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Farewell, My Old Friend, Revisited

Hello, again, my Old Friend. As I write this, it is exactly one week shy of when I had to make the most difficult decision of my life. It’s been almost exactly one year from when I had to decide to end your suffering and you had to shed your mortal coil. I still miss you, terribly. Kabuki misses you too, still. Your absence is still felt in our home. While I don’t believe in an afterlife, and…

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Don't Be Unattractive

Hello there, Dear Readers. It’s been more than a minute since I last wrote to you. I’ve been neglecting this blog. When your life is going well, well, there’s no reason to write, I guess. Today though, I saw something that I had to talk about. I’m sure you’ve heard guys like @RuleZeroDad or Rian Stone talk about “Be Attractive, Don’t Be Unattractive,” right? I’m also pretty sure I’ve written…

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Being Silenced On Social Media, And What I Have Learned.

Better than Chemo: Social Media [Edit: This is a post I was writing back in November of 2022 when I got gagged on Twatter. I was sick of writing it, and so I abandoned it. Until now.] While I have been gagged from running my mouth on Twitter, and believe me, there is a LOT that I have wanted to say, I have learned a few things, or have been reminded of a few things. Most people spend way too…

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No One Is Coming To Save You

Also Known As: The argument about cheating. It’s making the rounds. Again. Here’s the thing: I’m not here to argue about whether cheating is ethical or moral, if it is good or bad. I’m here to say that it is a viable option in meeting your needs if your needs aren’t being met at home for whatever reason. All my life, I have been told to “step up.” Put others needs before my own. Do the right…

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Thou Shalt Let Them Burn

I believe that men have an innate desire to help people out, especially women. The term “Captain Save a Ho” exists for a reason. I’ve seen guys get into the middle of arguments and fights between another man and a woman and I’ve watched some of those fights “go south” for the guy trying to do the intervention. Worst case scenario, the would-be “savior” ends up getting himself seriously injured or…

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Honest Whores And Deceitful Church Marm's.

Welcome to the Year of Our Lord, 2024. It’s been a minute since I’ve wrote something. When your life is going along pretty good, there’s not much to say, I guess. Around New Year’s though, apparently a Trad broad decided to bake a cake and post it on the internet…. The whole thing blew up, probably went viral, and from what I saw and what I could remember, it pissed a lot of people off. Some…

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Why Would You Post Something Like That?

“Why would you post something like that?” “I can’t explain it, and it’s better that we not discuss it.” Guys, if your women are asking you, “Why would you post something like that?” It’s time for you to sit up and take inventory. I have a few people in my life, some of them are men, a couple of them are women, and if they become the “voice of sanity and reason” when I am either about to do…

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Don't Offload Your Guilt...

Rian Stone tweeted something recently that hit home for me. Check out the screenshot. Now, I have waxed poetic about morality and amorality in the past. I personally prefer to keep morality out of the conversation when it comes to the “Red Pill.” Why? Because I prefer to keep my own morality to myself. You can keep yours to yourself. That way, we’ll get along better in the long run, because your…

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Conventional Wisdom

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Male Loneliness

“Male loneliness is rooted in a lack of intimacy, not lack of friendship.” – Chest Rockwell I saw this tweet right before I started writing this post. In fact, this tweet is why I’m writing this post, so thanks, Chesty. A while back, I wrote a post called, “Why Can’t We Be Friends?” and even did a video on it. It’s an age-old debate among men and women. Can men and women be friends? Go read the…

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Farewell, My Old Friend.

I remember back in September of 2007. My girlfriend at the time, who later went on to become my wife, and then later to become my ex-wife, brought you home. You were just a little ball of fuzz. You were pretty quiet, unless you were eating, and then you wouldn’t shut up. You were so tiny back then, you could fit inside a little easter egg basket. I remember my ex-wife telling me that her dog…

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I Am My Father's "Legacy."

My Father and I have always had a “strained relationship.” He wasn’t “there” when my parents got divorced, which was ultimately because my Mother “wasn’t happy.” But I know where I got my stubbornness from. My Dad is a “die on the hill” guy when it comes to the shit he is willing to die on. I’m no different. He digs in his heels and he won’t be moved. I’m the same way. I’ve had women say to me,…

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Why Do You Care?

Apparently there is a guy, who married a woman. I believe this woman and possibly the guy too, do porn. Apparently the guy had another porn star rail his wife recently. Apparently that porn star had some thoughts about the whole ordeal as well. Apparently the guy who had his wife railed by another man is good with the whole situation though. At least he is now. It sounds like in the beginning he…

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Sensual

Some time ago, I wrote about Desire. I think I covered, in some rather graphic detail, what desire means to me. Today I want to talk about one of the things that I look for in women when I meet them. Sensuality. For great sex, I look for someone who is sensual. I watch how she touches things. A woman who caresses everything in her life will caress me too, if that’s where we end up. How does she…

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The Revolving Door

He just described my dating and sex life to a T. Here’s the thing for those of you are new, or for those of you who haven’t figured it out by now: I’m non-monogamous. I’m not looking to get married again. Ever. At this point, I’m not looking for cohabitation. I’m open to something “long term,” but can we leave monogamy at the door? I like variety, I like new. I’m always looking for something…

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Dread, Emotional/Analytical, And What I Almost Did Recently

I have always been fascinated by the concept of Dread. I get what it is, and I get pretty much how you could use it in whatever relationship that you happen to be in. I’ve never had to use Dread, at least I don’t remember using Dread, and if I did, it was unconsciously. That’s because if the offense is egregious enough, I’m willing to walk away. It doesn’t matter the time span of the…

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Dread, Emotional/Analytical, And What I Almost Did Recently

I have always been fascinated by the concept of Dread. I get what it is, and I get pretty much how you could use it in whatever relationship that you happen to be in. I’ve never had to use Dread, at least I don’t remember using Dread, and if I did, it was unconsciously. That’s because if the offense is egregious enough, I’m willing to walk away. It doesn’t matter the time span of the…