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I'm once again single and sore about it, since my relationship was a good one with a genuinely good and good-looking man.

I haven't bought a new Sims anything since Lovestruck and I don't feel motivated to even finish this Blast From The Past event because either my save(s) are corrupted or my 10-year-old computer is on the fritz.

I don't have money available to replace said 10-year-old computer.

My housing situation is up in the air. Thinking about moving again but that would probably cost me more than just trying to stay here another year.

Every day I have to get up I just want to leave my job but all the other jobs available to me at higher pay suck too.

I'm doing things but I don't really want to do things. I'm distracting myself but I know it's just distractions. He dumped me and the world is just a lotta bit grayer. I don't look forward to anything. I am just going through the motions of life.

And my country is crumbling in real time.

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- Secrets Post #896, February 14th, 2025

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The night is beautiful, so the faces of my people. The stars are beautiful, so the eyes of my people. Beautiful, also, is the sun. Beautiful, also, are the souls of my people.

~Langston Hughes

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John Q. (2002) dir. Nick Cassavetes  

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Loving someone is never a waste.

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Enemy (2013) dir. Denis Villeneuve

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Something I forgot, that I should have remembered. People aren't lists but THIS list could've probably prevented what happened these past 2 years.

Amendments.

Since the universe seems to sort of be hearing me out rn. 

Keep reading

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if you are reading this, something good will happen to you very soon, don’t give up

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One day

You're going out to dinner, going to a movie and hugging and loving up on each other.

And then the next day,

he doesn't see a future with you.

The earthquake hits. The bank closes in. Then you realize you didn't know anything.

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What hurts is the fact that you shared your soul with them just to be strangers again.

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25 ways to be a little more punk in 2025

Cut fast fashion - buy used, learn to mend and/or make your own clothes, buy fewer clothes less often so you can save up for ethically made quality

Cancel subscriptions - relearn how to pirate media, spend $10/month buying a digital album from a small artist instead of on Spotify, stream on free services since the paid ones make you watch ads anyway

Green your community - there's lots of ways to do this, like seedbombing or joining a community garden or organizing neighborhood trash pickups

Be kind - stop to give directions, check on stopped cars, smile at kids, let people cut you in line, offer to get stuff off the high shelf, hold the door, ask people if they're okay

Intervene - learn bystander intervention techniques and be prepared to use them, even if it feels awkward

Get closer to your food - grow it yourself, can and preserve it, buy from a farmstand, learn where it's from, go fishing, make it from scratch, learn a new ingredient

Use opensource software - try LibreOffice, try Reaper, learn Linux, use a free Photoshop clone. The next time an app tries to force you to pay, look to see if there's an opensource alternative

Make less trash - start a compost, be mindful of packaging, find another use for that plastic, make it a challenge for yourself!

Get involved in local politics - show up at meetings for city council, the zoning commission, the park district, school boards; fight the NIMBYs that always show up and force them to focus on the things impacting the most vulnerable folks in your community

DIY > fashion - shake off the obsession with pristine presentation that you've been taught! Cut your own hair, use homemade cosmetics, exchange mani/pedis with friends, make your own jewelry, duct tape those broken headphones!

Ditch Google - Chromium browsers (which is almost all of them) are now bloated spyware, and Google search sucks now, so why not finally make the jump to Firefox and another search like DuckDuckGo? Or put the Wikipedia app on your phone and look things up there?

Forage - learn about local edible plants and how to safely and sustainably harvest them or go find fruit trees and such accessible to the public.

Volunteer - every week tutoring at the library or once a month at the humane society or twice a year serving food at the soup kitchen, you can find something that matches your availability

Help your neighbors - which means you have to meet them first and find out how you can help (including your unhoused neighbors), like elderly or disabled folks that might need help with yardwork or who that escape artist dog belongs to or whether the police have been hassling people sleeping rough

Fix stuff - the next time something breaks (a small appliance, an electronic, a piece of furniture, etc.), see if you can figure out what's wrong with it, if there are tutorials on fixing it, or if you can order a replacement part from the manufacturer instead of trashing the whole thing

Mix up your transit - find out what's walkable, try biking instead of driving, try public transit and complain to the city if it sucks, take a train instead of a plane, start a carpool at work

Engage in the arts - go see a local play, check out an art gallery or a small museum, buy art from the farmer's market

Go to the library - to check out a book or a movie or a CD, to use the computers or the printer, to find out if they have other weird rentals like a seed library or luggage, to use meeting space, to file your taxes, to take a class, to ask question

Listen local - see what's happening at local music venues or other events where local musicians will be performing, stop for buskers, find a favorite artist, and support them

Buy local - it's less convenient than online shopping or going to a big box store that sells everything, but try buying what you can from small local shops in your area

Become unmarketable - there are a lot of ways you can disrupt your online marketing surveillance, including buying less, using decoy emails, deleting or removing permissions from apps that spy on you, checking your privacy settings, not clicking advertising links, and...

Use cash - go to the bank and take out cash instead of using your credit card or e-payment for everything! It's better on small businesses and it's untraceable

Give what you can - as capitalism churns on, normal shmucks have less and less, so think about what you can give (time, money, skills, space, stuff) and how it will make the most impact

Talk about wages - with your coworkers, with your friends, while unionizing! Stop thinking about wages as a measure of your worth and talk about whether or not the bosses are paying fairly for the labor they receive

Think about wealthflow - there are a thousand little mechanisms that corporations and billionaires use to capture wealth from the lower class: fees for transactions, interest, vendor platforms, subscriptions, and more. Start thinking about where your money goes, how and where it's getting captured and removed from our class, and where you have the ability to cut off the flow and pass cash directly to your fellow working class people

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Elon, Vivek, the DOGE dorks

It's truly Revenge of the Nerds up in here. Like the "average" Redditor, "well, actually" punchable-voiced Logic-fellating ass.

I like that movie, but honestly, many of those Nerds weren't any better than the Jocks and certainly just as misogynist. Most of these types of "nerds" just want to be the jocks x5 and they also think that the darker your skin tone, the dumber you are.

Arrogant edgelord incels have taken over our government.

God help us.