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My mom does crochet and she was trying to roll one of her yarns back up but it turned into a giant knot, so I ended up taking it from her to try and untangle it

And like,,,,, not to sound all divine feminine trad wife-y but I have never felt more primal and in touch with my ancestors than I did sitting there carefully and methodically untangling this gigantic knot of yarn while my mom re-rolled her next ball next to me

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not to enforce gender roles but a computer should NOT fucking have apps okay. if I wanted an app I'd go on my phone my laptop is for Programs. I mean this.

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"But that ship is toxic and problematic" okay ❤️ yay ❤️

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On a lighter note, there’s a family down the street having some kind of party in their front yard and I can’t see anything

But I can hear at LEAST two guys, if not possibly more, singing VERY loudly along to whatever music is playing and I am genuinely so delighted for them they sound like they’re having so much fun <3

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I don’t think I’ll ever stop being kinda angry that “gentle parenting” went from “what if we treated children as human beings and taught them to process and regulate their feelings instead of punishing them for being upset and not knowing what to do”

And then got twisted around to “parents who gentle parent are parents who don’t ever say no to their kids and don’t discipline them and just give them an iPad :)”

Fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you it should not be this hard to treat children as actual living human beings fuck you

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Reminder that TERF rhetoric doesn't start with "we have a raging and irrational hatred for half the human population based on biochemical characteristics, just like literal fascists," it starts with more rational sounding statements that place you in the role of victimhood and gain your sympathy.

"Testosterone causes dominance and aggression."

"Not all men, but we can't tell which men so we must assume all men are predators."

"Even men you know could secretly be predators."

"We don't want men in women's restrooms."

"It's unfair for AMAB people to compete in women's sports, they have a physical advantage."

These are all relatively accepted points among central and even liberal circles of women. They sound like they are logically sound and only concerned with protecting women from harm.

Until...

Testosterone does not cause aggression. That's bioessentialism, which is bad science.

Fear mongering works to separate you and "others" into groups; us vs them, you're put on the defensive. Assumptions about gender essentialism are shown to widen the gap in so-called gender-based behaviors. Not only that, they actively increase hostility towards trans individuals.

Men are not slaves to their biochemistry or gender identities. Studies show that young boys given education on relationships and consent don't go on to be perpetrators of DV and sexual assault.

Additionally, intimate partner violence is reciprocal far more often than reported due to the fact that men are unlikely to report abuse. DV is not a problem of gender--it is a learned behavior.

Arguments about "men" in women's spaces is not about cis men--it is a dogwhistle for transphobia.

Trans feminine individuals on HRT experience a decrease in Hgb/HCT levels to equal that of cisgender women, as well as lose muscle mass, which steadily declines beyond 3 years on HRT. They also show no difference in V02 peak to cis women.

Additionally, there is no rationale behind using trans people as a whipping dog in discussions of gender.

"Almost half of all transgender people have been discriminated against in hiring or firing decisions and more than 40 percent have experienced workplace harassment because they are transgender." This is comparable to rates of sexism that cis women experience in the workplace.

Trans women were paid 60 cents for every $1 earned by the average American worker, compared to the 84 cents earned by cis women.

Trans people face significant barriers to accessing sexual, reproductive, and general healthcare.

Trans people face 4x the rate of violent crime as cis people (including cis women).

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sometimes you do forget that the general population doesn't necessarily find a guy cumming prematurely in his pants hot

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bringing this over from twitter bc this person literally gets it. watching su for the first time i was literally shocked by how wonderfully toxic the yuri was there. thank you women 🙏

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Being someone who likes emetophilia in fiction but is SEVERELY emetophobic irl makes finding vomit content like pulling teeth

Not because there’s a lack of fictional emetophilia - there isn’t

But SOLELY because people love to post videos, gifs and pictures of real people vomiting and real vomit in the emeto tag - and there is literally no way of filtering it if they don’t tag like “irl emeto” or “irl vomit” or some variation

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there are people with genders you will never comprehend and people fucking in ways you will never understand and people making art you just don't get and that shit RULES

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x / raymond carver

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Marge Mellor

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do not let up the pressure

https://yellat.money/

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reblog if you're corny and insufferable

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my new thing whenever an embarrassing memory jumps up out of some backwater neuron to t-bone my present-day thought process is to declare a statute of limitations. like i can burn down an entire building in the state where i live and the law deems it both unfair and illegal to prosecute me after six years have passed, i think that thing i said in high school can be expunged from my record.