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HOTNESS 101: HOW TO BE MORE ATTRACTIVE

There are plenty blogs and videos etc on how to dress, walk , talk, etc to be more attractive (usually with an axis on men). I'm taking a different approach, say, the long term permanent kind of attractive that's centered on you.

1 . Learn a foreign language.

Nothing says disciplined like someone that speaks a foreign language, and discipline is sexy. Enroll in a foreign language class and supplement with duolingo and other apps. The trick is to learn "parent languages" eg if you learn Spanish you basically know at least half of Italian and Portuguese. If you learn German the Scandinavian languages are yours for the taking. This doesn't just make you insanely attractive it opens doors for you.

2. Motorcycle license

I swear every sexy (especially feminine) woman I know can 'ride a bike' so to speak. It's a nice little trick to have up your sleeve that never gets old. You don't have to actually ride the machine but the know how is incredibly sexy

3. Learn a dance

No not street dance. Zumba. Ballroom waltz, whichever classical dance fits your fancy. Women that dance are insanely attractive. Hip hop and street dances are nice tricks to have up your sleep but classical. Classical dances ma'am. Top tier. That plus the health, physique and mental benefits? 10/10. Enroll in a class.

4. World politics.

No you don't have to keep up with what princess Katherine was wearing but you need to know what's the deal with NATO and Russia. You need to know what at least the big 5 and the UN are up to Plus local news. Current affairs , love. Make sure when the conversation turns to Putin you hold your own. And I mean a personal, educated opinion not just a repetition of headlines.

5. Cultured.

I understand when someone says "cultured" we think of western European etiquette and culture. That helps, it does but I mean YOUR culture. There's something about women (especially of color) that speak their ethnic languages, know their tradition (and respect/adhere to it) and owns it. Culture is identity. Identity is attractive. Know your roots, how deep and how far they run and stick by them.

6. Privacy

Theres a difference between being private and being mysterious. Learn it. Mystery is captivating. It commands interest and the people around you almost instinctively chase you. Privacy demands respect. Mystery is almost a game. Privacy is a character trait. They can co exist but. Privacy sis. Very attractive.

7. Own your story.

Especially for us ladies that came from ground up or from tactless to leveled up or from Cardi B to Amal Clooney , you get the idea. Own it. And by own it I don't mean lead by it. This thing where you tell everyone about your "flaws" so they can't be used against you, no. Its low value. Its insecure. It's no. Just, own it. When it comes up smile and say yeah that's what, 2016. Time runs. Don't laugh don't try bypass sit by it as long as they sit by it and simply own it. Nothing says sexy harder than a woman that carries no shame around things she's supposed to be ashamed about.

8. Education

Especially from a prestigious/ well known institution. A bachelors I whatever field is sexy, whether you work in said field or not. Bonus points if it's the big 5 of white collar jobs (medicine, law, finance,Architecture, or engineering) or arts (Philosophy is surprisingly attractive since everyone has a say in it. Always a conversation starter. Ive noticed the same with psychology but it's less conversation starter and more free consultation)

9. Signatures.

Scent. Word. Make up look. Style. It's attractive when you know who a person is by a thing of theirs. "The pearl girl" or "the matte lipstick girl", whichever. Find a signature.

10. Musical instrument

Im a fan of classical or uncommon. Guitar is good don't get me wrong but piano. Violin. Cello. Harp. Theres something feminine about these instruments. The upper hand is if you can play a , say, "exotic " instrument, like one from your culture that no one else does. The idea is to stand out.

Click :)

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Hi honey, I was wondering if you had an ideal time capsule wardrobe in mind that is in the femme fatale aesthetic. I want to learn how to dress better, especially with clothes that fit better, but overall work for all seasons.

Hi love! I would say the following pieces are great seasonless staples:

Black lace & seamless bra(s) and underwear (style of your choice)

Black Pima cotton tees/tanks (scoop neck, crewneck, turtleneck)

Black silk blouses (button-down. or wrap-style options)

Black silk camis (with or without lace detailing)

Black structured tube tops

Black knit bustier/off-the-shoulder tops

Cowlneck corset tops (look more expensive/public appropriate than a lingerie corset for daily/outdoor wear)

Black cashmere sweater/sweater vests

Tailored black vest/waistcoat (wool, satin, leather)

Black slip dress

Tailored/leather jumpsuit

Black blazer dress

Black cashmere sweater dress (sleeveless or long-sleeve)

Corset-style A-line dress

Black straight-leg/bootcut trousers, jeans, and leather pants

Silk black midi skirt

Tailored wool or leather mini skirt (pencil or A-line)

Tailored black wool & leather blazers

Black quilted or tweed jacket

Minimalist or Moto-style leather jacket

Black satin trench coat (or leather/wool for colder weather)

Black pointed toe/square toe flat

Black pointed-toe kitten/wedge heels & 3-4-inch pumps

Black lace-up boots

Heeled black pointed-toe boots

Sheer black/breathable fabric black socks & stockings

High-waisted shapewear shorts/control top tights

Satin/lace black pajama set or slip teddy

Hope this helps xx

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What's your high maintenance routine?

Every day is a day to dress up and look my best. 5am walks in the park call for cute workout fits. 12pm grocery runs call for a nicely styled outfit and jewelry. There’s no reason to ever look bummy.

Weather permitting, heels are a daily shoe. If I’m not doing something casual or extensive that requires a sneaker or flat, if it’s not icy or raining, I put some heels on. Heels in the form of sandals, boots, wedges, doesn’t matter. Not only does it make outfits cuter but it’s just hotter. Heels are the default, everything else is the exception. They don’t have to be too high and definitely not painful, it’s just the principle.

Sexy pajamas are the only option. I always utilize my collection of cute silky matching sets. Soft to the touch and fun to look at.

Sexy panties are the only option. Lace trims, silks, bows, cheeky cuts, thongs.

Shower twice a day, stay exfoliated and moisturized. Cocoa butter to keep my skin plump. A spritz of Chanel perfume to smell expensive.

Hair and makeup is done at the same time I brush my teeth and wash my face. I get myself together first thing in the morning. Doesn’t have to be a full va-va-voom face of makeup but a little something something to look more awake and lively makes a difference. I like to sleep with my hair in flexi rods to make curls quick and easy.

I put on athletic wear straight away to make sure I’m ready to stretch and go exercise. When I’m done for the day, I shower and put on a real outfit. I have so many cute clothes, so why not put them to use?

Don’t feel like crafting an outfit? Deciding which top goes with which bottoms taking up too much time? I throw on a figure hugging cami dress. I have a nice handful of them in a variety of colors. Some with slits, some without. Paired with some simple jewelry, a little bag and a heeled sandal, I look like a million bucks with minimum effort. 60 second outfit.

I have my nails and toes done frequently, but always take a small break in between sessions to keep my natural nails healthy. Even a few days off will help prevent damage. When I’m not wearing fake nails, I keep my natural nails filed short with a clear coat on top.

Athletic wear/t-shirts/leggings are for fitness activities and early morning errands on my way home from exercising. Not as a daily style. I always put on a real outfit.

Skincare, skincare, skincare. Non negotiable, not up for debate. AM and PM skincare routine no matter what.

I always have something to work towards and something to do. I try to avoid idle hands, engage my hobbies and work on my skills.

I care about putting God first and keeping His commandments. A spirit bogged down by the guilt of sin does not carry an attractive aura. People who live life on the right track shine brighter.

I do a posture check every so often. Sit up straighter and relax into it rather than looking like a stiff board. Walk with confidence as if I’m a model strutting down the runway. Don’t be too shy to take up space or be seen.

I light the candelabra every night so that we can have a candlelit dinner on the reg. I use the good china as the default. Our tablecloth is satin, our duvet and pillowcases are satin, the gold cutlery is the default cutlery. I enjoy the finer things and make it my daily life rather than waiting for special occasions and I want my family to have that standard set for themselves as well.

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I want to FIRE! Do you have any tips for that ;)

Hi love! While I'm not committed to their FIRE movement per se, here are some of my best tips to set yourself up for financial success:

Diligently keep track of your income and expenses. Audit every week or month to give yourself an honest look at your financial activity

Create financial goals and a realistic budget to help you achieve them

Prioritize saving up a 6-month emergency fund, maxing out your Roth IRA (or backdoor Roth IRA) and HSA account (if in the U.S.)

Purchase high-quality, timeless items that are built to last; It's cheaper in the long run to maintain items vs. constantly repurchasing items if you have the option

Create multiple sources of income: A 9-5 job, investments, side hustle, digital products, etc. Find ways to monetize activities you would enjoy doing without earning a dime

Focus on building a strong network and high-value, transferable skills: Even if you plan on working as an employee forever (no shame in that – it's a great way to get a steady paycheck), always strategize your career in a way that would leave you equipped to make it on your own. You need to be in the driver's seat of your career and financial life at all times

Make food at home, take care of your health, and take advantage of preventative medical testing, screenings, and procedures. Losing your health (physical and mental) is the easiest way to ruin your life satisfaction and your finances

Hope this helps xx

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How I Embrace a Car-Free Lifestyle and Invest in High-End Fashion: A European-Inspired Approach to Saving Money

As a fashion enthusiast and a self-proclaimed finance geek, I often get asked how I can afford to invest in high-end fashion while also living a frugal lifestyle. The truth is, I’ve made some unconventional choices when it comes to my finances. I’ve chosen to live car-free, pack my lunch, and prioritize my investments. Here’s why.

I live in America, but I have always been drawn to the European way of life. I love the idea of walking or taking public transportation to get around. Not only is it better for the environment, but it’s also a great way to stay active and save money. By choosing to live car-free, I’ve been able to save thousands of dollars per year on car payments, gas, maintenance, and insurance.

But my frugal lifestyle doesn’t stop at transportation. I also make a conscious effort to pack my lunch instead of eating out. This not only saves me money, but it also allows me to have more control over what I eat and how much I spend on food.

Now, I know what you’re thinking. How can I afford to invest in high-end fashion and skincare products if I’m living so frugally? It’s simple: I prioritize my investments. I firmly believe that investing in high-quality pieces is worth the investment. These pieces not only last longer, but they also hold their value over time.

When it comes to fashion, I love investing in classic pieces that will never go out of style. A great blazer or a timeless handbag will never go out of style, and I know I’ll get years of use out of them. Plus, by choosing high-quality pieces, I can be sure that they’ll withstand the test of time and won’t fall apart after a few wears.

The same goes for skincare products. Investing in high-quality products not only ensures that my skin is getting the best care possible, but it also saves me money in the long run. By using high-quality products, I can be sure that I’m not wasting money on products that don’t work or that I’ll have to replace after a few weeks.

So, what’s the bottom line? Living a frugal lifestyle doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice your love of fashion or skincare. By prioritizing your investments, you can have the best of both worlds. By living car-free and packing my lunch, I’ve been able to save thousands of dollars per year. And by investing in high-quality pieces, I know that I’m getting my money’s worth.

In conclusion, my financial philosophy is all about living a balanced life. I prioritize my investments and make conscious choices when it comes to my daily habits. By doing so, I’ve been able to afford the things I love without sacrificing my financial goals. So, if you’re looking for a way to balance your love of fashion with your financial goals, consider making some unconventional choices and prioritize your investments.

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Hey there, fellow ladies! I hope everyone is doing well today. Today, I want to talk about something that has been on my mind for a while now: investment pieces. As a childfree woman with a passion for finance, I know firsthand the importance of investing in quality pieces that will last for years to come. And let's be real, who doesn't love a little luxury in their lives?

First of all, let me just say that I am a firm believer in the power of investing in pieces that are timeless and high-quality. I'm not talking about buying just any expensive item, but rather carefully selecting pieces that are not only fashionable but also have longevity. This is where investment pieces come into play.

Now, you might be wondering what exactly an investment piece is. Well, an investment piece is a high-quality item that you spend a little extra money on upfront but that will save you money in the long run because of its longevity. These pieces are typically classic in style and made from high-quality materials, ensuring that they will last for years and won't go out of style. Think of them as the foundation of your wardrobe.

One investment piece that I have been eyeing lately is the classic black blazer from Versace. The Slash Cutout Wool Blazer is a drool-worthy piece that is not only elegant but also versatile. This Italian fashion brand has been around for decades and is known for its luxurious and exclusive designs. I mean, who doesn't want to add a little bit of Italian fashion to their wardrobe?

Now, you might be thinking, "Why spend so much money on one item?" Well, let me tell you, this blazer is worth every penny. Not only is it made from high-quality wool, but it also features unique cutouts that make it stand out from your typical black blazer. It's perfect for dressing up a casual outfit or adding a touch of sophistication to your work attire. Plus, with proper care and maintenance, this blazer will last for years, making it a wise investment piece.

Another reason why I am saving up for this blazer is because of the versatility it offers. It can be paired with almost anything in your wardrobe, from jeans and a t-shirt to a dressy skirt and blouse. The possibilities are endless! And let's be honest, having versatile pieces in your wardrobe saves you time and money in the long run because you won't need to constantly buy new items to match certain outfits.

Investment pieces like the Versace Slash Cutout Wool Blazer are not only worth the investment but are also a great way to add a touch of luxury to your wardrobe. Plus, with its classic style and high-quality materials, you can rest assured that it will last for years to come. And let's not forget the exclusivity factor that comes with owning a piece from an Italian fashion brand like Versace.

In conclusion, investing in quality pieces like the Versace Slash Cutout Wool Blazer is a wise financial decision for any childfree woman who loves fashion. Not only will it save you money in the long run, but it will also add a touch of luxury and exclusivity to your wardrobe. So go ahead, treat yourself to that investment piece you've been eyeing. You won't regret it!

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Welcome to Rich Aunt Finance: Empowering Childfree Women to Build Wealth and Live Luxuriously

Welcome to Rich Aunt Finance, a personal finance blog for childfree women who prioritize financial freedom and luxury living. Here, we believe that financial success is achievable for anyone, and we're committed to helping our readers make informed decisions about budgeting, investing, and buying luxury goods.

At Rich Aunt Finance, we understand that being childfree allows us to live a certain lifestyle that may not be possible for those with children. That's why we focus on the unique financial challenges and opportunities that come with this lifestyle, including the choice to be solo by choice. We're all about creating a life of abundance, without the burden of debt.

We're committed to providing our readers with insightful and practical advice on a wide range of personal finance topics. From saving for retirement and building an emergency fund to investing in stocks and real estate, we've got you covered. We'll also share our experiences with luxury goods and services, showing you how to indulge in the finer things in life without breaking the bank.

So, whether you're just starting on your financial journey or you're a seasoned investor, Rich Aunt Finance has something for you. Let's embark on this journey together and achieve financial success!