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Hey all ! So, I have ultimately decided to archive this blog & delete my other inactive account feminsin. Honestly, I just do not vibe with the prospect of coming back here... so if I ever go back to using a multi it will be on a new blog and, most likely, a new URL.

I've also been considering some small housekeeping changes to my rules, as well as changing my alias, but have nothing to show for either quite yet. All in all, I just want to close the book on this blog and focus on starting new things. Nothing against anyone here, I loved my time on this blog, I just... don't see myself returning and being happy. Thus, carrying on elsewhere.

My new / main rp blog is a single muse for Kaey, @hegrowth ! Please feel free to follow me there if you are down to interact, otherwise... thank you for the time you spent with me ! I appreciate your patience and support and hope you are doing well. <3

If you're interested in keeping contact - whether we interacted ic or ooc in the past or not - add me on Discord: seal snoot ;#5985

Anyway. This will be my last post on this blog, as well as my final time. I hope to see you on Kaey's blog, but if not, no hard feelings. I appreciate the time we were able to spend together nonetheless. Please remember to take care of yourself !

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after spending some time on kaeys new blog and doing some soul searching I realized that I feel a lot happier and safer on the new blog, and I kind of just. don't want to come back here. the anxiety passed and I leaned into it and, surprisingly, it worked out really well for me so I'm glad for that. I just. don't have the energy to focus on multiple characters or blogs right now, so I'm going to focus on kaey and give him my attention and time, for better or worse. I'm not necessarily abandoning this blog or @feminsin, I'm just putting them on indefinite hiatus until I feel ready to pick up the characters again. very likely I will be making new single muse blogs as I get my groove back, but right now I just. get very overwhelmed on a multi. I apologize to everyone who was interested in interacting with the characters here or on my other blogs. ; ; if you would like my new blog please like / comment on this post or DM me. I might post the promo here eventually, but for now, I am keeping it lowkey. if folks aren't interested in interacting with him / writing with me then nows your chance to cut ties with no hard feelings. I may also follow some folks I'm interested in pursuing interaction with, but mostly I want to ensure the folks who follow me actually want me on their dash and to write with. again, no hard feelings. I really appreciate the patience and support I have been shown. <3 if you have Discord and want to maybe rp over Discord you can add me ! I'm open to writing any and pretty much all of my characters, so we can continue plots and ships if you want ! owo add me: seal snoot ;#5985 (you can also ask for my new blog URL on Discord as well if we already have each other added !) also, if you see some of my blogs deactivate (this blog and feminsin will be spared !) don't panic, I'm just doing some housekeeping. I've already deleted a few, but made sure to block folks so they don't have a ghost blog in their stats. ^^;

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alright, so. I think I am going to give Kaey his own blog, focus on that, and possible a couple other original characters ?? I'm thinking Indi and maybe a few new ones.

I may return to this / my other blogs at some point ( let's be real, I'll probably want to move back in less than a week ;D ) but I think focusing on a couple characters / blogs in particular will be good for me right now, so that's the plan, and when I feel I'm in a better place mentally maybe I'll resume writing more of my kids.

so... like this if you want the URL for Kaeys blog ? no pressure. I'll post a promo here eventually, but right now I'm gonna keep it lowkey. I'll also probably follow long time mutuals, friends, and folks I know I want to interact with.

also, I will decide on what I'm keeping / dropping regarding threads, ships, plots, etc on the new blog. that being said, if you want to keep something in particular let me know... or, come talk to me about new ships, plots, etc. or being mains. or affiliates. ;) I'm down for anything and everything with Kaey, so don't be shy.

other than that ? add me on discord ! ( seal snoot ;#5985 ) I'm happy to rp, plot, etc for any and all of my characters on discord, so feel free to hmu about that. owo

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ROLEPLAYING REMINDERS. --

a LOT of the time, I see a literally everyone exhausting themselves to write. they lose sleep, they turn in assignments late, or just genuinely aren’t taking care of themselves. you’re doing GREAT, but here are a few reminders that EVERY roleplayer should know ;; 

please please take a break. every few minutes after you do a few replies ( ESPECIALLY long ones dear lordy ) don’t be afraid to stop and take a break for a bit. letting your mind REST helps it not wear out so easily, so not only can you get more done, you can also not exhaust yourself !! 

water is great and you probably need some. go get yourself a glass!!

whatever is going on ooc where no one can see behind that screen, don’t ever feel bad. real life is supposed to come first no matter what. the roleplayers that genuinely understand are the ones you wanna keep close!! don’t let ANYONE make you feel bad

do not feel guilty about late replies 

seriously. don’t. 

that person that plays the same muse as you ??? they might be super duper wonderful, but so are YOU!! different portrayals are what make roleplaying unique. don’t compare yourself to others. instead, embrace the individuality!! 

and finally, remember that this is for FUN. if anything is ever stressing you out chances are you shouldn’t be doing it, so be sure not to put too much pressure on yourself. this is a HOBBY, not an OBLIGATION. 

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the commodification of friendship is the most annoying thing to come out of the internet in ages. like actually i love to break this to you but you're supposed to help your friends move even if it's hard work. or stay up with them when they're sad even if you're gonna lose sleep. you're supposed to listen to their fears and sorrows even if it means your own mind takes on a little bit of that weight. that's how you know that you care. they will drive you to the airport and then you will make them soup when they're sick. you're supposed to make small sacrifices for them and they are supposed to do that for you. and there's actually gonna be rough patches for both of you where the balance will be uneven and you will still be friends and it will not be unhealthy and they will not be abusive. life is not meant to be an endless prioritization of our own comfort if it was we would literally never get anywhere ever. jesus.

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I AM NOT AN ELITIST FAVORING BLOG.

the meaning to the term ELITIST is a little controversial, but what I mean by it is that I don’t write with you based on graphics, or how coded your FONT is, or how well-known / favored your portrayal is. when I follow you, I want to write with YOU!! those elements are rather nice and all, but roleplaying is all about the interaction.

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love getting invested in other ppl's oc lore like tell me more about your original guy

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i hope the people who see my internet friends every day appreciate it.

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my roleplay blog is my safe space, not yours. you are not entitled for me to change the way i do things on my blog, at the cost of my safety or my own accessibility. my roleplay blog is there for my happiness before yours. if it is taking away from your happiness or safety, then it is on you to curate your dashboard and unfollow/block me. there are many things i can do to accommondate others without it coming at the expense of my happiness, safety or accessibility, and i gladly do so. but if your request is at the expense of me, it is not wrong of me to turn it down. my blog is there for me first, as yours should be there for you first. you are not entitled to my content, time, or energy.

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Reblog this if it is totally okay to come into your DM's at 3am and talk about our muses in cap locks! ♡

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thinking about moving kaey to his own blog ._.

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honestly if you arent dating kaey then you are missing out. he could be chirping at you, purring when youre nearby, flicking his ears, being soft and giving you love bonks with his forehead. blushing a lot because hes so nervous he doesnt know what hes doing. hes gonna cook for you and make you tea and help you with your hair. gonna let you braid his hair. gonna hang out with you without his prosthetic. gonna be just so fucking gentle and soft. hes gonna take care of you, and be protective of you, and support you unconditionally. hes gonna give you shy lil love licks because its just what he feels like he needs to do to show you how much he adores you. hes gonna be nervous and always making sure youre on the same page, always trying to keep you comfortable and happy. would do literally anything to keep you comfortable and happy and safe.

im just. love this feral boi pls he has so much to give and wants so little in return. he deserves so much and is such a soft person who cares about others more than himself. date him damn it.

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screams because I got an angsty YCH commission of kaey !! ; w ; I couldn't resist, we love a boi that never gives up... even when fatally wounded and utterly terrified.

art by violetwitchhh // please ask before reblogging !

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thinking about kaey 🥹 🥰 👉👈

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i think top surgery scars should be bioluminescent

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selkies current blog roll ! updated january 18, 2023

@omends - my main, ft. my kids 

@wildhymns - fandomless oc multi

@feminsin - original lore based oc multi

all blogs are a work in progress with low activity unless otherwise stated ! notice as of january 18, 2023: blogs are currently on hiatus

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alrighty. I think I've come to a... decent arrangement, for the time being.

@omends ( main ) - kaey | high activity - chey | low activity - wystan | low activity - indi | low activity - myk | low activity

@feminsin ( original lore tri-muse ) - zhu dai - yew - ariadne

@wildhymns ( original character multi ) - original characters - roster decided later-ish - may change url at some point - you can request affiliated characters !

I'm not promising any kind of permanency regarding blogs or characters, but this is what I'm comfortable with currently. I'm not going to lie... between schoolwork, migraines (and the resulting naps), and episodes of depression I haven't had a mind to dedicate to tumblr. That, and I've been struggling with apathy and just not feeling any particular way about anything, so I know I am not in a stable mental place to make decisions. I feel like I've reached a starting place in regard to sorting blogs and characters, just... yeah. No spoons, no soup.

Blog things will be sorted at my earliest convenience. And, until I reach a better, less numb-feeling place and can promise consistency my blogs are gonna be on hiatus.

As a note, any blogs I do not intend to keep I will softblock followers on, so there isn't an empty blog following folks and folks aren't following an empty blog. I don't want to delete them in case I want to use them later, so they'll stay as-is and the pinned post will have a link to my main.

If you don't have me on Discord I encourage you to add me, because it's just the best place to talk and write with me right now. And if you do have me on Discord I encourage you to poke me about writing; we can start a 1x1 server, or plot, or discuss affiliated characters, or talk ships, or create aus... I'm down for anything, even just you yelling about your muse(s) and lore and worldbuilding.

my discord: seal snoot ;#5985

anyway. I love you all. stay amazing. thank you for sticking by me.