philodandrons

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hello!!!! we’ve raised so much already but still need more support. please share and donate if you can!

i know that i’ve absolutely disappeared but i have more followers here than on my non-dnp tumblr that i also have disappeared from because life is a lot and life continues to be a lot. my cat needs surgery and he’s not well and in pain and any sharing and any donating is helpful. i’m trying to get him to a surgeon before the end of next week because that’s when the pain medicine that they gave me runs out. please please please help me if you can, i love my boy so much.

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i know that i’ve absolutely disappeared but i have more followers here than on my non-dnp tumblr that i also have disappeared from because life is a lot and life continues to be a lot. my cat needs surgery and he’s not well and in pain and any sharing and any donating is helpful. i’m trying to get him to a surgeon before the end of next week because that’s when the pain medicine that they gave me runs out. please please please help me if you can, i love my boy so much.

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if your goal isnt to be so deeply in love with each other that your flirty banter is obnoxious to be around 10 years down the line, are you even loving???

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i see a lot of my black mutuals in pain and struggling mentally lately so if any of you need it here's a post of mental health resources made by a black woman specifically for black people struggling right now... i love you all so much please take care of yourselves

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i know that i haven’t been around but i’m writing this for any poc followers i have because i think it’s important to say. 

if you are tired of whiteness right now, that’s okay. i had a white friend say some really dumb shit to me yesterday and i am so done with everything that i still can’t talk to her today. that’s okay. i’m furious. racism and white privilege is exhausting and angering. if you are feeling that way about any white people in your life right now, that is fine. when you have dealt with the impact of an oppressive system, a natural response is rejection of that system especially in times where that oppression is staring you in the face and for some people, re-traumatizing them.

if today you find that your patience for whiteness is less than 5 days ago, that is okay and that is normal. this is hard and heavy and we need to take care of ourselves however we can. 

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Dans first younow

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it’s been ages

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he’s cheeky 

@danielhowell

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i’m just gonna leave these here without any context

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when you're lost in your deep and darkest place around, may my words walk with you home safe and sound.

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concept:

internet support group gay edition

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king of lesbians

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I missed your stupid face so much >:’(