sleepyfa

[sleepyfa]

People my age are meant to be going out with friends, partying, clubbing, exercising regularly, meanwhile I'm constantly sat on my fat ass ordering takeout, barely moving, constantly stuffing and bloating myself to the max, stretching and growing my already huge belly. I'm so addicted now I don't think it'll ever be enough🐷

[sleepyfa]

i need to smoke with a lil fat stoner and feed them a family sized meal, then get them even more high and rub their belly as they whimper

[sleepyfa]

i lovee when feedees get off on how much weight they’ve gained. Touching themself while jiggling and slapping their gut, fantasizing about how much fatter they’re gonna get…orgasming to the thought of becoming even more unrecognizable under all that fat.😮‍💨

[sleepyfa]

Call me a blunt the way I should be passed around by a bunch of alternative women

[sleepyfa]

ugh i love the thought of someone’s weight gain being directly my fault. i’m the one who encouraged you to overindulge, i’m the one who cultivated your helpless addiction to gorging yourself with empty calories till it hurts to breathe, i’m the one made you feel sooo sexy for being my mindless little glutton 🥰 and now your whole body is covered in lard and it all belongs to me

[sleepyfa]

Good boys drink their custard 💛🤤💛

They also oil up their chubby guts so that every inch of fat catches the light when they jiggle. And ket me tell you, seeing these jiggles put me in a trance to eat even more 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

[sleepyfa]

fyi: you can be fat and hairy and still be a pretty boy.

Pretty boy shouldn't only be for thin, hairless guys. Pretty boy is a damn mindset and you too can be a pretty boy.

[sleepyfa]

tested positive for being a horny little freak

[sleepyfa]

you fucking with fat bitches?

Since day 1 you stupid son of a bitch

[sleepyfa]

Resource List - feedism and fat liberation

From a sex-positive, social work perspective, the fat liberation movement asking the feedist community to reject an integral part of their sexual identity for the sake of acceptance seems antithetical to the values of liberation as a whole. It only serves to further perpetuate heteronormative social constructs and stigma in an attempt to silence that identity.

Fat liberation must be wholly sex positive to truly be considered liberation at all.

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here are the resources I used for my paper connecting feedism and fat liberation under a sex positive framework. please feel free to add on if there are additional sources you’d like included! This is NOT an exhaustive list by any means.

trigger warning: not all of these sources are nice about feedists or fat people. most of them are at baseline neutral to positive, but please read at your own risk.

Feederism: an exploratory study into the stigma of erotic weight gain by Alyshia Bestard (2008)

Feederism: eating, weight gain, and sexual pleasure by K. Charles and M. Palkowski (2015)

What’s fat activism? by Charlotte Cooper (2008) ((this was another thesis for a sociology department so hopefully y’all can find it))

Sex Positive Social Work by Sarah Jane Dodd (2020)

Help me get fat! Feederism as a communal deviance on the internet by A. Prohaska (2013)

Fat liberation: how social workers can incorporate fat activism to promote care and justice by B.L. Sorensen and A. Krings (2023)

Feederism in context: mainstream depictions, psychology, and sociology by K. Charles and M. Palkowski (2015)

Fat and forgotten: the exclusion of fat women in sexual liberation and the implications for sexual public health by S. Barreto (2023)

Fearing the Black Body: the racial origins of fatphobia by Sabrina Strings (2019)

[sleepyfa]

I want a partner who's going to let me very publicly indulge. Who's going to make sure I never want for anything if we can help it. Who's gonna tell me how proud they are of me when I go for that seventh plate or finish that twelfth donut.

I want a partner who's going to remind me how big I am when we're out. Someone whose instinct when I come for a hug is to reach down and grab my belly. Who loudly asks me when we order food, "oh is that all, baby?" or "I think you'll still be hungry." I want someone who will park a little close to the car next to us, so I have to try and squeeze my growing body by.

I want a partner who tells me every day how fat I'm getting and how if I keep going I'm gonna be huge. Someone who tells me when I've been looking extra-big lately. Someone who's hands and lips can't help but find my belly when we're kissing.

I need someone who's as obsessed with my belly as me, who looks at me across the table as I'm stuffed practically immobile and says,

"I think we can do a little more."

[sleepyfa]

Dominant greedy and spoiled feedee + subby enabler feeder is a really hot dynamic just saying 👀

[sleepyfa]

I want to help you squeeze your plumped up body into your jeans that you "swear fit last month". i want to come up behind you and look over your shoulder down at your new pudgy little belly. I want to rub up against your ass and feel how soft it is while I force the button closed. I want to watch your tummy expand over your waistband as you relax and let it back out. I want to turn you around and poke your belly and pinch your muffin top and tease you about how fat you're getting, but then tell you how you're doing a good job and you're such a good girl. and then I want to take you out to eat at your favourite place and not let you stop until your belly has popped the button off of those jeans.

[sleepyfa]

The best part about feedism is that you can’t hide your love of food very long. Eventually, your body tells on you, and everyone will know that you and your partner like you well-fed.

[sleepyfa]

fuck u (crawling over to sit in your lap like a spoiled little thing)

[sleepyfa]

i need to top pathetic style. let me give you puppy eyes and kiss all over your body, telling you i just want to make you feel good, don't you want to feel good? you deserve to feel good!

[sleepyfa]

GIRL TUMMY !!!!!!!!!!!!!