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GRACE UPON GRACE E:41

Stop The Holier-Than-Thou Mindset

Hi y’all! Sometimes I’m church or (most likely) online, we see people acting as if they are “better” Christians than others. Maybe they read their Bible more, pray longer, dress more modestly, or avoid certain things others don’t. But the truth is — we are all saved by grace, not by how perfect we act. The “holier-than-thou” mindset can actually push people away from God instead of drawing them closer. Today, let’s talk about why judging other Christians for everything is dangerous and how Jesus wants us to love instead. We will discuss 1. Remember Grace 2. Judging Creates Division 3. Check Your Heart 4. Build Up, Don’t Tear Down 5. Christ Is The Standard, Not Us

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**By the way, this doesn’t mean we can never speak up if a fellow Christian is doing something wrong. The Bible says to correct one another in love — but gently, not harshly (Galatians 6:1). There’s a big difference between kindly saying, ‘Hey, maybe don’t say God’s name like that,’ and acting like you’re better than someone because of how you dress, how modest you are, or how much Bible you read. One is loving correction, the other is pride. Jesus calls us to lift each other up, not to push each other down.**

Remember Grace

Grace is what separates Christianity from every other system. Our salvation is not about climbing a ladder of holiness or reaching a spiritual level higher than others. If it were, the proud and the self-righteous would be first in line. But Jesus flipped everything upside down: He said the last will be first, and the humble will be lifted up.

If we start comparing ourselves to others and think, “At least I don’t sin like them” — we’ve already fallen into pride. Grace reminds us that none of us are good enough, but Jesus is good enough for all of us.

Judging Creates Division

When we constantly judge other Christians, we create cracks in the family of God. Instead of being one body, we start acting like enemies.

Imagine a family where one sibling constantly criticizes the others: “You’re not as good at chores as me. You don’t study as much as me. You don’t help enough.” That family would always feel broken and bitter.

The church is the same way. When we major in judging each other, we forget the mission — to love God, love people, and spread the gospel. While we’re busy pointing fingers at each other, the enemy celebrates because we’re distracted from what actually matters.

Check Your Heart

Jesus told us very clearly in Matthew 7: “First remove the plank from your own eye before trying to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.”

That means before you call out someone for not being holy enough, ask: Am I walking humbly with God myself? Am I correcting because I love them, or because I want to look better than them?

Sometimes our eagerness to point out flaws in others is just pride in disguise. Deep down, we want to feel superior. But God doesn’t honor that. He honors humility.

Build Up, Don’t Tear Down

Think about how Jesus dealt with people. The woman at the well? He didn’t shame her — He spoke truth but in a way that gave her hope. The woman caught in adultery? He said, “Go and sin no more,” but first He defended her from those ready to throw stones.

Our words should build people up, not crush them. Correcting someone isn’t wrong — but the way you do it matters. A word of encouragement can help someone grow. A word of judgment can push them away from God completely.

Ask yourself: Am I leading this person closer to Christ with my words, or am I pushing them away because I want to be right?

Christ Is The Standard, Not Us

The reality is: no Christian answers to you. They answer to God. That means my holiness, your holiness, and their holiness all fall short compared to Jesus. He is the standard, not us.

When we forget this, we act like mini-gods, trying to measure people by our own personal rules and convictions. But we are not the judge — Jesus is. Our role is to love, pray for others, and walk humbly with God ourselves.

If you see someone struggling in faith, don’t gossip about them, don’t shame them — pray for them. Be there for them. Show them Jesus in how you live.

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I hope y’all enjoyed and learnt something from this episode. Please let me know if you have any ideas for my next GUG episodes! Read your bibles, pray, worship, get in secret place, and/or go to church. God bless and remember He loves you, so much. Till next time…

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ROMANS 14:10 —

“You, then, why do you judge your brother or sister? Or why do you treat them with contempt? For we will all stand before God’s judgment seat.”

MATTHEW 7:1-2 —

“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”

JAMES 4:12 —

“There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destroy. But you—who are you to judge your neighbor?”

GALATIANS 6:1-2 —

“Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted. Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”

ROMANS 12:16 —

“Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted. Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”

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GRACE UPON GRACE E:40

Faith Isn’t Just For When You’re Older

Hi y’all! Oh my goodness… thank you so much for all of y’all’s support! I can’t believe we are on our 40th episode of GUG:) But anyways, we will be talking about something a lot of us hear, especially when we’re young. People will say: “Oh, you can get serious about God when you’re older. Just live your life now, have fun, and you can follow Jesus later.”

But the truth is — Jesus doesn’t call us to wait until we’re older, He calls us now. Faith isn’t about age, you’re not “missing out” — you’re actually building a foundation that will bless your whole life. So let’s break this down. We I’ll discuss 1. The Lie Of “Later” 2. God Calls The Young 3. Living For Christ Is Real Living 4. Your Faith Sets You Apart 5. Eternity Is Too Important For Someday

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The Lie Of “Later”

The enemy loves that word: later. Later you’ll read your Bible. Later you’ll pray. Later you’ll follow God? But honestly? Later often never comes. We don’t know what tomorrow holds, and the Bible reminds us that today is the day of salvation. God doesn’t say “someday,” He says “now.”

God Calls The Young

All throughout Scripture, God uses young people for powerful things. David was just a boy when God chose him to be king. Mary was a teenager when she carried Jesus, the Saviour of the world. And Timothy was young when Paul encouraged him, saying, “Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young.”

Your age isn’t weakness — it’s your strength. God loves to use the willing heart, no matter how many birthdays you’ve had.

Living For Christ Is Real Living

The world says, “Live it up now, worry about faith later.” But the world’s version of “fun” usually leaves you empty, broken, and searching for more. Living for Christ doesn’t take joy away — it gives you true joy, peace, and purpose.

You don’t have to “try everything” before following Jesus. He is everything.

Your Faith Sets You Apart

When you choose Jesus now, people notice. Your friends, your family — they see something different in you. And your faith can inspire them. Being young and bold for Christ shows that God’s love is alive and powerful right now, not just when you’re older.

It’s not about being perfect — it’s about showing up for God with a willing heart.

Eternity Is Too Important For Someday

Here’s the truth: none of us know how long we have on this earth. Eternity is way too important to push to “someday.” Why wait to walk with Jesus when you can have His love, peace, and guidance today?

Don’t let anyone convince you that faith is for when you’re older. Jesus is ready to meet you now, right where you are.

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I hope y’all enjoyed and learnt something new in today’s episode! Read your bibles, pray, worship, get in secret place, and/or go to church. God bless and remember He loves you, so much<3 Till next time…

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1 TIMOTHY 4:12 —

“Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity.”

ECCLESIASTES 12:1 —

“Remember your Creator

in the days of your youth,

before the days of trouble come

and the years approach when you will say,

“I find no pleasure in them”—

Read full chapter”

2 CORINTHIANS 6:2 —

“In the time of my favor I heard you,

and in the day of salvation I helped you.”

I tell you, now is the time of God’s favor, now is the day of salvation.”

PSALM 119:9 —

“How can a young person stay on the path of purity?

By living according to your word.”

PROVERBS 3:5-6 —

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart

and lean not on your own understanding;

in all your ways submit to him,

and he will make your paths straight.”

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GRACE UPON GRACE E:39

Understanding Ruth: Faith, Redemption, and God’s Hidden Hand

Hi y’all! Today we will be talking about understanding Ruth (The Book of Ruth from the Old Testament that appears after the Book of Judges and before the Book Of 1 Samuel.) I just want to slow down and take a closer look at this beautiful book in the Bible! It’s overflowing with lessons about faith, loyalty, and how God works behind the scenes, even when we can’t see Him. If you’ve ever felt overlooked, unimportant, or unsure where your life is going, this story will remind you that God has not forgotten you. We will discuss 1. The Setting And Context 2. Ruth’s Radical Choice 3. Boaz The Redeemer 4. God’s Hidden Hand 5. What It Means For Us Today

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The Setting And Context

The events of Ruth take place during the time of the Judges — a period of spiritual and moral chaos in Israel. People often turned away from God, and life was unstable. In the middle of famine and hardship, we meet Naomi and her Moabite daughter-in-law Ruth. This small personal story is like a candle burning in the darkness — proof that God’s faithfulness is present even in hard times.

Ruth’s Radical Choice

When Naomi urged her daughters-in-law to return to their own homes, Ruth’s response was stunning: “When you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.” (RUTH 1:16)

Ruth wasn’t just committing to Naomi — she was committing to the God of Israel. This meant leaving her culture, her religion, and her security. It was a bold step of faith, especially for someone considered an outsider.

Boaz The Reedemer

Boaz wasn’t just a wealthy, kind man — he was a “kinsman-redeemer.” In Jewish law, this was a relative who could buy back land, marry a widow to preserve a family line, and restore what was lost. Boaz’s role in Ruth’s life is a beautiful picture of Jesus — our ultimate Redeemer — who rescues us from spiritual poverty and restores our future.

God’s Hidden Hand

One of the most powerful parts of Ruth is how God is quietly at work in every detail. Ruth “just happened” to glean in Boaz’s field — but nothing is coincidence with God. Every small step — from her loyalty to her labour — was leading to a bigger plan. God may not always shout His presence, but He is always moving pieces into places for our good.

What It Means For Us Today

Ruth teaches us that:

• God includes people the world overlooks.

• Faithfulness in small things prepares us for big blessings.

• Redemption is possible no matter your past. You may feel ordinary, unseen, or stuck — but like Ruth, your faithfulness in the small moments can open the door to God’s extraordinary plan.

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Thank you all for reading today’s episode, and I hope y’all learnt something new today to bring into your journey with Jesus<3 Read your bibles, pray, worship, get in secret place, and/or go to church today! God bless and remember He loves you, so much. 🤍🤍

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RUTH 1:16 —

“But Ruth replied, “Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.”

RUTH 2:12 —

“May the Lord repay you for what you have done. May you be richly rewarded by the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge.”

ROMANS 8:28 —

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”

EPHESIANS 1:7 —

“In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace.”

MICAH 6:8 —

“He has shown you, O mortal, what is good.

And what does the Lord require of you?

To act justly and to love mercy

and to walk humbly with your God.”

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GRACE UPON GRACE E:38

God Still Wants You On Your Worst Days

Hi y’all! Today we will speak about it being hard/tough to pick up your Bible and pray on bad days. And yet… those are the moments we need God most. You’re not alone if you’ve felt this way. Even King David in the Psalms poured out his raw emotions before God. We will discuss 1. Honest Acknowledgement 2. God’s Presence Doesn’t Leave 3. Start Small 4. Remember Who He Is 5. Let Him Carry You

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Honest Acknowledgment

Sometimes we wake up, or something happens in our day, and we’re just done. Angry, sad, frustrated — and the last thing we want to do is pray or open our Bible. It’s okay to admit that to God. He doesn’t need a performance; He wants honesty.

God’s Presence Doesn’t Leave

Even when we’re distant, God is still near. Psalm 34:18 says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” You don’t have to feel spiritual for Him to be right there with you.

Start Small

On those days, don’t pressure yourself to pray perfectly or read chapters. Just say, “Lord, I’m here, but I’m struggling.” Open one Psalm or read one verse. Small steps still keep your heart opens to Him.

Remember Who He Is

Our emotions change, but His character doesn’t. He is still loving, faithful, and patient. Even if all you can do is sit in silence, you are sitting in the presence of a God who loves you as much on your bad days as your good ones.

Let Him Carry You

When you feel weak, lean on His strength. Isaiah 40:29 says, “He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.” You don’t have to force yourself to be strong for God — He wants to be your strength.

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I hope y’all enjoyed this episode, today! Read your bibles, pray, worship, get in secret place and/or go to church<3 God bless and remember He loves you, so much. Till next time…

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PSALM 61:2 —

“From the ends of the earth I call to you,

I call as my heart grows faint;

lead me to the rock that is higher than I.”

MATTHEW 11:28 —

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”

ROMANS 8:26 —

“In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.”

PSALM 46:1 —

“God is our refuge and strength,

an ever-present help in trouble.”

1 PETER 5:7 —

“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”

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Hi y’all! Please let me know what subjects/themes you want me to discuss for the next GUG episodes!

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GRACE UPON GRACE E:37

JESUS IS COMING BACK!

Hi y’all! Today I felt led to speak of what I feel in my heart. I woke up and saw Daily Mail posted that the Israel ocean turned red/blood, which sparked “fears” that God’s plagues have returned or Jesus could be coming back (could be either). Even if He isn’t today or this month, let’s speak about Jesus’ return! We will discuss 1. The Signs Are Here 2. Just Like In The Days Of Exodus 3. The Urgency Of Repentance 4. Wars and Rumours Of War 5. The Bride Prepares

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The Signs Are Here

“There will be signs in the sun, moon and stars. On the earth, nations will be in anguish and perplexity.” — LUKE 21:25

When strange, unexplained things happen — like seas turning red — it reminds us that Jesus told us these signs would appear before His return. The world itself is testifying that something big is coming.

Just Like In The Days Of Exodus

In Exodus, God turned the Nile to blood as a sign to set His people free. Whether this event is a direct miracle or not, it still serves as a wake-up call for us to turn our hearts back to God while there is still time.

The Urgency Of Repentance

“Therefore keep watch, because you do not know on what day your Lord will come.” — MATTHEW 24:42

We do not know the exact day or hour, but every heartbeat we have is a gift — a chance to repent, forgive, and choose to follow Him.

Wars And Rumours Of Wars

“You will hear of wars and rumours of wars, but see to it that you are not alarmed.” — MATTHEW 24:6

Our world is filled with conflict, division, and unrest. But for those who believe in Jesus, this is not the time to fear — it’s the time to lift our heads, because redemption is near.

The Bride Prepares

“The spirit and the bride say, ‘Come!’” — REVELATION 22:17

Jesus is coming for His bride — the Church — and we must be ready. That means living holy, walking in love, and keeping our lamps burning bright until the day He returns.

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‼️‼️The time is short. The King is coming — and He is coming for those who are ready. ‼️‼️

SPREAD THE GOSPEL. Pray for the lost. Live holy. Forgive quickly. Love deeply.

JOHN 3:16

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

“This gospel of the kingdom will be preached in the whole world as a testimony to all nations, and then the end will come.” — MATTHEW 24:14

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I hope y’all enjoyed and learnt something new from this subject! Read your bibles, get in secret place, worship, pray, go to church and repent of your sins<3 God bless you all and remember He loves you, so much!!

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REVELATION 22:20 —

“He who testifies to these things says, “Yes, I am coming soon.”

Amen. Come, Lord Jesus.”

MATTHEW 24:44 —

“So you also must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him.”

1 THESSALONIANS 5:2 —

“for you know very well that the day of the Lord will come like a thief in the night.”

LUKE 21:28 —

“When these things begin to take place, stand up and lift up your heads, because your redemption is drawing near.”

HEBREWS 10:37 —

“In just a little while,

he who is coming will come

and will not delay.”

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GRACE UPON GRACE E:36

The Gospel According To Matthew

Hi y’all! Today’s episode is special because when I prayed this morning, I really felt the Lord say, “Let’s speak about Matthew.” And I don’t take that lightly — I believe He has something for us here. Matthew’s gospel is one of the most powerful, personal, and prophetic books in the Bible, and it’s not just an ancient story… it’s alive and speaking to us today. We will discuss 1. Who Was Matthew? 2. Why Was Matthew’s Gospel Written? 3. Key Themes In Matthew 4. Why It Matters For Us Today 5. How To Apply Matthew To Your Life

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Who Was Matthew?

Before he was a disciple, Matthew was a tax collector. That meant he worked for the Romans, taking money from his own people — and often more than required People hated him. He was an outsider, a traitor in their eyes. But one day, Jesus walked past his tax booth and simply said, “Follow me” (Matthew 9:9). And Matthew did. He left his job, his security, his money — everything — to follow Jesus. That’s the beauty of God’s calling. He doesn’t just see who we are now — He sees who we can be in Him<3

Why Was Matthew’s Gospel Written?

Matthew’s gospel was written mainly for the Jewish people, to show that Jesus was the promised Messiah. It’s packed with Old Testament prophecies, showing how Jesus fulfilled every single one. It’s like Matthew is saying, “Look! This is the One we’ve been waiting for — He’s here!” The book is also a bridge between the Old Testament and New Testament — showing God’s plan as one continuous story.

Key Themes In Matthew

• Jesus is the Messiah and King — not just a teacher or prophet, but the Son of God.

• The Kingdom of Heaven — Matthew uses this phrase over 30 times, teaching us that the kingdom isn’t just somewhere we go after we die, but something we live in now when we follow Him.

• The Teachings of Jesus — especially the Sermon on the Mount (chapters 5-7), where He lays out how to truly live as a follower of God.

• Discipleship — Jesus calls us to follow Him wholeheartedly, just like He called Matthew.

Why It Matters For Us Today

Matthew’s story tells us that Jesus came for the lost, the broken, the rejected — people like you and me. It challenges us to live differently — not for the world approval, but for God’s Kingdom.

It encourages us to leave behind what holds us back and walk in bold faith.

How To Apply Matthew To Your Life

• Read a chapter of Matthew each day and pray for understanding.

• Practise the Beatitudes (Matthew 5:3-12) — being humble, merciful, pure in heart.

• Remember that Matthew left everything to follow Jesus — maybe it’s time to leave behind distractions, bad habits, or fear so you can follow Him fully too.

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I hope y’all enjoyed this episode today! Let me know any questions or thoughts you have on this subject or my others:) Read your bible, pray, worship, get in the secret place, and/or go to church today. God bless you all and remember He loves you, so much!! Till next time…

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MATTHEW 6:33 —

“But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”

MATTHEW 11:28-29 —

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”

MATTHEW 4:19 —

“Come, follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will send you out to fish for people.”

MATTHEW 5:14-16 —

“You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”

MATTHEW 7:7 —

“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.”

MATTHEW 10:32 —

“Whoever acknowledges me before others, I will also acknowledge before my Father in heaven.”

MATTHEW 16:24 —

“Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.”

MATTHEW 28:19-20 —

“Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”

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Hi y’all! I’m so excited to share with you our fresh new logo! I hope you guys like it:)

Just a little reminder — GUG (Grace Upon Grace) brings you a brand-new episode every 2 days <3 Think of it as your regular dose of encouragement, faith, and God’s word to keep you going strong.

Mark your calendars and join me on this journey — I can’t wait to grow in grace together with you! 💌

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And hey — while you’re here, remember: share the Good News whenever you can. A simple word, a verse or a testimony could change someone’s life forever.

“Go into all the world and proclaim the gospel to the whole creation.” — MARK 16:15

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GRACE UPON GRACE E:35

The Secret Place — Where It’s Just You And God

Hi y’all! Today we will be discussing what it means to dwell in the hidden place with God and how it transforms our life! We will discuss 1. What Is The Secret Place 2. Why Do We Need It So Badly 3. What Happens In The Secret Place 4. What Gets In The Way 5. How To Make The Secret Place A Habit

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What Is The Secret Place

The “secret place” isn’t a location — it’s a spiritual space. It’s that quiet, private moment with you and God where the world fades out. No filters. No pressure. No audience. Just you and your creator.

PSALM 91:1 says:

“He who dwells in the secret place of the Most high shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.”

It’s a space of shelter, of closeness, of honesty — where you’re safe in His presence.

Why We Need It So Badly

In a loud, chaotic world full of TikTok’s, texts, drama, overstimulation, and spiritual exhaustion — we need quiet. We need stillness. We need God.

The secret place is where we stop pretending. It’s not about performance. It’s where you bring your real pain, your real questions, your real heart.

It’s not just for when life falls apart — it’s for every single day.

You’ll be shocked how much peace and strength you feel when you just sit with Him.

What Happens In The Secret Place?

Healing happens. Clarity happens. Conviction happens.

You cry, you repent, you journal, you pray.

God speaks in whispers.

You may not hear an auditable voice, but you’ll know He’s near.

MATTHEW 6:6 says:

“When you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.”

Let that verse sink in… The secret place isn’t where God hides from you — it’s where He meets you.

What Gets In The Way?

Let’s be real. Life gets in the way. Phones, food, bad habits, social media, self-doubt, guilt, laziness.

We think, “I’ll come to God when I’ve got myself together.”

But here’s the truth: You come to the secret place to GET it together. You come dirty, messy, ashamed — and He loves you still.

Don’t wait to be “holy” — the secret place is where the healing begins.

How To Make The Secret Place A Habit

Start small. One song. One prayer. Five minutes.

It can be morning, at night, or even in the bathroom between classes or work breaks.

Grab your Bible. Light a candle. Put on worship music. Sit still. Pray. Cry. Thank Him. Ask questions. Listen. Make it special. Make it yours.

And here’s the best part: God will always show up. Even if you don’t “feel” it right away — He’s there. And He honours your time.

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I hope y’all enjoyed this episode today! Ask me any questions that you might have about this subject or my others:) Read your bibles, get in the secret place, worship, pray and/or go to church today! God bless and remember He loves you, so much.

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PSALM 27:5 —

“For in the day of trouble

he will keep me safe in his dwelling;

he will hide me in the shelter of his sacred tent

and set me high upon a rock.”

JEREMIAH 29:13 —

“You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.”

ISAIAH 30:15 —

This is what the Sovereign Lord, the Holy One of Israel, says:

“In repentance and rest is your salvation,

in quietness and trust is your strength,

but you would have none of it.”

PSALM 32:7 —

“You are my hiding place;

you will protect me from trouble

and surround me with songs of deliverance.”

EXODUS 33:14 —

“The Lord replied, “My Presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.”

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GRACE UPON GRACE E:34

The Message Of Obadiah — God Sees Everything

Hi y’all! Today we are discussing the book of Obadiah (one of the shortest book’s in the bible.) The reason is because I simply prayed to God today about what I should make this episode about, and I heard him choose The book Of Obadiah! The themes of this book are others betray, attack, or rise up in pride—God sees it all, and He defends His people. Obadiah shows that justice belongs to the Lord, and in the end, He restores what was stolen. We will be discussing 1. What Is The Book Of Obadiah? 2. What Did Edom Do Wrong? 3. God’s Response — Justice Will Come 4. The End Of The Story — God Restores His People 5. How This Applies To Us Today

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What Is The Book Of Obadiah?

Obadiah is the shortest book in the Old Testament. Just 21 verses. But wow, the message hits.

It’s a prophecy against a nation called Edom. Edom came from Esau — remember, Esau was Jacob’s twin. So Edom and Israel were literally family.

But when Israel was under attack, Edom didn’t help. In fact… they enjoyed it. They stood back and watched their “family” fall. Some of them even joined in the destruction.

Can you imagine that? People who were supposed to have your back… enjoying your downfall?

Obadiah says: God saw it all. And He does not forget betrayal.

What Did Edom Do?

God lists what Edom did wrong — and it’s deep.

• PRIDE: They lived in mountains, feeling untouchable. Obadiah 1:3 says, “The pride of your heart has deceived you.”

• BETRAYAL: They looked away when Israel suffered. God said, “You stood aloof while strangers carried off your brother’s wealth.” (v.11)

• MOCKERY & JOY AT OTHER’S PAIN: Obadiah says they rejoiced during Israel’s disaster. (v.12)

• VIOLENCE: They even helped capture fleeing Israelites. They kicked them while they were down. (v.14)

I read that and thought… how many times in life do we see this? When people get betrayed. When others join in just to be part of drama. When pride blinds someone into thinking they’ll never fall.

Obadiah is clear: God saw it all, and He’s not ignoring it.

God’s Judgement — But Also His Justice

This is where it gets intense.

Obadiah 1:15 says: “As you have done, it will be done to you. Your deeds will return upon your own head.”

God promises to bring justice. Not out of hate — but because He’s a just God. You can’t mock His people and get away with it forever.

That verse hit me:

God may be patient… but He’s never blind.

And that gives comfort too — because when you’ve been hurt, overlooked, used, or betrayed, you might feel like no one sees what happened to you.

But Obadiah shows us: GOD DOES!

Deliverance Is Coming

Here’s where hope enters.

Obadiah doesn’t end with judgment. It ends with restoration.

• “But on Mount Zion there will be deliverance…” (v.17)

• “The kingdom will be the Lord’s.” (v.21)

That’s a promise: God will bring back what was stolen. He will restore His people. He will take back the land and the dignity that was lost.

If you feel like your life was ruined by someone else’s actions — know this:

God can still restore you.🤍

Even if the pain came from “family” or someone close. Even if people cheered while you were falling. Even if no one defended you — God will.

What Obadiah Teaches Us Today

Let’s make it real:

• If you’ve been betrayed — God sees it. You don’t need revenge. Let Him fight for you.

• If you’ve stayed silent when others were hurting — Ask God to soften your heart.

• If you’ve let pride lie to you — come back to humility before God.

• If you feel like your life has been torn apart — know that God is the restorer. Deliverance will come.

You are NOT forgotten. You are not too far gone. God defends what the world discards.

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I hope y’all enjoyed this episode of GUG! Please let me know any questions you may have on this subject or my others<3 Read your bibles, pray, worship, get in the secret place, and/or go to church today:) God bless and remember He loves you so much! Till next time…

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OBADIAH 1:3 —

“The pride of your heart has deceived you,

You who dwell in the clefts of the rock,

Whose habitation is high;

You who say in your heart, ‘Who will bring me down to the ground?’

OBADIAH 1:15 —

“If thieves had come to you,

If robbers by night—

Oh, how you will be cut off!—

Would they not have stolen till they had enough?

If grape-gatherers had come to you,

Would they not have left some gleanings?”

OBADIAH 1:17 —

“But on Mount Zion there shall be deliverance,

And there shall be holiness;

The house of Jacob shall possess their possessions.”

ROMANS 12:19 —

“Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord.”

PSALM 34:18 —

“The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart,

And saves such as have a contrite spirit.”

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GRACE UPON GRACE E:33

Let’s Go Back To Church: Church Isn’t About Perfect — it’s about coming home

Hi y’all! Today we will be discussing finally going/returning to Church again after maybe a long time or even never! We will talk about 1. I Wanted To Go… But I Was Scared 2. Church Isn’t About Them. It’s About Him 3. What Happened When I Finally Went 4. Even If You’ve Been Hurt Before… 5. Start Small. Come As You Are

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I Wanted To Go… But I Was Scared

Its weird—sometimes I crave Church, then sometimes I feel anxious and scared thinking about going. I struggle with social-anxiety, which makes me nervous to leave the house and go places like the church. It can be so scary sometimes to go to Church, because of our traumas, or anxiety etc. but through Christ we can do anything! Prayer is so important for times like these. When you feel anxiety or honestly frightened to go, remember God sees you, He wants to heal/help your worries/fear — I’m not saying you won’t have ANY worries after, but instead you will feel even the littlest better/calmer about going to Church. Sometimes the Church music or atmosphere makes people reminded of a loved one’s funeral, which can be so sad because it makes them unable to visit Church without crying. But in a way crying is good! We should empower crying to the Lord, for Him, and because of Him. It’s okay if you might cry about church because of the memories. God understands, better than anyone! Don’t ever let anything stop you from going to church. Pray to God, let Him strengthen you, heal you, and help you. He loves it<3 Also, when you step out in faith, with etc. going to church you may find that you worried for no reason (which is most likely to happen.)

Church Isn’t About Them. It’s About Him

God tells us to not have fear of man (people.) We should only ever fear God, to respect Him, because He is the Most powerful, and most important! I know it’s hard, I understand plenty…. But remember you will miss so many of God’s open doors for you if you overthink about other people etc. bullying you, laughing at you, staring at you. (If you’re being bullied, people report it/let someone know!🤍)

We go to church to be in God’s presence, and seek closeness with Him. When you get these thoughts you let people overpower you’re suppose to be time with Jesus instead being stuck in your head about others. Literally just ask yourself why are you going to church, it always should be God. It’s also an amazing idea to get Church community, but these things are still from and because of God. God is #1 always!

What Happened When I Finally Went

So… I went to church today (Friday.) I was nervous, got anxiety, and overthought every single action and word I were to make. Girl, literally went and yes, got a seat, said the “right” words, and had a brilliant experience. I realised I had overthought everything just to be proved wrong! We shouldn’t allow Church to be a scary or bad experience by our thoughts, because the truth is Church is beautiful (of course depends on people, the church etc.) and a beautiful experience to get us out the house, feeling God’s presence, praying, and feeling His love<3

Even If You’ve Been Hurt Before…

First all, I’m so sorry if you’ve been hurt before (mentally or physically) by the church or people in general. But, I need to remember — God didn’t hurt You, Jesus didn’t hurt you — people did. God tells us in His Word that people/man are broken since the day sin entered the world! So, why are we taking it out on God? He hates what happened to you, so don’t run from Him. RUN TO HIM! <33 He is waiting, and just wants to heal you with His Holy Spirit and Son Jesus Christ’s blood.

Start Small. Come As You Are

I’m not trying to say read scripture in front of people at church, or that you have to make friends at church yet. Start small. Just enter the church, bow down before seating, sit wherever you feel comfortable, and just relax in His mighty presence. Don’t overthink a thing! Pick days or times you feel comfortable with, to go. Don’t panic, or stop yourself ever from being in His home!

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I hope y’all enjoyed this episode today! Please ask me any questions you have about this subject or any of my others<3 Read your bibles, worship, pray, and/or go to church today! God bless and remember He loves you, so much!!

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PSALM 122:1

“I rejoiced with those who said to me,

“Let us go to the house of the Lord.”

PSALM 84:10

“Better is one day in your courts

than a thousand elsewhere;

I would rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God

than dwell in the tents of the wicked.”

JOHN 6:37

“those the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away.”

ISAIAH 56:7

“these I will bring to my holy mountain

and give them joy in my house of prayer.

Their burnt offerings and sacrifices

will be accepted on my altar;

for my house will be called

a house of prayer for all nations.”

JOSHUA 1:9

“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

ISAIAH 41:10

“So do not fear, for I am with you;

do not be dismayed, for I am your God.

I will strengthen you and help you;

I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

2 CORINTHIANS 5:17

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”

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GRACE UPON GRACE E:32

Fasting Isn’t Starving — It’s Saying No To What Distracts You From God

Hi y’all! Today we are going to be talking about fasting, which is such an important topic and thing to do:) I may have already done an episode on fasting but I felt like discussing it again<3 When I first heard about fasting, I honestly thought, “That’s something I probably Can’t Do.” Sometimes I struggle with overeating…. And to be real, I used to bring up that I was fasting just to get attention. I wanted people to see me as spiritual — even if I wasn’t truly fasting in my heart. But thank our beautiful God that’s changed.

Now when I fast, I’m not doing it to impress anyone. I’m doing it because I want less of everything else, and more of God<3

What Fasting Actually Is

Fasting isn’t starving. It’s not a diet. And it’s not something only “holy” people do.

It’s a decision to say no to whatever distracts you — and say YES to God!

You can fast from food, social media, gossip, sugar, caffeine, your phone… whatever tries to steal your peace or your attention.

When we fast, we’re telling God: “This thing will not have a hold on me. You are all I need.”

My Experience

I’ve fasted before — from night until the next afternoon, until dinner. I give God my time and hunger.

Even when it’s hard, I notice something powerful happens in my spirit. I feel clearer. Less distracted. I realise how often I reach for food, my phone, or even drama before I reach for God.

Why Fasting Still Matters

In today’s world, we are always stuck on something:

• Screens

• Sugar

• Gossip/Drama

• Bad habits

Fasting is like flipping the table over and saying,

“NO. I want to hear God. I want to be with God today.”

It’s not about “earning” closeness — it’s about clearing away the noise so you remember you already are close.

Encouragement For You

You don’t have to fast for 40 days to make it count. Start small. One hour. One afternoon. One thing you normally turn to before you turn to God.

Give that thing to Him.

And let your spirit say: “God, You are better than this. I’m choosing You.”

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I hope y’all enjoyed this episode of GUG! Please let me know if you have any questions on this subject or my others:) Read your bibles, worship, pray, or go to church today. God bless you all and remember He loves you so much! Till next time… 🤍

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JOEL 2:12

“Even now,” declares the Lord,

“return to me with all your heart,

with fasting and weeping and mourning.”

MATTHEW 6:17-18

“But when you fast, put oil on your head and wash your face, 18 so that it will not be obvious to others that you are fasting, but only to your Father, who is unseen; and your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.”

ISAIAH 58:6

“Is not this the kind of fasting I have chosen:

to loose the chains of injustice

and untie the cords of the yoke,

to set the oppressed free

and break every yoke?

1 CORINTHIANS 7:5

“Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.”

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GRACE UPON GRACE E:31

You Don’t Have To Earn God’s Love — You Already Have It

Hi y’all! Today we will be talking about how we don’t need to keep feeling like we have to EARN God’s love — we already have it!! <3 We will be discussing 1. The Pressure To Be “Good Enough” for God 2. God’s Love Was Never Based On Your Performance 3. You Can’t Earn What Was Always A Gift 4. What God Really Wants Is Your Heart, Not Your “Perfection” 5. Stop Striving. Start Receiving

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The Pressure To Be “Good Enough” for God

Sometimes it feels like being a Christian means constantly trying. Trying to pray enough. Trying to feel holy. Trying to resist temptation, to stay soft, to keep the peace, to be a good daughter/son, a good friend, a good believer.

And somewhere deep inside, there’s this quiet fear: “If I mess up too much, God will stop loving me.” “If I get distant, He’ll give up.” “If I’m not good… I’m not worthy.”

This kind of thinking might feel spiritual — but it’s actually a trap. A sneaky little lie that turns love into a performance. And that is NOT the love of Jesus.

God’s Love Was Never Based On Your Performance

God didn’t start loving you because you were “doing good.” He didn’t wait until you cleaned yourself up. He didn’t fall for a perfect version of you — He fell for you.

The one with questions.

The ones who drifts sometimes.

The one who forgets, messes up, gets tired, snaps, slips, and still comes back.

He saw every single version of you, and said: “I want her. I choose and love her.”

“But God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” — ROMANS 5:8

You Can’t Earn What Was Already A Gift

Grace doesn’t work like grades.

It’s not about how well you perform or how few mistakes you make.

It you could earn God’s love, it would mean you could also lose it. But you can’t.

Grace is unearned. It’s undeserved. And it’s yours.

God’s love is not a pay check. It’s a gift.

You don’t have to strive for it. You just have to receive it.

“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God.” — EPHESIANS 2:8

What God Really Wants Is Your Heart, Not Your Perfection

God isn’t sitting in heaven keeping score. He’s not saying: “She skipped Bible study? Strike.” She cried instead of praying? Too bad.” “She sinned again? I’m done.”

No! He’s saying: “Come here. Let Me love you through this.” “I know your heart. I’m not going anywhere.” “You’re still mine.”

He doesn’t want a perfect performance — He wants a relationship. He wants your honesty, your softness, your voice, your tears, your joy.

Stop Striving. Start Receiving

You can take a breath.

God’s love is already yours.

You are not fighting for it — you’re living for it.

Even when you feel unworthy.

Even when you mess up.

Even when your faith feels shaky and your heart feels far away…

YOU ARE STILL LOVED.

YOU ARE STILL CHOSEN.

YOU ARE STILL ENOUGH.

Let today be the day you stop performing for God — and start resting in Him<3

“Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.” — HEBREWS 4:16

A gentle prayer to do<3

God, I’ve been trying so hard to be good enough. But I’m tired. Help me stop striving. Help me believe You love me already — not the perfect version of me, but the real one. I want to live from your love, not for it. Thank You for the holy Grace. In Jesus’s Mighty Name Amen.🙏

Thank you all for reading this episode today, I hope y’all learnt something to take into your own lives! Ask me any questions you have for this subject or my other ones. Read your Bible, worship, pray, or go to church today:) Remember God loves you, and God bless! T’ill next time…. <3 🤍

TITUS 3:4–5

“But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, 5 he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy.”

ISAIAH 54:10

“Though the mountains be shaken

and the hills be removed,

yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken

nor my covenant of peace be removed,”

says the Lord, who has compassion on you.”

2 TIMOTHY 2:13

“If we are faithless,

he remains faithful,

for he cannot disown himself.”

JOHN 15:9

“As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love.”

ZEPHANIAH 3:17

“The Lord your God is with you,

the Mighty Warrior who saves.

He will take great delight in you;

in his love he will no longer rebuke you,

but will rejoice over you with singing.”

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It’s Not Too Late To Come Back To God

Hi y’all!! Welcome to the 30th episode of GRACE UPON GRACE !! I just want to thank everyone who has supported this blog<3 Today we will be talking about it’s never too late to come back to God after a season or even maybe years of spiritual drought. We will discuss 1. The Lie: “I’ve Gone Too Far 2. God Is Not Surprised By Your Story 3. The Father Always Welcomes You Back 4. Coming Back Doesn’t Require Perfection 5. This Is Your Invitation To Come Home <3 🤍

The Lie: “I’ve Gone Too Far”

Let’s be honest. There are days when we feel… gone. Too far. Too broken. Too dirty. Too late.

Maybe you used to feel close to God. Maybe you grew up in church. Maybe you’ve prayed before, believed before, cried before.

But now? You’re not even sure where you stand.

And that little voice in your head says: “God doesn’t want you anymore.” “God is mad.” “You had your chance.”

Here’s the truth:

That voice is NOT God.

“For I am convinced that nothing can separate us from the love of God.” — Romans 8:38-39

God Is Not Surprised By Your Story

He saw it all.

The moments you hid.

The ones you’re ashamed of.

The heartbreak. The mess. The mistakes.

And still — He stayed!

You don’t have to explain yourself to earn His love. He already knows. And He still wants you.

He’s not waiting for a “better” version of you to come back. He just wanted you.

“Lord, You have searched me and known me… You are familiar with all my ways.” — PSALM 139:1-4

The Father Always Welcomes You Back

In Luke 15, Jesus tells us a story. A son who left home. He ran off, wasted everything, got tired of himself — and finally came back.

He was ready to beg.

But the father didn’t even let him finish the apology. He ran. Arms wide open. He threw a party. He called him “son” again.

That’s God’s heart for you.

He’s not disappointed.

He’s not angry.

He’s ready to celebrate your return.

“While he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion… he ran to his son.” — Luke 15:20

You Don’t Have To Be Perfect To Come Back

God doesn’t need you to fix yourself first.

He’s not waiting for you to be “holy enough” or “clean enough” to be loved.

He just wants your heart.

Just a whisper:

“God, I want You again.”

“I miss you.”

“Please come close.”

That’s all it takes.

He draws near you to every soul that reaches for Him — no matter how soft or shaky that prayer sounds.

“Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you.” — James 4:8

This Is Your Invitation To Come Home

It’s not too late.

Not after what you’ve done.

Not because of what you lost.

Not with all that’s happened.

God still wants you. He still chooses you. And He’s not asking for perfection — just permission.

To love you. To guide you. To start again.

So here it is:

Your moment. Your turning point. Your chance to come home — for real this time.

You don’t have it do it alone.

“The Lord longs to be gracious to you… blessed are those who wait for Him.” — ISAIAH 30:18

I hope y’all enjoyed this episode today. Please let me know if you have any questions on this subject or any of my others! Read your bibles, pray, worship God today<3 God bless and remember He loves you 🤍🤍

JOEL 2:13

“Rend your heart

and not your garments.

Return to the Lord your God,

for he is gracious and compassionate,

slow to anger and abounding in love,

and he relents from sending calamity.”

LAMENTATIONS 3:22-23

“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed,

for his compassions never fail.

They are new every morning;

great is your faithfulness.”

HOSEA 6:1

“Come, let us return to the Lord.

He has torn us to pieces

but he will heal us;

he has injured us

but he will bind up our wounds.”

MICAH 7:18-19

“Who is a God like you,

who pardons sin and forgives the transgression

of the remnant of his inheritance?

You do not stay angry forever

but delight to show mercy.

You will again have compassion on us;

you will tread our sins underfoot

and hurl all our iniquities into the depths of the sea.”

2 CHRONICLES 30:9

“If you return to the Lord, then your fellow Israelites and your children will be shown compassion by their captors and will return to this land, for the Lord your God is gracious and compassionate. He will not turn his face from you if you return to him.”

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GRACE UPON GRACE E:29

You Don’t Have To Be A Serious Christian To Be A Faithful One

Hi y’all! Today we will speak about letting go of the pressure to be a “super serious” Christian all the time — you know, the kind that’s constantly angry, rigid, or always correcting every music artist, films 24/7! Of course I’m not saying you’re wrong to be seeking the Holy Spirit to be in these things instead, but don’t let yourself get so angry and always be ready to feel disappointment!! Can I remind you? The fruit of the spirit isn’t anger, suspicion, or fear. It’s joy, love, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Joy is a fruit of the Spirit!

You don’t need to look miserable to prove you’re holy. You don’t have to chase after every fight online or even attack other Christians/online christian influencers by saying they aren’t actually Christian, or that they aren’t doing something right! You were made to reflect light, not to fight people with it<3

My loves…

• have a beautiful laugh with loved ones — especially God.

• Rest — especially in God’s presence.

• Be silly sometimes, especially talking to God.

• Let yourself enjoy the blessings God gave you.

If we’re too busy trying to look “serious,” we might miss how radiant His joy already is within us.

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GALATIANS 5:1 (NIV)

“It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.”

1 SAMUEL 16:7

“But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”

MATTHEW 11:28-30

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

JOHN 10:10

“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.”

NEHEMIAH 8:10

“Nehemiah said, “Go and enjoy choice food and sweet drinks, and send some to those who have nothing prepared. This day is holy to our Lord. Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.”

COLOSSIANS 3:12

“Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.”

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I hope y’all enjoyed this episode of GUG<33 I hope you learnt something and can bring it into your journey with Jesus :) Read your bibles, pray, worship and meditate with God today. See y’all next time. God bless and remember God loves you. 🤍🤍

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Verse of the day:

GENESIS 11:6 - "The Lord said, “Behold, they are one people, and they all have the same language. And this is what they began to do, and now nothing which they purpose to do will be impossible for them.'”