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wtf….I can’t even walk without tripping how she do that……

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I will take what is mine, with fire and blood.

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Catch Feelings for Kai Bastard’s Photo Manipulations http://ift.tt/1UUbAeN

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a testament to how i don’t deserve the unconditional love and support i receive

5.3.15

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Becky Albertalli, Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda

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Whose wig takes the longest to style? Daenerys’. Emilia has really dark, almost black hair. We have to tightly [braid] her hair first. Then we have to put a bald cap on and smooth out all the edges. Then we have to put a skin tone over that, and then put the white wig over the top. It takes up to two hours. Two wigs are used for Clarke’s character - one when her hair is dirty and disheveled, another when it’s clean and styled. (x)

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There’s lots more inspiring zodiac and astrology wisdom and info over on iFate.com right now.

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‘My dad took me for an audition once, to show me, ‘OK, you want to be a child actor, this is what it’s like.’ I sang a folk song about donkeys on this West End stage with this big director, and there was a queue of 200 girls all singing ‘Memory.’ I was terrible. Terrible.’

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Women hear it all the time from men. “You’re overreacting,” we tell them. “Don’t worry about it so much, you’re over-thinking it.” “Don’t be so sensitive.” “Don’t be crazy.” It’s a form of gaslighting — telling women that their feelings are just wrong, that they don’t have the right to feel the way that they do. Minimizing somebody else’s feelings is a way of controlling them. If they no longer trust their own feelings and instincts, they come to rely on someone else to tell them how they’re supposed to feel.

Men really need to stop calling women crazy  (via awelltraveledwoman)

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3 types of self soothing thoughts

Validation - it’s ok that I hurt and want to feel better

Reassurance - I can handle this pain, even though it hurts and I don’t like it

Perspective taking: I’ve had bad days like this before, and my record of making it through them is 100%. I can also remember my better days, and know I’m not always hurting this much 

Concept from Depressed and Anxious, which is hands down the best and most useful book on DBT skills I’ve ever seen. I highly recommend it! 

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T H E V E R O N I C A S

London, England. 3/11/15

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A fresh batch.