princessslea

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Unfortunately evergreen

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stop making fun of bad people for being fat or having small dicks or being socially awkward or whatever else you seem to think is a fair target. none of that shit has anything to do with why theyre bad. i don’t care if a nazi has a stutter or a terf has thinning hair or whatever. at best youre missing the point, at worst your comments are gonna hurt vulnerable people more than they will ever affect the shitty person you’re mocking. why are you so attached to these bullshit standards anyway?

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*walks into american followers bedrooms* *in gentle voice* hows it going champ

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It beats for you.

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Excalibur (1981) dir.: John Boorman

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Boss is asleep, cannot stop me from frogposting

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On twitter I’m seeing dozens of threads from Black activists warning people against burnout, giving all sorts of useful tips about preventing and managing it for the sake of a long-term, sustainable effort.

On tumblr I’m seeing a hell of a lot of young white kids yelling at anyone who actually follows those steps, and acting like burnout is a moral falling rather than a well-proven psychological phenomenon.

Be careful who you get your information from. Don’t let guilt lead you to make choices that will harm both you and the movement.

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Happy Birthday to Alicia Armendariz aka Alice Bag, American punk rock singer, musician, lead singer and co-founder of the Bags, born on this day in 1958, Los Angeles.

Photo by John Babylon

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ok I just wanna say if you see a kink on tumblr or wherever that really turns u on and then you try it irl and it doesn’t make u feel the way you hoped it would THATS OK!! You can let that kink live in fantasy!! There are a lot of things that turn my brain on that I don’t enjoy during actual sex!! Isn’t human sexuality interesting!!

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Black Herons (Egretta ardesiaca), family Ardeidae, order Pelicaniformes, South Africa

Bttm photo - Using its wings to create shade, which may attract some small fish, but also reduces the glare over the water making it easier to find prey.

photograph by Frikkie Bell

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the 3.5 rules of productive conversation with disagreeing person

assume the other person has different information, not different values

If you run into a place where you have different values, find a bigger value that is the same between both of you *2.5: if that doesn't work, you are never going to have a productive conversation anyway, so live your life and be happy

don't expect to see the person change their mind in front of you—brains are made of physical, organic meat and the new neuron connections will need time to grow in. Don't be disappointed if they end the conversation with "Well I still think [opinion]!" That is part of social customs, it's normal and you still probably did something helpful

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Mature displays of affection 101

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oh to be a pangolin squirming around in the sludge 🥺🥺🥺 this would fix me

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alright everyone