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“when you’re operating under divine favor, the usual rules don’t apply.”

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heavenly father,

i come before you with a humble heart, asking for your divine protection over my life. surround me with your light and shield me from all harm, negativity, and obstacles that may try to stand in my way. lord, open the doors meant for me—doors of opportunity, growth, and success. let no hindrance block my path, and may every step i take be guided by your wisdom and favor. bless me with good health, strength, and vitality. let my body be a vessel of your grace, free from illness and filled with energy to pursue the purpose you have for me. grant me prosperity in all areas of my life. let my efforts bear fruit, my work be blessed, and my financial needs be met in abundance. fill my life with unexpected blessings, and may luck and favor follow me wherever i go. thank you, lord, for your endless love, mercy, and guidance. i trust in your perfect timing and plan for my life. in jesus name, amen.

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Call me old fashioned but I value marriage.

I expect to be courted not stuck in a talking phase.

I expect proper dates not Netflix and "lets chill".

I expect a ring not to be a long-term girlfriend playing house.

I expect a provider husband not a passive man who will waste my time.

Being a wife is the goal.

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This year you need to understand that EVERYTHING, and I mean EVERYTHING is on the fucking table for you. No cutting corners, no buying the cheaper car to save money when you’re so close to your dream car goal. No, dating the guy you’re not really into because it beats being single. Scrap that energy and stay focused on your VISION. The sooner you can say fuck no to everything that is not aligned with your truth, the sooner you can move forward. This goes for daily actions. Ask hourly ‘bringing me closer towards my vision-board life or keeping me stuck?’ But to have the clear mind to stay focused you need to get off that damn phone if you actually want to move forward. The advice…Start a fast. From today. I challenge you. 21 days to cut your screen time in half, and why? Because the constant distractions are blocking you from the focus required to move you into Pinterest board reality. You need a level head to make better decisions, to move differently. If you want something you’ve never had, you’re gona have to do something you’ve never done. This is the year of realisation. Realise who you need to be, in order to sit at your destined table of blessings.

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we’re often taught not to cut ties with people because we might need them someday. but today, i pray that i never have to rely on anyone who has hurt, ridiculed, or embarrassed me. may God always provide for me abundantly so i never find myself in that position.

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So the reason you can't achieve your goals besides the extremely unrealistic way they are because you just threw them together for the sake of having goals without taking tally of your person, circumstances, actual desires , strengths vs weaknesses etc (because you don't know who you are, but okay) is because you don't even know what it means. So I'll define it for you. Welcome.

Love- To love is to work in the best interest of. When you love something, your primary concern is what's best for this right now?And doing that- regardless of everything else

Validation- To validate is to accept as true. It is what it is. Not to agree with, not to align with, not to- no. This is the truth. Point blank (So when you're affirming 'I am a millionaire' when you're not you're invalidating yourself I hope you know this. One day we will unpack the damage manifesting and LOA has done to you and maybe even learn the right way to manifest if, yk, I even remember)

Happiness- The reward to solving a problem. that feeling of flowers bursting in your chest- yeah that's joy. Merriment. Fun. It's the result of SOMEONE ELSE solving your problems / pushing you into alignment. One day we will probably also unpack this. Or yk, your therapist. Its why you pay them,

Anxiety- The consequence of lack of security. It's really that simple. That's it that's anxiety.

Security- The assurance that you will avoid pain (OR be able to withstand it) and gain pleasure (Or be alright with the lack thereof) as a consequence of a decision or situation or indecision. It's "so What" and "Ok, and?" and "Bring it On' but the type that comes from an accumulation of evidence that you can, in fact, handle it- and not performed fearlessness. One can lead to the other, though. Security is confidence. Anxiety is lack of confidence. It's there if you look at it enough you'll see it.

Relationship- Exchange of value

Manifest _ Bring into reality

Boundaries- Lines of definition that hold within them individuality/ identification. Boundaries are what you mean when you say / I Am/. It is what separates you from the world. It is your "Who Am I?"

Pain- reward for separation. Whenever you separate from someone or something you feel pain- on the Philosophy that we are all ONE its, again, right there. If you are in pain there has been a separation somewhere.

Healing is the act of experiencing the opposite. It's really just that. Whatever you want to heal rom, what is the opposite? Seek that. This is where your therapist and I butt heads- and I know you're paying THEM but listen to me. It's an industry aimed at making profit and I won't demonize it matter of fact I want you to go to therapy BUT. This is what healing means. I will GLADLY unpack this with you anytime. Seek out the opposite experience.

Contentment- Reward for connection. This is in fact the opposite of pain. It's alignment.

Discipline - conscious informed targeted choice based on commitment. I will never unpack this with you so whatever David Goggins or Thewizardliz or whoever said also applies, but it's wrong. & you know it's wrong. That's why you struggle with it and it never works.

Manifesting - bringing into your present/ reality . It's really just that. You wanted a book you went and bought a book voila you manifested the book. Sorry to take the magic out of it but that's literally just it. Bring into your reality.

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