, he took a hold of your hips, pressing your body against his. “Channie I don’t want them to hear”. The boy smiled cockily, bringing his face close, lips ghosting over your, “I don’t think that’s true princess” with every word your lips brushed against each other, he let his bottom lip caress yours with the last word “I think you want them to hear your pretty sounds hm?” he thought out loud.

His words made you blush even more, the embarrassment forcing your head to turn away from him, giving him access to your neck, where he didn’t waste any time to start leaving wet kisses on your soft skin. Hands caressing your body, yours tangled in his hair. He massaged your boobs with one hand, pinching your nipples through your sweatshirt. Your throat was being attacked with kisses and his strong grip. You stopped him to take your shirt off, his eyebrows raised in surprise “And this is coming from the person who didn’t want my members to hear her.” you punched his chest playfully “If I had a comeback right now that’d be great but I just want you to fuck me so bad”. He smiled knowing he’d pulled you in too deep to back down, slipping his pants and boxers down, pumping his cock a few times in front of your clit. You lifted yourself up, letting him poke at your entrance before sinking down onto him feeling his head touch your cervix. Chan groaned, digging his fingers into your hips “I’m still in charge, got it kitten?” he grabbed the hair on the nape of your neck following his rhetorical question, “Yes sir”.

He started to fuck up into you, still holding your hair in his fist, he captured your lips in a sloppy kiss. Pulling away to watch the string of saliva and your furrowed brows as he ruts up into you. A moan gets stuck in your throat when he angles his hips in a way that hits your gspot perfectly. He grabs your neck, “I thought you didn’t want them to hear you ay?” you opened your mouth with your tongue out, Chan spat in your mouth immediately, knowing how much it turned you on by the way you whined while swallowing. “You know they can hear you pretty baby?” the tight grip on your neck was going to leave bruises, but that wasn’t your top concern right now, the feeling of his cock burying itself into you at a steady rhythm was overtaking all of your senses, making you yelp when it hit just right. “You want them to hear you pretty noises baby? You want them to get turned on when they hear the way you take my cock?”. One of his hands moved to your clit, rubbing figure eights on your sensitive bud, leaving your hips shaking.

“Can I cum?” your breath was shaky, trying to hold off your orgasm to get permission “Fuck- yes baby cum for me.. Show them who’s making you feel good” you let go, clenching around his cock and rubbing your clit against his fingers, whines of his name escaping past your lips against your own will, the feeling of euphoria too strong to make you think twice. Riding out your orgasm for as long as he could, Chan couldn’t hold himself back too long, he pulled out, pushing you to your knees and jerking himself over your face. You took his tip in your mouth, mind still foggy from your post orgasm haze. You stuck your tongue over his slit a few times, before he shot his seed in your mouth with a few heavy breaths. “Fuck baby how are you gonna look them in the eyes after this?” he chuckled, lifting you onto the bed and grabbing your shirt to hand it to you.

That’s when the realization hit you that you were gonna have to face the members after that. Either you were gonna walk into the living room or Felix and Changbin were gonna have to go to be eventually. After cleaning up a bit you contemplated your choices. “We didn’t want to hear that either Y/n, Chan!!” Hyunjin’s voice echoed through the hallway. Your face and ears got warm, yeah you were gonna stay in here for a while.

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hellooo~~ this is just a tiny psa: i will be posting one more request in a little bit and then moving this blog to another one

more details pending

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i’m thinking of moving this blog to another one; opinions?

same url, just starting fresh on a clean slate. I’ve had this blog for almost  2 years and i primarily wrote for stray kids but i want to start writing about other groups as well and actually organise it a bit better than what i did here

i’ll keep this one with a different url just to keep the fics and stuff

just shoot me an ask with your thoughts or reply to this post

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seonghwa ; inception at tmas 2020

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Bang Chan .:. 승전가 (MAMA 2020)

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CHANGBIN & HAN ✦ VICTORY SONG (MAMA VERS.)

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🔥 🔥 🔥

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jisung ♛ victory song (mama ver.)

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I was the one who requested about the chan fic 😅 Take your time!! You don't need to rush it and no need to say sorry 🥺

thank you for understanding love🥺 i really don't know how i missed it the first time fbdjf I'm such a dumbass🤡

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i haven’t stopped thinking about this

RENT FREE

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anon who requested the Chan thing!! I just saw the ask and you sent it 4 days ago!!!! I’m so sorry!! I’ll try to get it out by the weekend at the latest

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please give us feedback

it's not an obligation to send feedback to any writer but if you have a fic that you like or something they posted sparks your interest or some constructive criticism or any questions; send them an ask!!! tell them how you feel about whatever it is that you want; or those who reblog fics reblog their post with some tags of what you thought

writing is fun and we all appreciate the likes but when people only start to like your stuff without sharing their thoughts it feels like you're talking to a group of people who only nod their heads to whatever you say and keep quiet, it starts to feel somewhat demotivating when you're the only one doing the talking

anon is on for a reason so there's no need to be embarassed to say anything, even if you aren't on anon or decide to turn off anon, most blogs like mine are a judge free zone, if you're not hurting anyone or yourself, or you're not making the blog owner uncomfortable, you're free to talk about whatever you want

and please never feel intimidated to talk to anyone, this is tumblr, we're all in the same clown car as everyone else, you might make a new friend just by shooting them an ask for all anyone knows

ok this may seem needy but when i post works could some of u send in asks telling me what u think 👉🏻👈🏻 bc sometimes i never know if anyone actually likes my works and if im just writing thing for the sake of writing instead having people actually reading it 🥺

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Hellooo, I was the one who requested about the Chan smut, it was a wonderful work. Thank you so much!!

thank you🥺 I'm so glad you liked it because it was a lot of fun to write

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Hii, idk if you're still accepting some request but can I request a Bang Chan smut where Chan is the class president while the reader is his gf. The reader is being bratty so Chan got angry and decided to punish her/do it in an empty classroom. With some dirty talk, spitting, spanking, overstimulation, etc. Idk just hard smut. I'm so sorry for requesting this I think it's too much 😭

here it is and dw!! it wasn't too much, it was really fun to write and i hope i did it well hehe👉👈