soldierofheaven

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what is contact paraphilia? /genq ive seen anti contact harmful paras, and im cpnfused

It's a contact stance. It has to do with if paraphilias can interact with what they're attracted to. We're pro-consent. We do not think children and animals can consent.

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Radqueer ball :3

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Thinking of starting to make emojis for rqs to use. Maybe some rq balls. Drop suggestions!

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I really wanna do this but with cisharmful.

- Vita

Changed the 5-stripe design midway because I forgot what it was during it if anyone wants me to edit some of them to be different i can

Based on @/queer-sticker-maker 's backgrounds

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Sorry for being dead. We have had a lot going on. It’s gonna be a bit until we get back together. Just some info.

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i misread the thing you add to the end of your posts as "support all paraphillas but one" and that gave me a good laugh

You should see the amount of people pissed at me for the banner. 😭

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I made my own blog now! -Boris

Welcome to the Gateway to Wonderland...

This blog is for me to share my journey on making my system. We're willgenic in a traumagenic system. From @soldierofheaven. We call our headmates soldiers.

Soldiers so far...

Boris Lebedev ... he.ze.gore.rot.dead.undead.corpse > masculine terms ; 🌙

Cheshire Cat ... he.gore.whisper.whispers.scratch.scatter > masculine and nonhuman terms ; 🎩

Queen of Hearts ... she.he > masculine and feminine terms ; ♥

The White Rabbit ... he/it > masculine and nonhuman terms ; 🐇

We have been on this journey since I was formed, but we were inspired to post about it by someone else on tumblr. I forgot their @.

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I’m not a radqueer, but I am a paraphile, and I can’t believe people are mad at you for saying “harmful paraphilia”. You literally specified you knew paraphilias weren’t inherently harmful, that should be the end of it.

I’ve been talking about this in servers too, and they agree. I’m ready to just cuss the next person who says I think that way out, to be honest. I’m also a paraphile. I have some weird paraphilias and they still mad. 💀 Also in the banner they’re mad about it also says we support all paraphilias. -Sir William Wallace

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people are that mad because you’re treating people as if they’re harmful for having paraphiles.. it’s not very radqueer of you tbh, get out of the community if you don’t support all paraphiles

I literally do support all paraphilias. That’s why it’s so funny. Literally suck my dick. I’m here to stay.

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CisBitch

Someone who is a cisBitch.

Pt. Alters not kins. We are a pro-endo traumagenic system. We support radqueers, transID, all paraphilias (but are anti-contact harmful paras), pro fiction. Pro-contact DNI.

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You can't just, expect people to Know something when it's blatantly written wrong, that's not how it works, at all, what's the point in being stubborn? Genuine question why are you being rude about this, you are conflating the difference between traumatic events and paraphilic attractions by having it written wrong. It's not rude to want it to be written wrong but you're pretty damn rude and insensitive for your only excuse being stubborn. If you have the time to write those two words you have the time to backspace a few times and write three more words back in, it's not that hard to stop being harmful to paraphiles.

Being stubborn isn't an excuse. I'm not excusing myself. I just find it pretty damn funny that people are this mad.

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not the same anon but i think paraphilias in general are pretty obscure and a good chunk of people, radqueer or not, will assume some paraphilias are harmful. /neu

Everybody's got a paraphilia dude. Just being attracted to breasts can be considered one apparently. I'm still gonna be stubborn, but I do understand what you mean.

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Hey! This is not in mean spirit at all btw! But I wanted to suggest changing the dni pro contact for harmful paraphilia to dni pro contact for harmful if acted on paraphilia, since no paraphilia is inherently harmful as it's just the attraction and not action ^_^ since the idea of a harmful paraphilia adds stigma to paras, have a good day!!

I think people should just know there are no harmful paras unless acted on. Like I didn't know this was a thing that needed specification. I'm gonna keep being stubborn though because I think radqueers know this.

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Here's the link! https://discord.gg/uRSRNHq7Sf

Hi guys! Me and my girlfriend are making a radqueer fult. Is anyone interested in an invite?

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Happy 100 followers. This is probably gonna go down again if we went through and cleared out anti-endos and anti-radqueers. We’ve gone through so many stances on this blog.

Reminder we are radqueer I guess.

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Can you make a fire themed one pls? 💚💚💚💚

Anon, I do so many things with this blog. Elaborate.

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YOU'RE WELCOME ILY2/P

IT SHOULD BE FIXED NOW BTW