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I never see any posts about those with schizophreniform! So shout out to those with schizophreniform.

☆☆☆ hope your day is going well & if it isn't then I hope tomorrow will be better ☆☆☆

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The type of intimacy you display with your friends is usually different than the type of intimacy you display with your partner. (Although it's sort of like a venn diagram, where some of it overlaps - like hugging, sharing secrets, etc)

You're allowed to feel uncomfortable with your partner kissing, groping, or sexting their friends. If your partner wanted an open relationship, they should have discussed it with you first.

Now this NEVER means that it's okay to go through their phone, cut off their friendships, or demand that you're more important than their friends. But it does mean you don't have to feel guilty about asking to be respected. Even if you ended up being wrong and it turns out their friendship is completely platonic, it's still good to discuss your feelings in a calm and mature manner.

If your partner is treating you like you're an overly jealous person who isn't allowed to bring up when they do something that hurts you, then leave. Leave and don't look back.

(of course, if you and your partner are both okay with acting sexual / romantic with your friends then it's perfectly fine)

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Things that don’t make a person any less beautiful for having:

- stretch marks - acne - skin conditions - overbites - scars - body fat - eye bags/dark circles - mental illnesses - disabilities - low self esteem - speech impediments - trauma - a different gender than the one they were assigned - sex - to take medication - eating disorders

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What are some disabilities or diseases or mental illnesses that nobody seems to talk about? I'd like to hear some opinions!

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I’m not a very good gate keeper. But I think I can live with that Happy Trans day of visibility! <3 <3 <3

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Please support trans people who aren’t in loving/accepting homes.

Please support trans people who are in loving/accepting homes.

Please support trans people who are currently confused with their gender.

Please support trans people who frequently change their name because they can’t find one that fits.

Please support trans people who are half supported and half not.

Please support trans people who don’t have much dysphoria.

Please support trans people who have a shit ton of dysphoria.

Please support trans people.

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💖 disabled nonbinary people are worthy of love and support 💖

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I hope everyone on the autism spectrum has a lovely day! You're all amazing, worthy of love, and needed in this world! And yes I mean EVERYONE on the autism spectrum! I know one of you is thinking "Not me :/ this doesn't apply to me" well you're wrong! You're included in this too!

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You got a speech disorder? A thought disorder? Issues with mobility?

Does this thing ever happen where you start talking to someone, and because your disability seems invisible until you start talking with someone they get weirded out and walk away?

Well they SUCK. People who judge us on our disabilities SUCK. WE ROCK!

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Your health doesn't define your worth.

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Hey do you have ophthalmomandibulomelic dysplasia (otherwise known as pillay syndrome, or OMM syndrome)? Hey then I hope your day is going well, hope you'll be able to cope if things aren't going well though! I love you!

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If you have a bifid nose, you're lovely! Absolutely lovely! Keep being you!

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If you have any form of apraxia, just know you're valid and your struggles are recognized! I love you!

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Hey if you have abdominal cystic lymphangioma, I love you and I hope your day is going alright!

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hey…..mutuals……guess what…..