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Hehe guys I'm so excited!! Mommy is flying down to see me on Tuesday!! I can't wait I love her sm imma give her the biggest hug ever!!!!!!!!!

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things I love about cg's

-their voices

-when they brush your hair

-being read to

-when they play your game or toys with you

-when they can tell your upset and do the soft "hey" "look at me" with a head tilt

-them grabbing your chin

-them saying shhh while your crying

-how gentle their touch is

-them putting a towel around you when you get out of the shower

-being rocked in their arms

-sitting in their lap and they start to do the bounce thing (WEEEEE)

-when they call you a good baby/kid

-when they help you put on/take off your socks or shoes

-them washing your hair in the shower

-getting tall things you cant reach

-putting bandaids on injuries

-how protective they are

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agerediaps culture is feeling shy about wearing dips and asking to be changed even though your cg knows about it and is very sweet and accepting

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honestly a little embarrassed to actually post this fully this is the first time ive actually post on tumblr 😭 so sorry im embarrassed🥹but i felt the need to draw my faves as regressors (pesci is now big bro i fear sigh…)

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DO NOT USE, STEAL, COPY, TRACE.

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shadow regressor outfit!

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My brain anytime there is any inconvenience

(I regress so easily helpppp)

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imagine having a nap day with your caregiver

they put your favorite movie on , prepare some yummy snacks , and even put out your favorite stuffies for you to cuddle

you have your favorite pj’s on, a binky in your mouth, and you’re all coddled up in your comfort blankie waiting for your CG to join you

“You had such a big day !! Now that we’re home, let’s just rest a little bit, okay ?”

you then receive unlimited back rubs until you fall asleep !!

YAYAYAYAYAY :D

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cats with binkies!! 🐈‍⬛🎀🍼

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help idk how to be a caregiver

TW: Brief mention of ABDL and kink

Not to worry, I’ll run you through the basics!

Firstly, Caregiving, put simply, is take care of an age regressor. And taking care of an age regressor just means helping someone who thinks and feels younger than they actually are. While this can seem daunting, especially at first, here are some tips :)

1.Firstly, communication is key. When acting as a Caregiver, you should probably know how, when, and why your Little regresses. Asking your regressor about their individual needs is really the most important thing. There isn’t a cookie cutter answer, as we all have different triggers, tastes, etc. Some good points of discussion are:

What age do they usually regress to?

How often and for how long do they usually regress?

What gear do they use?

When do you need to be present/contactable?

What are good or happy things that can cause regression? What bad things can trigger it?

Are they prone to pure or impure regression?

What things make them happy when regressed?

2. Based on the established needs of your regressor, it might be a good idea to get basic supplies. For example, snacks, sippy cups, stuffed animals, and coloring books. These are necessities, especially if they already have their own gear, though I do recommend them for ease and comfort.

3. Most regressors really just want to be cared for like children. Using nicknames such as ‘kiddo’ or ‘baby,’ helping them with tasks such as cooking, playing toys with them, talking through something scary going for a walk together; it’s all about retaining that child like experience, with you taking the place of a parent or babysitter.

4. Know their interests and hobbies and engage with them. Watching Bluey, having a tea party, reading, gaming, exploring the park—whatever it is. Just doing it with them will make them happy.

5. You might already know this since you’re on my blog, but Caregiving is in no way NSFW. It is entirely SFW. Do not confuse it for any ABDL or kink relationship. Again, you probably know this, but I do feel the need to say it since this will be circulating this side of the internet.

6. Just be there. Listen to them talk excitedly about their day. Tell them you’re proud. Give them a sticker. Remind them you love them. It’s those small things that really mean a lot. 7. Lastly, here are some important things not to do. All of the things listed below can be incredibly damaging or even traumatic

DO NOT:

Say derogatory things like “you’re too old to be acting this way.”

Sexualize their regression

Intentionally trigger them without permission

Weaponize or withhold caregiving and regression, such as “I won’t take care of you if you do this” or “I’m going to tell everyone about this if you don’t listen.”

Disrespect or disregard their opinions because of their headspace

Use corporeal punishment

Generally do/say anything that is unkind or disrespectful!

Ok, that’s all I can think of for now. I might update this as time goes on. And if anyone in the community has anymore suggestions, feel free to add them! And to you personally, anon, thx for taking the time to ask and learn about all this. I know it’s a lot, but just that you’re willing to educate yourself on the community means so much. So thank you! anyway, hope you all are having a great day!

-Marty

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N$fw accounts will see "N$fw DNI" and think "nah this isn't about me"

I am so tiredddd of them ಥ⁠╭⁠╮⁠ಥ

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BABY ME.

I wanna be babied and coo’d at SO BAD. I want for my cg to notice when I’m fussy and settle me down, getting my paci and cuddling me while telling me what a small baby I am😖 I want my cg to understand when I’m having a tantrum and actually help me manage it with soft gentle words! I WANNA HAVE RULES LIKE A BEDTIME AND BE TOLD IM TOO LITTLE FOR THINGS! TOLD SOFTLY TO BRUSH MY TEETH EVERY NIGHT AND TO EAT! I WANNA BE SHY AND SMALL WHILE MY CG CHUCKLES AND COOS AT ME ABOUT HOW CUTE AND WHAT A SMALL BABY I AM. MHMHMHMHMHMHMHM!!!!!😭😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖

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things I love that cg's do pt 3 <3

-when they order for you

-when they rest their hand on your lowerback to lead you somewhere

-them opening doors and boxes for you

-them not letting you handle anything with a knife because they don't want you to hurt yourself

-when they take care of you while your too out of it, ie drowsy/drunk/high. them carrying you to your bed or moving your limp body carefully while your *faintly* aware of what's going on

-when they fix up your outfit/hair (buttoning my shirt or fixing my hair)

-them glaring at other people who look you up and down

-them patting their lap for you to come sit on it

-holding!hands!everywhere!

-them asking if your okay in a soft voice if you have injured yourself

-when they pick out your outfit

-when they rest their head/arms on your shoulders

-when they point to water or food for you to drink/eat it

-when they can tell your getting overwhelmed in public and start to rub circles in your back or your hand with their thumb

-being told to breathe while overwhelmed/panicking, and them talking you through a panic attack

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worlds biggest shoutout to the parents who still provide their adult kids with childish christmasses. advent gifts, baking with them, only opening gifts on christmas morning, watching movies with them, tons of stocking stuffers, etc..

(this is about my parents)

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boundaries between a regressor and caregiver - what are they and how to put them in place ! [a guide]

i often get people in my inbox saying "quinny i wanna ask my bf/gf/friend/etc to be my cg!!" which is great and awesome !! i'm so happy you found someone who you feel safe enough to regress with !! but, you little ones need to be mindful that finding someone to be your caregiver is only half the journey!!

so, here is a [mostly] compressive guide to agere boundaries !!

What are boundaries?

In simple terms, boundaries are the invisible lines we draw for our friends/family/significant other so we can feel respected in relationships!

These can be emotional, with examples such as :

Please don't discuss [insert triggering subject] when I'm present

Please don't shame my interests

Please don't lie to me

These can also be physical, which examples such as :

Please don't hold my hand without asking

Please don't sneak up behind me

Please rush me while I'm speaking

Boundaries are cool!! Can I have some?!

Of course you can kid! Boundaries are for everyone!

How can I set my boundaries?

Well first, you have to identify what your boundaries are! This is fairly easy!! Ask yourself some of the following questions,

Do I feel safe when [insert a specific action] occurs near me?

Do I feel loved when [insert a specific action] occurs near me?

[Examples of actions can include; yelling, lying, raising voices, etc etc.]

Once you figure out what your boundaries are, you can start vocalizing them! It might feel scary at first, but in the long run it'll lead to healthy communication and relationships :)

Find a time to sit with your regressor/caregiver to discuss both your boundaries, allow the conversation to be a two way street- be open to listening to your partners boundaries and answering questions [within reason].

This does not mean to allow your partner to pick and choose which of your boundaries they listen too. It simply means be open to further explaining how they can respect your boundaries- this could be a learning process for both of you !!

How do boundaries apply to caregivers and regressor relationships?

Let us get one thing clear, boundaries apply to every type of relationship. You and your boss at work, you and your teachers, you and your second cousin's dog walker...every type of relationship has boundaries because well, everyone has boundaries!

Regressors are allowed to have boundaries.

Caregivers are allowed to have boundaries.

It's important that we communicate these boundaries with our regressor/caregiver otherwise an incident can occur that can lead to an unhealthy/unhappy littlespace/carerspace.

Common boundaries that regressors may have :

Don't swear when I'm regressed

Don't shout at/around me when I'm regressed

Don't touch me on my [insert body part]

Common boundaries that caregivers may have :

I'm not comfortable with helping you [insert task]

I'm not comfortable discussing [insert topic] when you're regressed

I need space before I'm ready to properly caregive

if you've vocalized your boundaries yet find that there is a cycle of them being disregarded, then you may not be in a safe dynamic :(

[dividers creds to @softandsleepyboy]

-- with sparkles and love,

quinny 💌