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yes. yes she is.

he might've...

Tagging!: @mint-to-be-13 @shadow404notfound @quietwingsinthesky @carolinelikesdinner

Fun game idea

Put your name (online, character, real, doesn't matter)

Generate a headcanon from:

And post whatever the first result is. Feel free to tag your moots and followers

Here is mine:

Tags (not forcing): @abyssal-author-and-artist @thetradlesbian @kamisheep @chaos-triangle @ whoever else wants to join

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honestly the boundaries between friendship and romance don’t really matter that much like at all if everyone involved is ok with it

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Apparently people who don't have executive dysfunction think that actually working on something is the hardest part of doing something. And that's why they get mad that you call the rest of the project "easy" after you've finally worked through doing the plan and know what to do when you're working.

So when you're through with the epiphany of how to make it physically possible to make the thing you're making, and you're sharing the plan with excitement, because the hard part is over, and now you only have to get your hands moving and do it, they get mad at you like

"it's not that easy! It's a lot of hard work! >:C"

they mean it, because

to them, working is the hardest part.

They don't have to fight their brains to get started. They don't have to fight their way through making the choices, making the plan, making yourself make the thing. People who don't suffer from executive dysfunction think that the hardest part is actually doing the thing.

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I see a lot of posts saying "teach boys about consent".

While that is true, a lot of parents will do that and fail to see how their own actions are the problem.

If you've spanked him, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you've forced him to sit on Santa's lap, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you've forced him to give hugs and kisses to family members, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you've grabbed him in order to force him to sit still, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you've labeled him as "too sensitive" for not wanting to be touched, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you've assumed he's okay with something because he technically allowed it even though he felt pressured, he's less likely to understand consent.

If you're only going to criticize his actions but not your own, it won't work.

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Either way, an Orpheus who didn't turn is an Orpheus who never loved Eurydice at all.

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consider: teenagers aren’t apathetic about everything they’re just used to you shitting all over whatever they show excitement about

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just got reminded that the only way I get to keep my grandfather in my life is if I let him refer to me as female

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you’re not a pervert for wanting to be a girl but also if you want to be a girl who is a pervert that’s cool too

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call my bed an ashtray the way there's fags in there

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"ohh my god you can't just-"

Am I yours to command? Does the collar 'round my neck have your name on it? I kneel to no king nor god, and I see no crown on you.

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the thing that drives me up the wall about “anti/proship” discourse is that it frames grooming as like, primarily an ideological practice in which the threat is that kids will “think adult/minor relationships are morally ok”. which sure maybe that happens idfk but the thing is that grooming is in practical almost entirely divorced from ideology and is so much more about individual exceptionalism… which I think is especially true for fandom-aged demographics! these aren’t kids who are just freshly learning the basics of right and wrong, most of them probably already generally know what pedophilia is and think it’s bad, it’s just that they’re also particularly susceptible to individualized attention that makes them feel uniquely special and mature.

like. I don’t know. it’s just incredibly frustrating to see people continually talking about CSA like it only happens because the perpetrators and victims believe pedophilia is morally permissible rather than because they think that their own personal circumstances exonerate them and make it uniquely acceptable and not harmful.

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Trans Fag Rag: Information & Networking for Gay/Bi Transmen 1996

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classics scholar percy getting a huge grant to do fuck all and go hunt for shipwrecks in the aegean

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a selection of artist memes hand-picked and curated by me based on my own experiences

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Something I want able bodied people to understand is that I don't want a diagnosis cause I wanna be sick so bad; I want a diagnosis because there is already something wrong with my body but I don't know what the fuck it is.