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Kendrick Lamar is now a 22-time Grammy award winner. Not Like Us broke the record for most wins by a rap song in Grammy history (5). It's also the first diss record to win a Grammy.

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growing up doesnt mean you have to stop having fun and doing dumb stuff it just means you still do the same whimsical bullshit but now you sometimes have to take a break because your favorite food upset your tummy

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Sabrina Carpenter | Versace gown | Grammy Awards | 2025

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Annie won 3 Grammys tonight!

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sorry for being weird and evasive. i was raised to believe that having wants and needs was a moral failing

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Are you gonna say anything? No point. In five minutes you're gonna be inside my head.

PACIFIC RIM (2013) dir. Guillermo del Toro

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Peeta and Katniss rooftop scene lives rent free in my mind.

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look accessibility can and will be contradictory

I love a high toilet seat bc it means in don't have to put effort in with my legs, but people doing a chair transfer might hate it

an audio transcript at the end of a video might make it annoying for people using a screen reader

loud music for hoh people might make an event inaccessible for people with noise sensitivity

speaking longly and specifically for people who struggle with tone might make your message for people with cognitive disabilities

and the list goes on

but if you never start making your life and content accessible, then you're not helping anyone either. there's not a golden rule of accessibility but if you don't even put in an effort, that's when you become an asshole

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when the lyrics you've been mishearing are more clever than what's actually in the song

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Congratulations to all my girls and Kendrick Lamar

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everyone needs to be a killjoy feminist right now

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at the end of the music art and self expression will always save us

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CHAPPELL ROAN, BILLIE EILISH, and SABRINA CARPENTER at the 67th Annual Grammy Awards, February 2, 2025

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A lot clicked for me when my mom said the reason she was so reactive towards me as a kid was that she assumed intent behind things I did, rather than recognizing my behaviors for being normal kid behaviors or normal autism behaviors. So I got treated as if I was an adult who was intentionally doing things to upset her. She'd react to me like I had the maturity and wherewithal to do things in a cruel or manipulative way, making her life harder, when I was just existing. Just trying to learn how to cope and be a person myself. When she told me this I stopped in my tracks trying to process. Why would anyone's default assumption be that a kid is trying to antagonize them instead of like, struggling with something they're experiencing? But she was also raised the exact same way, treated like everything she did carried the weight of adult responsibility, not seen as a kid.

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Not to go "if you have ADHD just go for a run" or anything, but I am so serious if you have ADHD you should regularly go outside, no headphones no phone no nothing and just stand and observe for a while until you've had enough. Not until you get bored, until you've had enough. Drink your coffee without watching tiktok. Have a bath without music. Turn down the volume in your headphones. I cannot overstate how much learning to be bored is cruicial with ADHD. Life is not just about pleasure, no matter what your dysregulated dopamine system thinks, and when you teach your brain to be okay with being bored, then boring tasks stop feeling like torture. By letting yourself be bored you are yoinking your system out of the high/low binary and allow for the highs to feel like actual highs and not just anything that isn't low. I am so serious go literally touch grass. Listen to the sounds in your flat. Stimulate your body the way it was designed. It lowers anxiety and makes you feel like you're real and best of all it's completely free

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