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Walton Ford (American, 1960) - Gleipnir (2012)

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I Will Destroy You, Nick Flynn

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Outside St. Mary's Abbey, York, England.

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I would like to nominate "You promised" "I know" as one of the most heartbreaking exchanges in the english language

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a bad dream?

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T Lazy S - Battle Mountain, Photo by John Langmore, 2012

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YIPEEEEE COMIC!!

I love the small details about the Dealer: it doesn’t need to look directly into the shotgun for knowing the round or the fact it puts the handcuffs itself, I feel it’s kinda telling about the character huhu

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If haunting describes how that which appears to be not there is often a seething presence, acting on and often meddling with taken-for-granted realities, the ghost is just the sign, or the empirical evidence if you like, that tells you a haunting is taking place. The ghost is not simply a dead or a missing person, but a social figure, and investigating it can lead to that dense site where history and subjectivity make social life. The ghost or the apparition is one form by which something lost, or barely visible, or seemingly not there to our supposedly well-trained eyes, makes itself known or apparent to us, in its own way, of course. The way of the ghost is haunting, and haunting is a very particular way of knowing what has happened or is happening. Being haunted draws us affectively, sometimes against our will and always a bit magically, into the structure of feeling of a reality we come to experience, not as cold knowledge, but as a transformative recognition.

—Avery Gordon, Ghostly Matters: Haunting and the Sociological Imagination

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skipping along

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— natalie wee, never been kissed (via letsbelonelytogetherr)

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the two most horribile people you know deserve each other.

tumblr user @/inkskinned / i want you to know that i'm awake/i hope that you're asleep, car seat headrest / familiarity breeds contempt, google / no children, the mountain goats / tumblr user @/willowcrowned

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Just lost someone I used to care so much.

They're right. Nothing hurts more than friendship breakup. It's been two weeks and it still hurts.

But now the feeling leaning more into anger. Why did I embarrass myself begging for change, always making effort more, texting first, adressing thing that hurts me who she never acknowledge. Like, wow. It was always been one sided friendship, the sign were all there but I'm just keep ignoring it.

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to begin with, the sweet grass by mary oliver, from “devotions”

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negative space

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Ch'ang Ch'u Ling, translated by Kenneth Rexroth, from a poem titled "Since You Left,"

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starting a collection. pierre talking to natasha in war and peace

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I see green, icy blue - Sebastian B (@tabacstar_)