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You know that thing in media when

Main character: *is making stupid choices*

Best friend: MC, you’re being stupid

MC: Oh are you jealous? Are you trying to stop me from living my life? F*** you I’m gonna do it anyway

Love interest: MC, you’re being stupid

MC: Wait maybe they’re right

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Love referring to characters who are never seen without each other as "bonded pairs" like yuuuup. if you put these two in separate cages they're gonna get real sad and anxious and possibly violent too, one of em is biting the bars as we speak. you gotta adopt both of them or none at all, it is encouraged that you take them both. they are most likely to thrive if they stick together. it is easier for them to get used to new environments and situations because they have each other. they do everything together because they love each other so so much. you COULD separate them but it's gonna do a lot of psychological damage and it's gonna lead to a lot of issues and there's a big possibility they'll never be the same again

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On to the next adventure!

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you’d never get it i have sick and twisted fantasies (making every character aromantic)

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Distance

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my wish belongs only in the hearts of youth

it is painful, sometimes, to love platonically in a way that is so rarely fully reciprocated. i really don't know how to explain the way i feel, but right now, it feels like when you're a child and you have your best friend, and they're the person you will always go to to hang out. the way you'd beg your parents for an extra five minutes to play together with random little secrets and handshakes. how you'd talk about the future and plan out how you both will live together in the same apartment and go to the same school, promising that you'll be together forever. it feels like every friend i've had grew up and found love in romance where i'm still clinging onto the same dream from childhood.

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Love

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I made a joke comparison between the song Getaway Car and Eda and Stan and now I Cannot Stop Thinking About It

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a little bit of foreshadowing I don't see a lot of people talking about is on the summer camp pamphlet:

I dunno, just a thought

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"I'm immune."

"You can google it later."

"I just can't be bothered to give everyone a vocab lesson."

Isaac is all of us!

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I love soulmates but also this-

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I’m surprised no one’s mentioned Sounds Fake But Okay: An Asexual and Aromantic Perspective on Love, Relationships, Sex, and Pretty Much Anything Else by Kayla Kaszyca and Sarah Costello. They also have a podcast under the same name! I haven’t read it yet but I’ve listened to a couple episodes and it’s basically just two aspec friends chatting about weird societal standards and stuff, it’s great.

as for fiction, Loveless by Alice Oseman is always my go-to rec because it’s probably my favourite book ever and it deals with the aroace experience so well (it’s about a girl figuring out she’s aroace, with a couple of really sweet friendships and college shenanigans mixed in). I also really enjoyed Dear Wendy by Ann Zhao, which focuses on two characters having an online rivalry but becoming best friends irl, and they’re both aroace and talk about it a bunch.

and I forgot to mention when I first posted this, but also Being Ace edited by Madeline Dyer for fiction. It’s a short story collection written by and about asexual (and sometimes arospec) people and it also has representation for different cultures and a disabled main character in one of the stories!

Due to recent developments I wanted to recommend two books for people who might want to educate themselves and/or read up on Asexuality.

The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality by Julie Sonder Decker is a really good primer if you don’t really know anything about the topic, it explains the basics and goes into romantic attraction and sexual activity, talks about common assumption about asexuality and is really catered towards people with no previous knowledge. It’s a decade old now, so it is somewhat dated, but still an excellent start.

Meanwhile Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society and the Meaning of Sex by Angela Chen talks a lot about the lived experience of asexuals, both as individuals and in relationships, I found it to be very insightful and validating, amd if you want to understand asexuals better I think this might be really helpful

If anyone has other recommendations please feel free to add them, especially fiction books, my bookshelves are severely lacking in that regard

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here's a thing i haven't seen people talk about for whatever reason. romance can be a form of abuse. romance can be traumatizing. romance can be upsetting to experience. having romance forced upon you is a form of harassment. having someone repeatedly express romantic interest in you despite you rejecting them is awful and uncomfortable and violating.

something doesn't have to be sexual in nature or intent in order to be a form of harassment. romantic harassment is a real thing. the only reason nobody talks about that is because everyone is just too attached to the idea of romance as an inherent positive to realize that it can and has been used to hurt people.

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Modern AU! (things end well)

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ace of hearts

1. @/references-for-no-one , 2. being not straight, jaiden animations , 3. r/asexuality , 4. koisenu futari , 5. ace of hearts, salient magazine , 6. queering the map , 7. courtney lane

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It really says something that a lot of monogamous people consider polyamorous and aromantic to be "opposites" but every polyam person I know took one look at aromantics and said "they're just like me for real"