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I hate that people keep insisting that Kristen Stewart is a lesbian even though she's flat out said she's bisexual, that she sees sexuality as grey and fluid, that she's not strictly homosexual or heterosexual, and that she would definitely date a guy again; like the list goes on. I think it's the fact that she's also so visibly gnc and people still can't concieve that bisexuality isn't just gay lite? Like as much as she may "look" like a lesbian, she's a gnc bi woman and I think it's cool that there's that kind of rep bc a lot of the bi women the media puts in the spot light are mostly high fem. That doesn't mean that rep is meaningless but I can count on one hand the amount of andro/masc leaning bi women that are in the public eye.

I also know the other reason why a lot of people keep labeling her as a lesbian is because she's visibly only been dating women recently, but you don't have to switch the gender of your s/o every other month to prove you're still bi like. That's elementary basics of bisexuality. Especially if said person in question, again, has stated several times that they're not a lesbian or straight... 🤔

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I just realized it’s Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week (ASAW) so I just wanna shout out my fellow demiromantic peers!

You are still part of this community no matter how “invisible” you might be in the spectrum!

This message also goes out to any aroflux, frayromantic, grayromantic, Lithromantic, and recipromantic that may be reading this! You are just as important as the rest of the community, be proud! 💚🤍🩶🖤

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The aromantic + questioning schizoid experience is going "Yes, I am the cold, scary, heartless monster you've heard about" while minding your own business and Just Vibing

lmao thank you for sharing

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has anyone posted this yet. best tweet ever written

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Possibly maybe alloaro anon here again:

I've been in a lot of relationships, and idk if I ever actually cared about the milestones or if I was just excited about doing "relationship things" for the aesthetics of it all. With my last ex, for example, I don't know if I just saw the first "I love you" as a box to check or not. I think I did love him in some way?????? I love all my friends tho. The only breakup I was ever really sad about was when I was also losing a friend. If any alloaros could comment, that would be cool

thank you for sharing!

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...I didn’t see or know of any Black Aromantics, and so thought it was impossible for us to exist. Visibility is important. I had very much bought into the concept of “Black Love” and the only aromantic people I saw where whyte folx and NBPOC (mostly asian) and so I thought aromanticism was diametrically opposed to Blackness as a construct. ... im not tryna start nuthin’….but when I first started getting plugged in to online aro spaces, I got the impression that this was thee safe haven for aroaces, and what they said was law. It made sense, as they were left out of many other spaces, including LGBTQ+ spaces, and so this was their turf. While the general aro-spec community seemed welcoming of the diversity of experiences in our community, the aromantic community specifically seemed white facing and inaccessible to me, a Black baby aro. to be aromantic and non-asexual was to get shat on like the rest of the allos. A lot of harm and erasure was done there. I thought this problem would be solved by hanging out with queers of color. At this college access program I participated in me n some of the cute bbs would do “Gay Day Outs” on the weekend and eat mac’n’cheese in a cup and play Never Have I Ever. I tried to come out as aroflux then but eventually settled on greyromantic. It was cute–some people got it, some people didn’t. A lot of people assumed my innocence in sex and romance related things. I still had a (mostly) good time.

hello! from a Black Aromantic by Mazarae, idkjustwordsyameen.wordpress (2021)

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Happy aro week everyone! I'm working on some little designs for aromantic stuff this week, so have these! I want to do the aroflux, cupioromantic, demiromantic, frayromantic, and grayromantic flags next

they're free to use, just don't sell them or whatever

flags in order: aromantic flag, aroallo flag, arospec flag, aroace flag!

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Hearts and Arrows

Because I know y’all like hearts and arrows.

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the thing is, a lot of intersex people aren't told that they're intersex in that wording when they're made aware of their condition/s. iwas not told the i word, i was told hyperandrogenism, polycystic ovarian syndrome, and other diagnoses, but not that i was intersex. i didn't know what that meant for years. i didn't know why i struggled to fit into mens or womens clothing comfortable because of my "mixed" features.

i didn't find the intersex community until i was in my late 20s. a lot of us arent even told our diagnoses. a lot of us spend our whole lives not knowing we're intersex. some people never get their conditions checked out or acknowledged. others spend their whole life knowing, but not knowing theres a community out there. the reason the intersex community is so small is because we're not being told we're intersex. we're being told diagnoses or being gatekept, but not being told that there is a word for not having binary biological sex features and that there are other people like you. you're made to feel weird and isolated. it's very rare if not impossible to find providers who will speak the "i" word, and when they do, you usually don't have an easy time.

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Trans Fashion tips

These are actually non basic clothing tips that can definitely help you

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Every lesbian I know who has a male favorite character is like, "If you even INSINUATE that I want to have sex with Mads Mikkelson, there will be a reckoning," and every gay man I know who has a female favorite character is like, "I would have no choice but to go down on Sigourney Weaver in Alien. As a matter of feminist praxis. What am I, some kind of bigot?"

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Image Description: At the top of the image, text reads: "Aromantic Belonging in the Queer Community". Just underneath is a wavy banner in aromantic flag colours (dark green, light green, white, grey, black). Below this is a dark green roughly-square shape reading "Looking for aromantic and aro-spec participants to take part in 60- to 90-minute online text-based interviews on your experiences of belonging as an aromantic person". To the bottom right of this is another, smaller banner in a loop-de-loop shape with colours of the aromantic flag. Further text at the bottom of the image reads "This research is being conducted as part of my Undergraduate Psychology Dissertation at the University of Glasgow. Please contact Alex Jacquemot-Krupp at 2569534j@student.gla.ac.uk to register interest or find out more!". The image background is a colour gradient from white at the top to light green at the bottom.

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Happy Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week Everyone!

Learn more about aromanticism and upcoming community events on the ASAW website.

[Image description: A square graphic with a white box of text in the middle. The text is green and black and reads “Feb 16th -22nd. Happy Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week! We are proud to promote the acceptance and inclusion of aromantic identities! Learn more about ASAW at arospecweek.org”. To the top right of the text is clip art of a brown hand waving an aromantic flag. Beneath the text, there are graphics of the AUREA logo and the ASAW website logo. Behind the textbox, there are two diagonal aromantic flags stretched across the top left and bottom right corners of the image, with a darker shade of green in between them.]