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(stole from @shootingstar-17)

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Sometimes being a system is like “most of my life is gone. I have nothing to prove what happened other than the symptoms I experience. I feel isolated and scared because of this, and nobody seems to understand.”

And sometimes it’s like “ouuuiieee we have a tbh creature fictive named Yippee who we can hug in headspace when we’re stressed out :333”

-Blurry/Unknown

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Anways shoutout to my fellow folks who actually are incredibly GREATFUL to be a system/collective.

Shoutout to folks whose headmates have saved them from going through this alone.

Shoutout to folks whose headmates improve their life daily and keep them safe.

Shoutout to folks whose headmates help them with tasks around the house and take the load off your back.

Shoutout to folks with headmates who they're friends with, who they're partners with, who they genuinely love and find comfort in.

Shoutout to folks with headmates who took on your burdens and made them their own, simply to protect you.

Shoutout to folks who wouldn't be here without their headmates.

Final fusion isn't what all plurals want or need. Some of us need a little extra help in life, and sometimes that comes in the from of headmates.

Plurality is not all suffering all the time. It is not defined by whatever trauma or struggle you've gone through, and it shouldn't be treated as such.

Be kind to your fellow plurals and their headmates. Don't assume everyone detests their alters as much as you may.

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I love you irl conversations about plurality

I love you respectful curious singlets/questioning systems

I love you normalizing plurality

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new year new me

wait, not like that-

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Fictive Culture! ✨️

[Normal Text: Fictive Culture! ✨️]

Hi! Welcome to Fictive-Culture another Fictive Culture is blog!

Kofi link

Discord Server!!

Special shout out and thank you to @fictive-culture-archive and @fictive-culture-is the og Fictive Culture blogs

📝 Here you can send in asks related to being a fictive in the format of Fictive Culture is or something more specific like OCtive culture is, Obscure source Culture is, Specific Fandom/Character fictive culture is or anything else that falls under the Fictive umbrella! 📝

✉️ You may also send in not fictive culture is asks talking about your life as a fictive, your system, source, or life outside of being a fictive! However, for our own mental health, we ask that you do not use our inbox to vent in detail when it comes to things like abuse and trauma. If you need clarification feel free to ask! These will be tagged #fictive rambles!✉️

❓️#fictive questions and concerns, is our tag for answering questions about fictive things or general system things if they come up!❓️

❕️Sourcecalls are currently open! They will be set on a different schedule than fictive culture is asks of once a day! The Source call card was made by our spouse&. Our one rule regarding this so far is that we will not post Sourcecalls from minors regarding nsfw sources.❕️

❔️CLOSED #Source Guesser is a blog game where you send in a poor description of your character source and my spouse and I try to guess who you are there is no queue just whenever we feel like it❔️

🩷 We are not here to judge you based on your source, so all fictives are welcome. 💚

Don't talk shit about your headmates

While we don't have a DNI* as they aren't really useful we are accepting of all system origins, poc and bipoc, mentally ill, aros and aces, neopronouns, xenogenders, all mspec labels, contradictory labels ex: bi lesbians, therians/otherkin/alterhuman and self dx.

DNI: cthonicascendant and his fucking BIL

Some things about us!

🌟We are a Mediple/Diversian system and TraumaEndo, mostly Paragenic, but a few other origins as well. We are primarily a system of introjects with only around 10 brainmade out of 100+ headmates. The autism and madd were just like yea we fucked up /light hearted. We are bodily 22, and you may refer to us collectively as Spade/Jest It/Neos We also run the @median-culture-is, @brainmade-culture-is and @paragenic-culture-is blogs. We just think they're fun and love the community :) 🌟

This was a section just @ ing blogs to boost the blog but now I wanna use it to list active blogs that are cool :) @plural-culture-is @empty-system-culture-is @autospec-culture-is @pluraladvice @mediple-culture-is @factive-culture-is

👤Taken Anon Names and Emojis Under the Cut👤

Please end your posts with (blank) anon so I know it isn't a specific headmate name or sign off

Single emojis: 🔥, ☁️, 🧶, 🌌, 🪓, 💜, 🧨,🧠,🍝,💉,🔪, 📺, ⚕️,🧸,👻,

Double emojis: 🐀🌊, ❤️🐢, ⚙️💫, 🎨🦔, ☀️🌊,🧠✨️,✨️🕯,☮️💾,🌀🪽,⚡️🔥,🌲🌠,🔮🐀,🫧🧁, 🐍🌒,🕰📀,💀🔒,🖤🌙,🧸❤️,💚🖤,🌠🌙,🌥🪷, 🌌⭐️,🩷🕷,🧹🫧,🌼🍁

Word emoji combo: nw💫

Word: Compass, Nightmare

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Want emoji

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PLURAL

MULTIPLE

&

you can use for discord, aac, etc

free to use, credit appreciated

commissions and suggestions open !! :) please commission us if you can, as we are currently trying to buy T <3 /nf

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Rules And Info

Welcome to fictivecalls, a blog run by a system for (primarily) other systems to help them find people from their sources. Also open for kin calls!

Currently this blog is run by one person! Please be patient, we’re often working. We’ll try to keep the queue as full as we can if the ask box gets swamped the moment we’re seen.

General rules

No NSFW content in your calls.

We’re all for finding partners here but please keep the dirty stuff private!

For the homestucks

We’ll help look for quadrants! Please make sure to let us know what quad you’re after, and we’ll tag it thusly.

If you’re just flinging threats, without blackrom intent, it will be deleted!

Call caps?

There is no limit to how many calls one person can send in at a time. But please keep them to one call out per ask, and to leave some sort of identifier!

Kin calls

This is a blog for helping fictives find sourcemates, but after looking things over, we’ve decided to open the floor to kin calls as well, with the intent to still be focused more on helping other systems.

Drama

If you’re not posting a call, and are just airing some sort of drama aimed at someone, your ask will be deleted. We’re here to help, not hurt.

Access

Please refrain from using fancy fonts on your asks! No zalgo text, no cursive, or custom fonts. Our phone doesn’t handle these well and it will render asks illegible. Quirks will have a translation put under them, for those that can’t read the quirk.

Mods

Or well. Mod. Either way, hey. Call me Mod Time. Plenty of folk in the system will be about, but that doesn’t particularly matter much. We’re often busy with work, and will sign off with either the name Mod Time, or a gear. Don’t worry, we don’t bite. Much

Informally, more of the system has taken to claiming mod names for ease. Added below for ease

Mod ⭐️, MOD GC, Mod Boo, Mod AI, Mod M

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So we accidentally forgot we had this blog

We just got busy irl and forgot to keep posting :( We're sorry, guys

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HEY!

YOU DON'T HAVE TO COME FROM TRAUMA TO BE VALID

YOU CAN REFER TO YOUR ALTERS HOWEVER YOU WANT

EDUCATED SELF DIAGNOSIS IS GOOD ACTUALLY

PERSECUTORS ARE NOT INHERENTLY HARMFUL, JUST NEED REDIRECTION

ANTI ENDOS ARE ABLEIST AND JEALOUS

NO ONE CAN JUDGE YOU FOR HOW YOU VIEW YOURSELF

YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE MISERABLE AS A SYSTEM 24/7 TO BE CONSIDERED "REAL"

THAT IS ALL <3

-Tomie 🖤

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Just having fun with the alters Weeeeeeeeeeee OSDDID's not all childhood trauma & symptoms It's possible to 💙 your system

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Shoutout to singlets that accept systems for who they are. Singlets who ask respectful questions and try to understand us. Singlets who do their best to accommodate different headmates and make them feel included. Singlets who listen to what systems have to say. You're so important. Please keep doing what you do.

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REBLOG IF YOU LOVE YOUR HEADMATES!!!!

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HEY!

YOU DON'T HAVE TO COME FROM TRAUMA TO BE VALID

YOU CAN REFER TO YOUR ALTERS HOWEVER YOU WANT

EDUCATED SELF DIAGNOSIS IS GOOD ACTUALLY

PERSECUTORS ARE NOT INHERENTLY HARMFUL, JUST NEED REDIRECTION

ANTI ENDOS ARE ABLEIST AND JEALOUS

NO ONE CAN JUDGE YOU FOR HOW YOU VIEW YOURSELF

YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE MISERABLE AS A SYSTEM 24/7 TO BE CONSIDERED "REAL"

THAT IS ALL <3

-Tomie 🖤

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Here’s some positivity for fictives who feel complicated about their source!

It’s quite common and totally normal for fictives to have complicated, conflicted, or confusing feelings about their source! Most introjects cannot choose our sources, and it’s okay if we don’t know how to feel about them or have difficulties engaging with them for whatever reason. If you’re a fictive who has complicated feelings regarding your source, this post is for you!

🌀 Shoutout to fictives with exotrauma that makes it difficult to enjoy their source!

⭕️ Shoutout to fictives who both love and hate their source at the same time!

🔆 Shoutout to fictives in trauma-formed systems whose source reminds them of their trauma history!

🌀 Shoutout to fictives who are both uncomfortable with being compared to their source, and want to be viewed as their source!

⭕️ Shoutout to fictives who feel like they should separate from their source, but don’t want to die any reason!

🔆 Shoutout to fictives who often go back and forth on how they view their source!

🌀 Shoutout to fictives who love some aspects about their source but dislike others!

⭕️ Shoutout to fictives who have complicated feelings about their source due to being very canon divergent!

🔆 Shoutout to fictives whose ideas about their source would be considered strange, uncommon, or unorthodox by others!

🌀 Shoutout to fictives who wish they could avoid thinking about or interacting with their source entirely due to their complex feelings about it!

⭕️ Shoutout to fictives whose exomemories don’t align with their source, making it difficult for them to understand it!

For any fictive, there is no one right or wrong way to feel about your source. It’s okay and it makes sense to have complicated, complex, confusing, or conflicted thoughts or feelings regarding it! These feelings don’t invalidate you at all as a fictive, introject, or beloved member of your system. You still belong in your system and in the plural community just the way you are!

If you’re a fictive with complicated feelings about your source, please know that we are rooting for you and care about you in all that you do. You should never feel obligated to think or feel a certain way about your source! We hope that you can take it easy for a while and treat yourself and your system with kindness and gentleness in the future. Thank you so much for reading, and have a lovely day!

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I love this meme so much it’s not even funny :33