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sometimes i get really depressed because i’m indian and my family that live in india would never come to my lesbian wedding and they will hate the way i am until i die.

lol so quirky

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friendly reminder that today is the anniversary of remus lupin’s entire lifeline leaving him!

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new headcanon that remus lupins favorite holiday was halloween because he could have a reason to hide his scars and because everyone else was dressed as monsters too

until…

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Midnights make me ache cz i have so much to tell to the moon.

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Can people please shut the fuck up about how “shipping every male character is harmful to the male friendship representation”

Literally almost every single peace of media has platonic male friendships in it and almost none of them ends up in a canon relationship. So there IS representation. Some people shipping those characters don’t take away their canon friendship.

And it doesn’t only happen to the male friendships. Every close female and male/female friendship you see on screen will always have people shipping them.

Because guess what? That’s how fandoms work. It doesn’t only happen with male friendships.

Are we really ignoring all the people who assume every man and woman who breaths the same air are canonically in love with each other? But somehow it’s only a problem when queer people do it.

Are we really ignoring how we get so little male/female friendships in media without writers turning it romantic at some point?

But we never get to see two close male leads of an action movie kissing at the end do we? So shut up about “friendship representation” You have tons of platonic friendships.

And the thing is, a lot of people who say this don’t even care about platonic friendships or mlm fetishization by straight girls. They’re just trying to find a way to put queer ships down. They never say “I think this two specific characters are good friends so I don’t like it when people ship them”

Instead, it’s always “these characters showed a little pinch of interest to opposite gender so they’re straight. just let people be friends and stop making everything gay”

Because they’re not actually mad about people shipping two close friends together. They’re mad about people offering the possibility of some fictional characters not being straight

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I really want to do that Tiktok trend that’s like “meet the love child of ___” and it’s some Harry Potter characters and then you show your face. But THE ONLY CANONICALLY INDIAN CHARACTERS ARE PADMA AND PARVATI PATIL AND THEY ARE SIBLINGS AND WILDLY UNDERDEVELOPED!! So I’ve decided to go off of Fanon, and say I’m the love child of James Potter(Indian), Remus Lupin(scars + reading), Hermione Granger(reading and activism), and Fred Weasley(hot). Thank you very much.

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yes.

my identity is a knockoff of Remus Lupin and Sirius Black rolled into one inferior being.

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god i wish i wasn’t so hyper romantic my life would literally be so much easier if i didn’t fall in love with everyone i meet

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Just looked at the moon today, life is good.

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i sometimes stay up really late on sunday night and i think it’s just because i feel like i didn’t get enough weekend time? but i really need to sleep i have a test in second hour

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i’m going to aggressively listen to my favorite youtube playlist while customizing inkbox tattoos that i’m never going to buy, does anyone want to join me?

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i love women and i love all of these songs so much

she: a playlist inspired about pining over a friend of yours, but struggling internally with confessing your feelings to her. so to distract yourself, you find yourself listening to these collection of songs.

( listen here )

she - dodie // i want her - blind fury ft. georgia harris // strangers - halsey ft lauren jauregui // i wanna be your girlfriend - girl in red // delicate - taylor swift // i didn’t just kiss her - jen foster // boyfriend - tegan and sara // girls like girls - hayley kiyoko // iris - kina grannis // lgbt - lowell // explosions - ellie goulding // honey - kehlani // marceline - willow … ( more songs on playlist )

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i felt this way for a while. i only recently changed my other social media’s to she/her genderfluid. i hope you figure everything out soon but remember you don’t need a label and that it’s alright to be confused! she/they pronouns are an amazing way to start and as for the label i think you just try them all out and try a bunch of different pronouns (including neopronouns) and see what feels affirming to you.

i personally don’t like they/them pronouns but i don’t identify as a woman(i’m afab as well) and so i stuck with she/her pronouns and started identifying as genderfluid. i don’t know if this makes any sense or if this helps you at all but i hope it does!!

exploring my gender identity

today, i randomly decided to change my pronouns to she/they on all of my social media platforms and it is honestly freeing. however, i’m still unsure of what my gender identity actually is. i know that i very much fluctuate between feminine gender expression and androgynous gender expression. But as for my identity, i don’t know. although i’m afab and have identified and been socialized as a girl/woman in the past, i’ve also felt that i have aspects to myself that were (and still are) masculine or androgynous. does that make me genderfluid? or perhaps a non-binary woman? or femme-androgyne? i really like femme-androgyne since i feel it accurately describe the fluidity of my gender but non-binary woman i feel is the best descriptor of the fact that i still identify as a woman yet there are aspects of myself that do not fit within the confines of womanhood. yet genderfluid i feel is best to describe the fluidity of my gender expression. or maybe im just gender-non conforming? i don’t even know. 

but then there’s the fact that i do not experience dysphoria with my body whatsoever and i’m quite comfortable with my body as is. hence, why i don’t mind being perceived as a woman most days since my body is read as feminine. and 90% of the time i present as feminine while 10% of the time is androgynous. so i wonder if im infringing in this space as im making this gender transition in that i’m not actually genderqueer and im just a cis woman whose confused or worse yet, riding on a trend. 

hopefully im making sense? i would love if anyone had advice on my predicament. feel free to DM me if you do. 

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desi chaotic academia

desi chaotic academia, a concept: teachers snidely remarking that you’re gonna become a doctor because of your terrible handwriting. “how to cram for an exam” is something you’re constantly searching on youtube. studying for the wrong exam and realizing only the night before. grabbing a cup of coffee, putting on your headphones and playing punk rock to keep you going, you attempt to pull an all-nighter. managing to study for only a few hours because you took one look at your geography textbook and went straight to bed in disgust. waking up the next morning mentally prepared to flunk, but somehow you manage to top, to no one’s surprise but your own. you keep getting into arguments with your history and political science teachers. soon enough, your friends join in (albeit on different sides) and y’all get kicked out of class for behaving like you’re “in a fish market”. being forced to watch ramayana on tv with your family, but you keep getting yelled at for pointing out historical and mythological inaccuracies and spoiling the fun. your room is what you call an “organized mess”- perfect for hiding your stash of kurkure, sting and snickers because no one dares to enter it. you return home from school, toss away your tie and blazer, and collapse on your unmade bed, staring up at the star-shaped stickers on your ceiling. you feel like you’re 5, looking up at them for the first time. you wish you were 5 again, young and carefree and happy. but the hope of studying, being amongst actual stars, holds you back.

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Remember when Lemony Snicket filled an entire page with evers? because I sure do and it was the epitome of my youth

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i love the moon, and not only because she is beautiful, i love her because she makes me feel safe and all my dreams go through my mind when i look at her. when she moves away from my sight and all those dreams are replaced by the reality it makes me feel an enormous emptiness and sadness inside of me. i love how the moon makes me feel, and that's why i'm always looking at her.