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Shout out to all the kids who always picked shape-shifting as their hypothetical power growing up and assumed it was for gender affirmation but now realize it was also a plurality thing.

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Show some respect, people.

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I feel very vulnerable with this one

Thank you to everyone who's done Animal HRT comics, y'all've helped me feel safe enough to explore and ultimately come to terms with who I am 💜

I realized halfway through making this that I was in Goldie's coming out comic, and now she's in mine. How fitting 😁

-Ember

Folks who appear in this: @ayviedoesthings, @welldrawnfish, @deadeyedfae, and my lovely partner Karver 💜

Oh and this is what I was referencing on the second page ^^

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Being a good ally means not cringe-shaming transfems. like I get it. she's wearing cheap clothes from Amazon. she's posting the stereotypical reddit memes about programmer socks and blåhaj and monster energy. Whatever. It's fucking second puberty. You were awkward at your first. She's exploring her gender later in life than a cis girl would. It's being a teenager again but everyone shames you even worse for not being grown up already, because you've passed the arbitrary gate of "adult", as if your own actualized personhood can be acquired that fast. Convincing and shaming her like she's the problem for being "cringe" or "reddit" or "stereotypical" doesn't help her actualize that self at all. It's the same shame society forces on teenage girls except it's "justified" either for reasons of pure transmisogyny or because she "should be acting like an adult", as if our childhoods, our girl's experiences, our girlhood, are not routinely and cruelly denied. What sense does it make to stifle someone who was not allowed to grow previously? Who does that help? Notice this behavior in yourself and others and correct it.

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My right nostril when there's a singular nose hair that's a little loose:

My left nostril when there's 50 nose hairs floating around in there:

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whenever you see a statistic about how often transfems are raped/assaulted/abused/face any kind of violence or oppression:

remember that statistics only show what is reported, either to the government or another agency (police, social workers, domestic violence shelters etc.), or to the polling agency itself.

and then ask yourself: "how safe is it for a transfem to report this kind of thing? how would it affect her standing among tme queers (who may well be the rapists/abusers/etc.)? how likely is she to be believed? how likely is she, when faced with the opportunity, to report this kind of experience, when it is safer, easier, and less retraumatizing in the moment to remain silent?"

remember that every statistic about the violence faced by transfems is vastly underrepresenting the problem. because the violence faced by transfems /TMA people is vastly underreported. because reporting it, often just becomes another form of violence

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I got fanart and now my icon isn’t just pixel art I made at like 2am lol. FUCK YEAH. Moving up in the world. Hahaha. ^>^

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I love Wikipedia subsections that are just absolutely unhinged out of context

Peak comedy right here

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page 0 of what I hope to eventually be a fairy HRT series, meet Ellie, a girl who just decided she really does want to be a pixie

featuring my fan art of @pennymations @nyxisart and @ayviedoesthings

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don't let my tits distract u from the fact that i'm not ok in the head

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asexual margaret thatcher moodboard

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You can't serve cunt and the system.