reddraven

[reddraven]

do i actually want someone to hurt me until i cry? or do i just want the aftercare and attention that comes along with it? the world may never know.

someone holding me, telling me i did a good job. dressing any wounds i may have, holding an ice pack to my bruises. someone who will bathe me after, taking care to be extra gentle around any marks i got.

just. 🥺😭 someone who will take care of me, who proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that they’re doing all of this (all. of it) because they care about me.

[reddraven]

Imagine how entertaining it would be to force some poor, denied sub to overstim me?

You could put them on a leash to control their thrusts as they pound into me relentlessly.

I'd cum over and over again while the other sub gets to be nothing more than a human fuck machine.

Laugh when they beg you to cum. Slap them if they slow down.

While all the while, I'd be writhing under them, crying, "please please no more. I can't. I can't cum any more please"

And then afterwards, we can all cuddle up and your two little playthings can tell you all about how good you make us feel while we kiss each others tears away 🥰

[reddraven]

Bruise check!

Who wants to come make me even more sore?

[reddraven]

I had a really intense scene with my dom last night that ended abruptly with no aftercare because his legs hurt. How would you cope with this? How would you come back down to earth and into your body? I���m also feeling sad that this is probably the end of our kink relationship cause it doesn’t feel safe to play if there’s a chance I won’t get any aftercare.

Hey! Sorry it took me a bit to see this, I had some major stress in my life recently.

I'm sorry that happened to you. I agree that I wouldn't feel safe playing with someone who doesn't prioritize aftercare.

While your partners *should* always engage in aftercare with you, it's helpful to keep a care plan on hand for yourself. For example, I know I experience a lot of muscle soreness, and a lot of depression when I'm in drop, so my care plan typically involves an Epsom salt bath followed by snuggling into a comfy blanket wearing my favorite hoodie and cuddling with my bunny plushies. I make sure to get snacks and water during this time too so that I can regain my strength faster.

Your needs will differ, but I'd say start with the basics. Water. Food. Treating bruises, injuries, etc.

Then move to comfort items. Favorite movies. Soft clothes.

Treat yourself like you would a friend, and remember that it's okay to cry and hurt and feel your feelings for as long as you need to.

Sending love and kindness your way 💗🩷🩷

[reddraven]

Just lounging around being a slut... As usual

[reddraven]

i think if you sub in any capacity and you haven't learned to love the art of baiting people you're basically a grub you're loving in the mud and seeing the sun would kill you. there are days where a solid 50% of what i say to doms is a trap and you know what? they walk right into it. i started writing this earnestly but i think i might be a socially maladjusted human being

[reddraven]

does knowing i’m just a tiny silly little guy make you want to bully me and slap me around a little bit? huh? does it make you wanna throw me down and pin my wrist above my tiny head while you choke me and pound into me? and i whimper and squirm because i’m just so small and powerless and you’re so tall and strong 🥺

[reddraven]

Having a size kink is so disgusting. You like being towered over? Feeling small? Getting pinned up against a wall? This Friday night? My place?

[reddraven]

"be a good boy and hold your legs straight up in the air for me," they say sweetly as they take out the paddle. I obey and hold the backs of my thighs as I lift my legs up and extend them towards the ceiling, engaging my core and exposing my ass. They give me a couple of test swats and I moan softly as my bare ass begins to heat. They begin to spank my ass cheeks one after the other, keeping the strength of the hits even. The pain blooms deliciously under my skin and my cock throbs with every strike making me moan and suck in my breath and concentrated harder on the increasing difficult of my task as my stomach muscles burn in protest. The paddle comes harder and faster and they laugh as my legs tremble in response, a sweat breaking out across my flesh, "please can I lower my legs?" I ask and they smile sympathetically, "take five more spanks and you can." They wait for me to nod before delivering the first, so hard that I yelp, their paddle striking at this intensity until I'm writhing and squirming and it's finally over. They help me lower my shaking legs and bend to kiss me, "you did so well," they smile as they tap their paddle against my hard and aching cock, "spread your cunt."

[reddraven]

Treating bdsm like a reward rather than a punishment really activates something in my brain. Edging you because you feel warm, fuzzy, and safe when you're drooling and needy. Roughing you up and throwing you around because the powerlessness makes you feel safe and secure. Cnc because it makes you feel loved and desired. Overstimulation because you deserve to cum extra hard, you've been so good. Humiliating you because it makes you feel adored and empowered. Breeding you because it makes you feel extra connected and appreciated. Keeping you denied because you love feeling feral and needy. Facefucking because being my perfect toy makes you feel so pretty. Stuffing you with toys because you feel so wonderful when you're full. Spanking you because the pretty bruises I leave on your body are a reminder that you're adored. Hurting you because I love you and you love to be hurt.

[reddraven]

pathetic fucking fairy boy, not even 5 inches tall, straddling your tongue like a rocking horse and riding it. (bonus points if you have an inhumanly long tongue and fangs)

[reddraven]

Someone come bully me in my tiny crop top

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[reddraven]

i need someone to degrade me for liking degradation. "you get off on being bullied? talked down to? that's so...well, pathetic! oh my god, are you getting turned on, just from that? that's so slutty of you — but i guess you like that, huh? you're probably dripping like a dumb whore. i'll just have to treat you like one." pleeeease

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[reddraven]

i need someone to degrade me for liking degradation. "you get off on being bullied? talked down to? that's so...well, pathetic! oh my god, are you getting turned on, just from that? that's so slutty of you — but i guess you like that, huh? you're probably dripping like a dumb whore. i'll just have to treat you like one." pleeeease

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[reddraven]

hey ;3

(he/it)

[reddraven]

the secret to breaking a tboy’s brain is to reach inside his pants and shove your fingers into his boycunt, which you’ll already find nice and warm and wet. pump a few times, just enough to make his breath hitch, just barely teasing that rough spot inside and then. pull your fingers out and stick them in his slut mouth. make him taste his arousal.

[reddraven]

Getting a clit piercing so you can attach a little bell to it