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selcas from the hello world era (from weverse)
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i love staying at home. if staying at home was a person i'd make her breakfast every morning and cook her soup when she's sick and never make her cry
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normalize calling boys pretty!! and beautiful!! and cute!!!
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Reasons why they should bring Seb back
Now that they’ve gone through the trouble of killing Rebecca off screen (hooray! It’s about time!), it seems only logical that they would do the right thing and bring Seb back, which means I have absolutely zero confidence in them doing so. But here’s my list of why they really really should, as I have been advocating for years now.
Section 1: It would break Aaron out of character growth jail. Since Robert went to prison, Aaron has lost so much. He’s lost a husband and a sister. He lost being a married man, owning his own home and owning his own business. And one of the most important growth things he lost was being a father. He’d already lost Seb and Ryan leaving wrecked the surrogacy story. So bringing Seb back would:
1. Allow Aaron to fulfill the dream he had of being a father and having a family. So many characters just get handed unwanted children but Aaron actually wanted to be a dad and so of course he lost out on that. Giving him Seb would allow him to realize that goal again.
2. Allow Aaron to grow up again. Since his return, he’s been angry, mean, adrift, committing petty crime again for no reason. Seb being back would give him purpose and a reason to clean up his act. It would allow him to get to be an adult again, something the character sorely needs.
3. Allow Aaron to have screen time and positive story. Aaron has been off screen a lot, so much so that all of his current relationship story development has taken place almost entirely off screen. Seb being back would give Aaron an actual story to play out, especially if there were difficulties in getting formal custody. It’s also a story that would have a happy outcome, once he gets custody, which is something the show could really use right now in the midst of all of the depressing terrible stories. And Aaron has always had such a miserable time on the show so I feel like people would root for something good to happen to him.
4. Allow Aaron to have new kinds of stories. Single Dad Aaron opens up so man new possibilities for him, being able to take on a parental role, having to think about Seb’s needs and not just his own.
5. Allow Aaron to have a full circle moment looking after a troubled kid the way Paddy looked after him.
6. Allow Aaron to interact with new characters. Single Dad Aaron would have more opportunity to interact with the other parents in the village. It might give him more reason to have a proper friendship with Billy for example aside from silly illegal boxing stories. It puts him into new circles, which can open him up for new possibilities.
Section 2: Seb gives Aaron a permanent tie to Robert. For whatever reason, the powers that be seem unwilling to let Aaron fully move on from Robert (that’s another whole post I want to write) but this would give them real reason for Robert to be a constant presence in Aaron’s life without it seeming weird or needing Ryan back. It allows him to never fully move on. The Seb/Robert connection:
1. Allows Aaron to keep Robert in his heart through Seb. He can bring him up with Seb, helping his son love his father and making sure he knows who he was/is.
2. Allows Aaron to maybe hear from Robert from time to time. Robert might have to consent to Aaron being the one to have custody of Seb and Robert wanting that, would be a nice signal to Aaron to that Robert still loves him and trusts him.
3. Allows Aaron to maybe finally deal with some of his Robert feelings in a more productive way, in a more positive way. And because he’s raising his kid, in a way that perhaps even his mother could understand and allow.
4. Allows Aaron to bring Robert up in any new relationship, not just because the show makes him accidentally sleep with Robert’s long lost gay half brother. He needs to consider Seb’s feelings in any new relationship and part of that can be whether Robert would approve of said new man in his son’s life.
5. Allows for an even more interesting return story should they ever actually coax Ryan Hawley back.
Section 3: Bringing Seb back can be a part of rebuilding the Sugdens. Obviously that was a line they used in reference to bringing John in and we’ve seen what a joke that has been. However, Seb:
1. Is the son of the ultimate Emmerdale Sugden legacy character, Robert. And he’s not retconned in the way John is. He’s someone people can watch grow up and continue the family legacy, especially if they go the full mile and give him his proper name.
2. Allows them to bring Aaron more into the Sugden family. While, yes, Seb would probably get lumped into the Dingles at times because of Aaron, Aaron can also get brought into Sugden family time, such as it is.
3. Allows them to give Vic and Harry more screen time, and use Vic’s obsessive family tendencies to get Seb back, giving her something positive to do instead of just being annoying. It maybe lets Harry become more of an actual character if he has a cousin with story potential.
4. Gives the Sugdens, such as they are, someone to rally around in general.
5. Is actually related to people like the Merricks, unlike Vic, if they wanted to explore that connection as well.
Section 4: Bringing Seb back is the perfect opportunity to use the fact that Danny is good with the kids.
1. Danny is great with the kids on screen and off and the kids seem to love him back.
2. It would be a better way to use some of his more cringe humor.
3. If they actually cast a good kid actor that Danny can play off of well, they could be such a fun little duo.
Section 5: There’s no reason not to do it. There’s nothing stopping them other than their own inability to tell a good or even mediocre story.
1. They’ve already gone through the trouble of killing Rebecca off. What was the point of that if they’re not going to bring Seb back. They’ve already done half the work.
2. It’s not contingent on getting an actor like Ryan back. They can literally cast any red headed or blonde child for the role (hopefully a good one but I digress…)
So in conclusion: BRING SEB HOME!
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aaron saying "that doesn't sound like him" about robert though🥰🥰🥰
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casual fan? no sorry i only know how to invest my whole livelihood into something and spend every waking moment thinking about said thing
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5 years without robert jacob sugden today
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baekhyun + the cinnamoroll hat ↳ requested by @baekhyunsbestie
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“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
— Unknown
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TORI, CHARLIE, & OLLY SPRING // WINTER (3x05)
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“Eventually soulmates meet, for they have the same hiding place.”
— Robert Brault
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i am ecstatic that rebecca is DEAD! and for people who infantilize her, please go back to watch the night that seb was conceived cause robert was too drunk to consent!
its something thats always irked me about how the writing (ie the other characters) and anti-robert fandom have talked about seb's conception as if it was all rob's fault and rebecca is just another victim of his. when in reality robert is HER victim. If you go back to watch that night you can see that she leaves the pub after just drinking club soda, and when she finds robert he's so drunk he can't even sit up straight, let alone consent to having sex with her. she knows he's super drunk and thinking about his marriage, but she wants what she wants. she should have walked away!
people see moments like this as being a gray area because that night rob was the one who initiated trying to kiss her. but its not a gray area cause she was COMPLETELY SOBER which means she did have the power in that dynamic and should have walked away instead of taking advantage of him at his most vulnerable! and i gotta say it: if the roles were reversed robert would have been locked up for taking advantage of her.
But because he's a bisexual man and "big bad evil robert", rebecca is the one who is coddled while rob is thrown out and shunned. its sooo sad! when he tried to defend himself no one wanted to hear it. and if he called it abuse, people would think he was trying to get out of being guilty, or co-opting that term to make himself look better cause people would have compared it to aaron's abuse or something similar, where there are clearer lines in the sand.
i could write essays on essays how i hated the way that was done! and rebecca in general was such a mistake on the writers part, which is why they sent her away and killed her off screen because of regret lmao
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