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"irreversible side effects of HRT" all of life is irreversible. i cannot go back a single second in time

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the more i try to explain gender to cis people the more i understand plato's allegory of a cave

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hes busy

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you gotta be able to say "die"

you gotta be able to say "suicide"

you gotta be able to talk about "sex"

they're uncomfortable topics, YEAH for SURE

because LIFE is uncomfortable. Death and suicide and sex and pain are straight up going to happen. not having words for the way it discomforts you doesn't make it more comfortable, it just makes you less able to reach out about it.

even more vital, you gotta be able to say words like "rape", "abuse", "queer" or "racist". cause we fought fucking hard to name those experiences. to identify "rape" as distinct from "sex" and "racism" as distinct from "acceptable behaviour" and "queer" as distinct from "invert"

like the function of communication is not to minimise immediate discomfort. we gotta be able to talk about stuff that's hard or sucks or causes difficult conversations.

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why would you complain about leather daddies at pride why don't you want to see beautiful men in skimpy clothes wandering around? for free???

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don't worry about your imminent unemployment kitten

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the first people to ever use terms of endearment for each other must have been so in love i'm in tears just thinking about it

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RULE NO. 1 OF WOUND CARE: ignore itttt :33

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the full month between these two tweets

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oh ok

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gays see something with "vampire" in it and hit reblog

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“well. plays the cards i’m given” has profoundly changed something in me. litany against wallowing in an unsatisfactory situation