realisticallyspeaking7

[realisticallyspeaking7]

I like how I treat Tumblr like my journal and I can go back and delete everything if I wanted to because it's like memories for me but I don't want pictures

[realisticallyspeaking7]

I have noticed when you address toxic behaviors when you start talking to someone and it's shows early traces of abuse you recognize these behaviors earlier on and you just know your better off single because men often do too much when it comes to love bombing manipulation gaslighting and narcissism and it's not to say that women aren't too but damn when it comes to abuse lately men are taking the cake with the icing

[realisticallyspeaking7]

If a man/woman likes you being toxic "crazy" about them off the bat 🦇 it's not you that's toxic it is them notice the signs early and cut it

[realisticallyspeaking7]

I feel like more than ever I can't trust anyone I used to not even trust people close to me because the refusal to even be understood by others who have known you forever it does hurt but it's like a relationship if someone cheats and does things to hurt you over and over again there is no use in making excuse for people who refuse to listen live your damn life only you know what you want and how you can grow into your own version of greatness

[realisticallyspeaking7]

I feel like some people are so fickle to the attention that is given to them by people when you should really care about the people you actually want to be around

[realisticallyspeaking7]

Real love for yourself is realizing your worth and that after certain actions if people start acting another way then maybe they weren't all that is cracked out to be tbh in a way isn't that also a shape shifter?

[realisticallyspeaking7]

I was already forewarned about this area and the men in it but to think the older men are the same makes me cringe bad

[realisticallyspeaking7]

There's nothing worse than being in a situationship with someone who is a male who would rather turn to social media with subliminal messages then to actually have conversations in any form of relationship then expect you to trust have loyalty and respect them. I find it laughable

[realisticallyspeaking7]

I feel like men who claim to be "nice guys" are red flags 🚩🚩🚩 because you shouldn't be claiming that and showing something else.

[realisticallyspeaking7]

Sometimes the biggest frauds are the ones closest to you

[realisticallyspeaking7]

People need to stop wasting others time resources and money also feelings if your not serious about someone leave them tf alone stop interupting their peace.

[realisticallyspeaking7]

I don't know how someone could live with a narcissistic abuser that is passive aggressive asf and sheisty like ugh living single seems so much better than dealing with a dick with baggage that doesn't wanna go get help

[realisticallyspeaking7]

I hold people close to me in high regards until you show me otherwise.

[realisticallyspeaking7]

Something im starting to realize its about people's mentality as to when they are ready for a relationship and some people will never be ready unfortunately its not for you to make excuses for the person you care for in that moment for the reasons why they treat you the way they do or why they do the things they do to you but its for you to know when to love you enough to walk away and know when being alone is needed

[realisticallyspeaking7]

I wish I never met someone like you and I wish I never held on to someone like you I think I will be alone for some time I need it

[realisticallyspeaking7]

Cant be helped when I dont trust someone it really shows even when I try to act like its all cool lol I guess you can say I truly have no filter I cant fake it to make it

[realisticallyspeaking7]

I am learning to love myself more and that sometimes it takes being in situations to learn that people arent who they claim to be call it gullibility or denseness but I still have hope in people until they prove me wrong then I ghost them