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Its so nice being gay with friends. And I don't mean like, having any kind of romantic or sexual relationship or that sort of thing, though that's wonderful, too, but what I mean is like, just when all your friends are gay and you talk about things straight people don't think twice about, like celebrity crushes and oh am I attracted to this person or do I just want their aesthetic. Just having queer friends is so nice. Normalizing queerness together is so nice.

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All these REGs crying that the ell gee bee tee community came together to "fight homophobia and transphobic" as if the cis haven't been screwing over trans people for decades, as if they didn't only *grudgingly* accept the existence of trans people so they could piggy back on all the trans community has accomplished, as if the cis LG community hasn't always been a festering cesspit of transphobia and remains so to this very day, as if they don't throw trans people and especially trans women under the bus at the first possible opportunity, as if they aren't responsible for the deaths of countless queer youth, directly or indirectly, because of the glee with which they try to imitate oppressive power structures in their joke of a "community," as if they only tack us on at the end of their arguments and about pages as a token to make them seem more enlightened and inclusive, only to fuck us over as soon as it's convenient for them. Aphobes, biphobes, and TWERFS/transphobes of all kinds, this is your legacy. The community never "came together to fight transphobia" --it threw the trans community a scrap then told us to sit down and shut up or else.

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Anyways I hate The Cis™. Yes All Cis.

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I am a wonderful gay trans man

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I, a filthy aro trans allogay, personally love and welcome anyone into the queer community who genuinely needs it and is just trying to survive. I would a thousand times rather have "confused straight people" in the community than the fucking REGs that currently infest it. Let people question and learn and grow, let people use what labels they feel most comfortable with or none at all. All aces are welcome here, all aros are welcome here, all m-spec folks are welcome here, all nonbinary and trans folks are welcome here, and all hateful, gate keeping, vile, abusive shitstains can go jump in a lake. The queer community is a place of love and radical acceptance, not of hysteria and hatemongering.

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Cis people are such fucking jokes they get so wildly offended that trans people exist. like... grow the fuck up. Get a life.

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I think with the new year, I really am going to start moving over to my new blog in full force now. Mutuals, please do hit me up under my new URL oldmountainsoul

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I think with the new year, I really am going to start moving over to my new blog in full force now. Mutuals, please do hit me up under my new URL oldmountainsoul

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“not every show needs queer characters”

well not every show needs 25 straight white carbon copies of the same characters from every other show ever aired in the history of television yet here we are with ten thousand of you on tv and one of me if I’m lucky

how dare you eat a feast, throw me a bone while I’m starving, and then tell me to be happy that I’m finally equal to you you spoiled entitled brat

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Hermione Granger: *comes from muggle world and discovers magic*

Hermione Granger: *witnesses humans transfigure into animals*

Hermione Granger: *time-travels multiple times per day*

Professor Trelawney: “I can prophesize the future.”

Hermione Granger: “Bullshit. That can’t be possible. Fuck you.”

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Sometimes I type out a text post .. but then I think… I don’t think Anyone Cares That Much. I don’t care That Much

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Rent Help!

Hi, me and my girlfriend are struggling to get our last month’s rent before we move. We can’t afford to live here- let alone afford to move out. Details can be read here if you like. We are two transgender people in the rural south who need help to meet rent, we’re short by $125  and any extra will go towards our moving needs. 

You can paypal us at my new account: https://www.paypal.me/confirmedsoldier76

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i distrust cis ppl more than i distrust someone for being het, trans het ppl never fucked me over on a systematic level, cis lgb ppl do contribute to me being systematicly fucked over tho lmao

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Lith/akoiromantics, and any grey-arospec identity deserves just as much respect and visibility as any ‘more known’ aspec identity.

Lith/akoiromantics are valid aromantics, and deserve to be proud of their identity.

no one but yourself has the right to police your identity. You are valid, and you are a part of the LGBT+ community.

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Isn’t it amazing how asexuality is a valid orientation, which does not inherently sexualize those who do not identify with it.

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May all aces and aros have a wonderful new year!