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This has been said many times but the way no one questions elevating men to hero status despite well-documented misogyny but women aren't allowed to view other women as role models or "feminist icons" if they don't meet some unattainable standard of purity is relentless.
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“Girls and the gays” is so interesting because even though both parts of that statement describe lesbians, I always get the feeling that the people who say it are not thinking about lesbians at all
#i've been sayinggg#pulling a reversee venn diagram over there because they do not want the overlaps lmao
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unfortunate of unfortunates i've been on here long enough to remember the people freaking out about the porn barn or whatever anyway can we redo the porn ban but specifically for removing dicks from my dash thank you please ms. tumblr
#mona mona mona#v v tired but also#like no comments on the semi-tasteful female nudity you're suggesting to me all the time whatever#drawing the line here though you get me#almost like being on a lesbian dating app <3
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i'm such an asshole because i'll hear a man say something anything and all that's going through my head is oh my gdddd you're so fucking stupid
#mona mona mona#this was brought on by something in particular but it's very very general#goes doubly for male artists and creators. like i'll think there's something of value being said and then One thing will annoy me and#you're forever stupid :(#sorry try being less insufferable next time i guess <3
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I just saw this video on tiktok and I’m devastated. She was fourteen when her mother paid and consented for her to have laser hair removal of her underarms. Fourteen.
Imagine going through puberty, feeling lost and confused, growing up racialised as a brown woman, facing all the sexism and racism that comes with that, then looking to your mother to guide you and instead she validates all the abuse you’ve endured.
She tells you they are right. That you are, in your natural state, wrong and disgusting. She shows you that even with age and time, you will not be free from this misogyny and racism. You will internalise this message so much that you will one day look at your own daughter and instead of seeing her worth, you just see things that need to be fixed.
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you can leave the house with a bare face and suffer no consequences btw. if you're a woman you do not have to wear any makeup
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i'd love to see like demographics for this website because some of the problems people on here insist on having just screams rich parents
#mona mona mona#is this too mean#half the time i go on here i scroll for like two minutes until i just have to go oh my gd who gives a shit and close the tab
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“Woman! Literacy is the prerequisite to your emancipation.”

Natalia Iznar, 1920s
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imagine if we as women, instead of being taught to be meek and waste time with stuff like makeup, were encouraged to pick up a sledgehammer and use it to have fun and express what's in our hearts. just a thought
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"i'm just a girl-" mary shelley published frankenstein at twenty.
#mona mona mona#the moral of this is to read frankenstein btw. very happy to spell that out just this once#yes i just read it and yes it's really really good.#keep reminding myself that she was nineteen when she wrote this like fuck me man. it reads so mature.#love it when classics actually hold up! funnily enough it's usually the ones written by women <3#also unrelated but tagging this on anyway - i read maria (the wrongs of woman) last week and while structurally it is. annoying#i'm really impressed by how effectively wollstonecraft elaborates on the ideas from vindication and lets them play out in practice.#(also her rose is lovely and i reckon the structure woild work better if it was finished and the memoir stops taking most of it.#still lovely for what is there)#re shelley i have nothing she's brilliant. the framing the parallels the allegories... good fucking food!
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no just my thing with abrahamic religion is if i was eve and i fully knew the consequences id still choose knowledge in a heartbeat so yeah i guess i'm whats wrong with the universe if that's truly your belief system teehee. im just a curious gal
#love eve love failed misogynistic creation myths love women being the backbone of everything#she's such an icon to me. reclaiming the fuck out of that shit
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Often, men will say something like : "Who built this world? Men! Who created everything, all the technology, the great art, the culture, our societies? Who built the roads you drive on? Men!" and feminists will respond "That's because you didn't let us work or make art!" and... that's just wrong? Why are you validating the idea that women didn't contribute anything to the world? That we didn't work? That we didn't innovate? And why are you approving the nonsense that says being a mother is not work?
Don't let men rewrite history.





























Women have always worked the double shift; outside of home and inside of home.
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People tend to think that being uncomfortable with gnc people is a men's problem, but honestly a lot of women are mad uncomfortable with masculine women. Yeah, even feminists of any variety. Like they have this idea of masculine women being all cool and defying the patriarchy and whatnot, until they meet masc women who are not like the fantasy teddybear butch they idealized on their social media of choice. Add to this that a lot of them don't know how to act around women who live with no regards for gender roles, and feel taken aback when stereotypical norms of female socialization aren't followed in a conversation.
I think most women are pretty comfortable with considering this a men's problem because this means they don't have to check their own behaviour, since it's men's that's on the spotlight, so I don't expect this to change anytime soon tbh. But at the end of the day, women are just as anxious to steer/guilt other women towards femininity or feminine attitudes as men are with making each other act masculine. Possibly, the whole emphasis on men when it comes to this issue has made them believe that the way women are taught to socialize with one another is the natural (and only) way of doing so, and therefore they aren't aware of how much this is not true until they meet women who don't act like that. Which could also tie into how they often see our masculinity as a performance that takes ideological maintenance or something born out of rebellion, when for many of us it's something effortless and the only way we feel comfortable navigating the world.
The women who treat masculine women like human beings tend to be either masculine themselves, or to be the kind that approach them without any weird or political expectations.
#i think also a lot of gc women don't realise where their bar for femininity actually is lmao like just the baseline is insaneee.#it's so clear so many are considering femininity in relation to hyperfemininity so suddenly a women performing that insane 'baseline'#femininity is hardly even considered feminine and so a women performing none of it is suddenly hypermasculine and 'being difficult'#more on point so many women also consider homophobia a male problem because they'll be (overly) cool with gay men and think that makes them#not homophobic. the most woke gay-obsessed women i've known have funnily enough also been the most lesbophobic#or: women are iterally just as behaviour-regulating as men. same expectations just bc women usually aren't as outwardly aggressive about it
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women like how strong i am and how i can pick her up, women like how warm i am always
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