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This year you need to understand that EVERYTHING, and I mean EVERYTHING is on the fucking table for you. No cutting corners, no buying the cheaper car to save money when you’re so close to your dream car goal. No, dating the guy you’re not really into because it beats being single. Scrap that energy and stay focused on your VISION. The sooner you can say fuck no to everything that is not aligned with your truth, the sooner you can move forward. This goes for daily actions. Ask hourly ‘bringing me closer towards my vision-board life or keeping me stuck?’ But to have the clear mind to stay focused you need to get off that damn phone if you actually want to move forward. The advice…Start a fast. From today. I challenge you. 21 days to cut your screen time in half, and why? Because the constant distractions are blocking you from the focus required to move you into Pinterest board reality. You need a level head to make better decisions, to move differently. If you want something you’ve never had, you’re gona have to do something you’ve never done. This is the year of realisation. Realise who you need to be, in order to sit at your destined table of blessings.

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we’re often taught not to cut ties with people because we might need them someday. but today, i pray that i never have to rely on anyone who has hurt, ridiculed, or embarrassed me. may God always provide for me abundantly so i never find myself in that position.

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So the reason you can't achieve your goals besides the extremely unrealistic way they are because you just threw them together for the sake of having goals without taking tally of your person, circumstances, actual desires , strengths vs weaknesses etc (because you don't know who you are, but okay) is because you don't even know what it means. So I'll define it for you. Welcome.

Love- To love is to work in the best interest of. When you love something, your primary concern is what's best for this right now?And doing that- regardless of everything else

Validation- To validate is to accept as true. It is what it is. Not to agree with, not to align with, not to- no. This is the truth. Point blank (So when you're affirming 'I am a millionaire' when you're not you're invalidating yourself I hope you know this. One day we will unpack the damage manifesting and LOA has done to you and maybe even learn the right way to manifest if, yk, I even remember)

Happiness- The reward to solving a problem. that feeling of flowers bursting in your chest- yeah that's joy. Merriment. Fun. It's the result of SOMEONE ELSE solving your problems / pushing you into alignment. One day we will probably also unpack this. Or yk, your therapist. Its why you pay them,

Anxiety- The consequence of lack of security. It's really that simple. That's it that's anxiety.

Security- The assurance that you will avoid pain (OR be able to withstand it) and gain pleasure (Or be alright with the lack thereof) as a consequence of a decision or situation or indecision. It's "so What" and "Ok, and?" and "Bring it On' but the type that comes from an accumulation of evidence that you can, in fact, handle it- and not performed fearlessness. One can lead to the other, though. Security is confidence. Anxiety is lack of confidence. It's there if you look at it enough you'll see it.

Relationship- Exchange of value

Manifest _ Bring into reality

Boundaries- Lines of definition that hold within them individuality/ identification. Boundaries are what you mean when you say / I Am/. It is what separates you from the world. It is your "Who Am I?"

Pain- reward for separation. Whenever you separate from someone or something you feel pain- on the Philosophy that we are all ONE its, again, right there. If you are in pain there has been a separation somewhere.

Healing is the act of experiencing the opposite. It's really just that. Whatever you want to heal rom, what is the opposite? Seek that. This is where your therapist and I butt heads- and I know you're paying THEM but listen to me. It's an industry aimed at making profit and I won't demonize it matter of fact I want you to go to therapy BUT. This is what healing means. I will GLADLY unpack this with you anytime. Seek out the opposite experience.

Contentment- Reward for connection. This is in fact the opposite of pain. It's alignment.

Discipline - conscious informed targeted choice based on commitment. I will never unpack this with you so whatever David Goggins or Thewizardliz or whoever said also applies, but it's wrong. & you know it's wrong. That's why you struggle with it and it never works.

Manifesting - bringing into your present/ reality . It's really just that. You wanted a book you went and bought a book voila you manifested the book. Sorry to take the magic out of it but that's literally just it. Bring into your reality.

BMAC

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The Prince and the Showgirl (1957) dir. Laurence Olivier

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december workout plan

day 1: 30 minute cardio + 10 minute yoga

day 2: 30 minute dumbbell cardio + 8 minute stretch

day 3: 30 minute lower body + 15 minute leg stretch

day 4: 30 minute arms & abs + 10 minute yoga

day 5: 44 minute metabolic conditioning

day 6: 10 minute abs + 30 minute yoga

day 7: 30 minute hiit w/ weights + 15 minute stretch

day 8: rest day OR 30 minute walking cardio + 8 minute stretch

day 9: 36 minute strength & cardio + 15 minute stretch

day 10: 30 minute lower body + 15 minute leg stretch

day 11: 5 minute warm up + 30 minute upper body & core + 8 minute stretch

day 12: 38 minute metabolic conditioning

day 13: 17 minute abs + 30 minute stretch

day 14: 25 minute dumbbell hiit

day 15: rest day OR 20 minute cardio + 15 minute stretch

day 16: 30 minute tabata hiit & strength

day 17: 30 minute lower body

day 18: 40 minute upper body & core

day 19: 30 minute metabolic conditioning

day 20: 20 minute abs + 26 minute yoga

day 21: 32 minute hiit & strength

day 22: rest day OR 30 minute cardio + stretch

day 23: 5 minute warm up + 45 minute strength & cardio + 8 minute stretch

day 24: 43 minute lower body

day 25: rest day (merry christmas!)

day 26: 20 minute pilates cardio & abs

day 27: 30 minute upper body

day 28: 17 minute abs + 30 minute yoga

day 29: 5 minute warm up + 30 minute dumbbell hiit + 8 minute stretch

day 30: 45 minute walking cardio + 10 minute abs + 8 minute stretch

day 31: rest day OR 30 minute mobility

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my MOVEmber workout plan

start date: friday, november 1

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day 1: 30 minute pms & menstrual pain workout + 20 minute lower back workout & stretch

day 2: 44 minute core & mobility

day 3: 30 minute pilates

day 4: 30 minute walking cardio + 15 minute stretch

day 5: 45 minute yoga

day 6: 30 minute full body strength + 10 minute stretch

day 7: 35 minute pilates x mobility

day 8: 30 minute hiit + 10 minute stretch

day 9: 45 minute yoga

day 10: 30 minute pilates

day 11: 30 minute full body + 20 minute yoga

day 12: 40 minute mobility & dynamic stretch

day 13: 30 minute cardio + 25 minute yoga

day 14: 1 hour yoga & breathwork

day 15: 30 minute full body strength + 20 minute stretch

day 16: 30 minute stretch

day 17: 30 minute yoga hiit fusion

day 18: 45 minute power pilates

day 19: 30 minute hiit + 20 minute full body + 10 minute stretch

day 20: 30 minute yoga

day 21: 30 minute full body + 10 minute stretch

day 22: 30 minute hiit + 25 minute stretch

day 23: 45 minute yoga

day 24: 30 minute mobility & strength

day 25: 45 minute strength & cardio

day 26: 30 minute stretch

day 27: 30 minute slim leg workout + 15 minute slim leg stretch

day 28: 30 minute pilates core

day 29: 30 minute hiit

day 30: 1 hour yoga

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Start planning 2025

Make a list of all the emotions you want to feel at the end of 2025.

Now work backwards and write down all the tasks you need to do in order to feel that way.

Make a separate list of all the “gaps” - what do you currently not have in order to do those tasks to make you feel the way you want?

And lastly, write down how you can fill those gaps. Do you need a gym membership to become fit to feel good about your yourself? Do you need to learn how to cook better meals in order to feel healthy and energised? Do you need to start applying to jobs, in order to secure one, in order to feel financially safe? Do you need to buy an old school alarm clock that’s going to wake up your entire apartment building in order to wake up early? what do you need to DO?

also, make a list of all the things that worked out for you in 2024. Learn to celebrate and appreciate, even the smallest of wins.

For the next two months start the trial and error process of this program. Let’s say you decide that you want to work out 7 days a week in order to feel good about your body. Now halfway through November you realise that 7 days is probably too much, and 5 days would be better for your schedule. Or you decide to read 3 books a week, but realistically, maybe a chapter a day is better.

November and December are your trial months. By the time January starts, be ready with a program that is built for you, works for you, and can be completed by you.

Don’t forget about keeping a reward mechanism. If you complete your daily tasks for 1 month straight, buy that little purse you were eyeing, or take yourself to a spa. Reward yourself in ways you like so that :

a) you’re not in an endless cycle of never being satisfied

b) you don’t drop everything for a man or a friend who shows you the slightest bit of affection because you won’t show it to yourself

c) it encourages you to work harder for yourself.

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full body workout routines

with weights

30 minute full body dumbbell workout by bigsis

30 minute muscle up & fat down by bigsis

30 minute full body pilates style sculpt by madfit

30 minute toning & strength by madfit

30 minute full body strength by madfit

30 minute full body sculpt by madfit

30 minute full body dumbbell workout by madfit

30 minute all standing dumbbell workout by mizi

30 minute full body sculpt by madfit

30 minute sculpt & strengthen by fitbymik

30 minute dumbbell strength x pilates by fitbymik

30 minute dumbbell strength & pilates by fitbymik

30 minute full body build & burn by squatcouple

40 minute full body dumbbell workout by mizi

40 minute full body hourglass workout by olivia lawson

40 minute killer strength by growingannanas

45 minute cardio & strength by eleni fit

45 minute hourglass dumbbell workout by olivia lawson

45 minute full body strength by madfit

50 minute full body dumbbell workout by bigsis

without weights

25 minute kpop idol body workout by lena snow

30 minute full body fat burn by emi wong

30 minute dancer sculpt by madfit

30 minute small-space friendly full body workout by madfit

30 minute full body workout by madfit

30 minute full body hiit by madfit

30 minute full body hiit by madfit

30 minute stretch & tone by madfit

30 minute stretch & tone by madfit

30 minute full body hourglass workout by lena snow

30 minute full body sculpt by madfit

30 minute low impact full body sculpt by madfit

30 minute hourglass workout by mizi

40 minute full body build & burn by squatcouple

45 minute full body fat burn by emi wong

50 minute full body workout by april han

1 hour full body fat burn by emi wong

1 hour full body workout by mizi

1 hour full body workout by caroline girvan

1 hour full body workout by caroline girvan

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beginner pilates routines

* i’ve made posts about some beginner pilates routines in the past, but i keep getting asks so i thought i would just make a masterlist for you guys!

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10 minute full body hourglass pilates by lidia mera

10 minute full body hourglass pilates by lidia mera

10 minute everyday full body hourglass pilates by lidia mera

10 minute waist pilates by shirlyn kim

10 minute everyday hourglass pilates by lidia mera

15 minute full body pilates by lidia mera

15 minute pilates for beginners by flow with mira

15 minute beginner pilates for weight loss by rachel’s fit pilates

20 minute gentle beginner pilates by flow with mira

20 minute express pilates workout by move with nicole

20 minute full body pilates by isawelly

20 minute hourglass full body pilates by lidia mera

25 minute full body beginner pilates by move with nicole

30 minute full body workout by move with nicole

30 minute pilates for beginners by move with nicole

30 minute pilates and stretch by livaligned pilates

30 minute full body hourglass pilates by lidia mera

30 minute gentle pilates flow by move with nicole

30 minute full body workout by move with nicole

30 minute pilates for beginners by move with nicole

35 minute gentle pilates by move with nicole

35 minute beginner pilates by move with nicole

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upgrade your life by taking note of the objects you use most and slowly replace them with the most beautiful and high-quality versions of those things you can find.

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Everytime I lower my frequency to meet someone on their level I end up paying for it. Lesson learned. Now you need to rise up to meet me.

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Boundaries of a woman who loves herself:

• No calls or texts after 10 p.m.

• I have a busy schedule, don't ask me to make plans last minute because I won't be available

• Don't ever disrespect me, if you do, we're done

• My time is valuable, so don't expect me to rearrange my day for anyone

• I won’t tolerate inconsistent communication—if you’re serious, be consistent

• I value my peace, so drama or negativity has no place in my life

• My boundaries are non-negotiable; if you can't respect them, we're not a match

• I don’t explain my decisions—what I choose is final

• If I’m not treated with kindness, I walk away

• My mornings are for me— don’t expect immediate replies

• I won’t entertain anyone who doesn’t respect my time or energy

• I don’t tolerate passive-aggressive behavior; be direct or be gone

• I expect effort in relationships— half-hearted attempts won’t get my attention

• I prioritize my self care— interruptions without reason aren’t welcome

• I don’t chase anyone; if you're not intentional, I’m not interested

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Excerpt from “The Art of Seduction” by Robert Greene