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“If you aren’t willing to work for it, then don’t complain about not having it”

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It takes 1 month to form a habit

2 months until you to feel it

3 months until you see the results

4 months until everybody sees it

Stop putting it off and start now!

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the myth of communicating with men

in the military when a solider messes up they dont pull them to a room and give them a lecture, they tell them "get down and give me 50 pushups"

they tell them they're cleaning the kitchen for the next week or that their weekend privileges are revoked

why?

because that's the only thing that gets them to change their behavior and do better

ladies go ahead and do yourself a favor and stop trying to get men to do things or change their behavior by communicating to them and telling them that this hurts your feelings, this upsets you or you'd like for things to be different

men don't understand (or respect) the spoken language

they only understand action

you can go to couples therapy ,rant, complain, nag, give hints, or do whatever you want

but the moment, you stop cooking and cleaning

you stop giving it up in the bedroom

or completely pack your bags and walk out on them

that's when they "magically" become willing to change and do what you want

if you talk a lot of shit but don't back it up with action, men will walk all over you

that's why i never understood women who feel the need to confront their man about cheating

all that arguing, screaming and threatening, just to end up laid up next to him on the bed and to continue cooking and cleaning for him like a good little maid

do you think that man takes you seriously? as long as his "privileges" aren't impacted he couldn't care less,

stop expecting men to change while you continue to provide them with the perfect environment, a man doesn't care about how much talking you do as long as there's food on the table, his clothes are clean, and his sexual needs are met

start standing on business now

he doesn't want to take out the trash ? well guess i'm not cooking anymore, the smell is making you nauseous, go and excuse yourself to the bedroom and take a nap

he cant bother to do the groceries properly? well i guess we're eating bland food from now on cause you don't have all the ingredients you need

he stopped taking you out on dates? dress to the nines and go out on your own and don't give him a heads up

once their "privileges" are threatened, that's when men spring to action, suddenly they can do better, suddenly they remember your birthday, and they do their part of the housework, suddenly the grocery list isn't so hard to comprehend, and they take the dog for a walk and the trash out no questions asked

whenever my dad would become insufferable, my mom would take a trip to grandmas and stay there for a few weeks, being too available often makes people take you for granted, my dad would be calling and asking mom to get back within the first few days!

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POV: You married a generous, gentle, provider man

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Stop waiting around and do it now!

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choose a man who’s filled with devotion only for you. only having eyes for you, honoring the sacredness of your body, protecting your heart, worshipping the ground you walk on.

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Approaching every situation with the mindset of “how can I come out of this as a winner, how can I turn this situation to my advantage?” is a game-changer. It switches the whole focus from one of negativity & denying your own power (feeling overwhelmed, uncertainty, anxiety, what ifs) to one of positivity & ownership of your own power (this is how to make the best of the situation, this is how I gain x and y). It’s all about mindset.

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lucky girl syndrome

✨i’m such a lucky girl ✨ good things always happen to me ✨ everything always works out in my favor✨i am worthy of happiness ✨i am full of gratitude✨i am worthy of love ✨ i am divine