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i've been so horny all the time help me idk what to do i dont have anyone to solve that problem with loool

haha i'm sorry babe! everyone masturbates, hun, just explore that xx

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Where's your blog? :(

londonstorms x

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Sooo, I come to your blog a lot. c: but this would be more of a big sister question. My bf and I have been together since 11/15, and it's all great! But the thing is, I'm 16, and he's 17, so I still need to ask my mom and dad about hanging out with him and stuff... And that's where the problem is. I feel awkward talking about it with them because its my first real boyfriend and things.... Any suggestions? Thanks so much! You're a lifesaver! ❤(:

aw it's fine :) i was in the same situation but now i don't know why i was so nervous! your parents dated, right? so don't feel weird about it! they know how it works and it's not anything to waste worrying on.

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any oral sex tips/thimgs to know?

everyone always asks this! just don't use teeth and keep it wet and you'll be fine :) you're literally just bobbing up and down

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is it weird to be going into college a virgin? it's not like i want to be or anything.. my friend just lost her virginity, which means now practically everyone i know has had sex, other then me.. im so unlikeable, i hate myself for it, but like. AH im emotional haha.

noooo not at all! i'm a sophomore and i still have a lot of friends who are virgins! please don't make any decisions based on what other people are doing.

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That moment where you’re connected for the first time.

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tips for making out? i don't wanna suck my first time gaah

don't worry too much about it! it'll come naturally

just remember to go easy with the teeth and tongue and follow his/her lead if they know what they're doing. the worst thing you can do is over-teeth ugh it feels so bad haha

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Thank you, honestly, this may sound corny as all hell, but I'm pretty alone, I have some crap friends and a family who doesn't care, no sisters, so this is kind of like a caring tumblr version of a big sister, I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks so, I appreciate this and you. x

awww i love that

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turns out im going to be one of those virgin college students who've never been kissed.. i feel like a tool, is it really that odd for someone to be alone?

oh god no! and the best part is no one knows if you've done nothing or everything in college :) so you basically get to start over and do what you want, it doesn't matter if you've kissed anyone. i know multiple people who went to college completely virgin (no kisses, no boyfriends) and some ended up with boyfriends quickly, turned into sluts haha, or just stayed the way they were! it's nothing to worry about.

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So I'm pretty sure there's a hell of a lot of sexual tension going on between me and my crush, but I don't really want to have sex yet what should I do?

Sexual tension is totally normal 'cause humans are sexual creatures. That being said, don't feel pressured at all to comply. Sort out your feelings! If he pressures you, it's not worth it. But it sounds like he hasn't yet, so just relax and do what feels right to you.

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So I noticed recently that I have a really strong vaginal odor, rlly embarassing I know, like when I sit down in a place for a long time and I get up the place I was sitting in smells... I shower daily, I'm not sexually active-- and I notice it when I open my legs. I also don't have a bacterial infection since I don't feel any discomfort or anything... How can I get rid of it for good???

There are all kinds of gentle soaps and creams at drugstores/Wal-Mart you can buy and use! Just browse the feminine care or soap section and see which is best for you and your problem.

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so i had sex with my gf the other day n i feel lik i dont last long n that i wont please her wat do u suggest i do???

Most guys don't last long! Try doing handjobs or oral sex before, that way when you actually do it you'll last. The guys I know have things they do (lip biting, etc.) or think about that help them hold out longer. It's just something you have to learn from experience and lots of communication.

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How do you be on top? Every time I try to with my boyfriend I feel absolutely nothing. I go back and forth while lying like horizontally and neither one of us get off on it at all. Do you have any tips? Like should I sit up vertically and go up and down instead? And do you have any like porn videos I could watch to learn from?

Sitting up vertically is the best way to do it in my experience. If you lie down on top, he basically does all of the work 'cause he'll have to thrust upwards for it to work.

The last one is what I was describing when I said he'd be doing all of the work. I like to start out doing the first two gifs then finish with the last.

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do u lik to give bjs? cuz im scared that i wont lik it wen my bf cums do u swallow? wat does it feel n taste lik?

I mean, it's not my favorite thing to do, but it's nice to have that kind of power over a guy and they usually don't last long. If he's considerate, he'll warn you before he cums so it doesn't surprise you, but it's just warm and salty, no big deal. I swallow, but if you just can't stand it, spit it out. He won't care.

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my girl likes to suck my cock but she always stops after a min and i never get to cum. what should i do??

That's weird. It's a hard situation 'cause you don't want to pressure her but at the same time it's not fair to you just to be teased over and over again. Eat her out for a minute and then stop. See how she likes it.

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is it wrong to jack off cuz i do it n my gf doesnt like that n how often can u do it? or does it not matter?

Omg it's not wrong, it's natural. The more orgasms you have, the healthier you are, actually. 95% of the time in a relationship, the truth is the best way to go. This is not one of those times. Your girlfriend doesn't need to hear about you jacking off, especially if she doesn't like it. 

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If your a girl, do you bleed

Some do, some don't. I'd say the average is bleeding a little. I've heard stories of major sheet-staining, and stories of none at all. I bled a tiny bit but it didn't hurt much. Don't worry, if the guy knows you're a virgin he'll expect it.