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just saying if you are really my friend you’ll message me on the new account 🤷🏾‍♀️ see ya

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picking RPG clothes based on maxing stats instead of whether they match or not

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so I’ve noticed some of the fandom views john laurens as pure and innocent. I raise you Johndere. the very possessive and jealous boyfriend with a p bad temper. 

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eleven’s gay boyfriend 

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Writing Autistic Characters: 50 posts from scriptautistic

Happy Nanowrimo! In honour of national novel writing month 2017 we have put together this list of 50 of the most useful questions and answers from our blog this year. We hope you find them useful - happy writing!

-the scriptautistic mods

Meta

Our masterpost list

Finding an autistic sensitivity reader or beta-reader for your story

How to research autism without falling for tropes

How do I incorporate a character being autistic into the plot without making it be about them being autistic?

Autism resources

Representation

What sorts of characters would you like to see more of?

What are common stereotypes about autistic characters?

Do you have any advice to keep from infantilizing an autistic character?

Is it ok to write ASD characters that are not loved and accepted straight away?

Would it be bad if I make a non-human character autistic?

How do y'all feel about a story about an autistic guy who grows to dislike his autism?

Comorbidities

Similarities and differences between OCD and ASD

What is the difference between down syndrome and autism?

Encouraging abused children to stim again (effects of child abuse)

Are autistic people more likely to get migraines?

Tips for writing an autistic character in a psychiatric hospital?

The effect of a mental breakdown on a character’s routines

Emotions and empathy

What does hyperempathy feel like?

What would a low-empathy character feel and do when trying to comfort someone?

Showing love without saying “I love you”

How would my character use facial expressions?

Sensory sensitivities

What does understimulation feel like?

How might a person with sensory sensitivities cope with living in an unpleasant environment?

Can a character’s autistic traits change as they get older?

How does it feel to have auditory processing disorder?

Why would an autistic person might hit their head when overloaded?

Stimming

How can I write stims?

What does stimming feel like?

What unobtrusive stims could my character use?

Would a character stim differently depending on their emotions?

What is the effect of repressing their stims?

Education

Does autism give disadvantages for certain subjects at school?

Is it realistic to send someone with autism to a special needs school?

Ableism

Well-intentioned but rude neurotypical people

Bad therapy

Might a police officer consider an autistic person a threat if they were having a meltdown?

Communication

What might cause my character to be temporarily nonverbal?

What are some causes for an autistic person being nonverbal?

Might my character use filler words like “um” and “er”?

Could an autistic character pick up on sarcasm?

Could you use signing to communicate with an autistic toddler?

Other

Is it possible for a character’s family/friends to not suspect that the character is autistic until adulthood?

A character’s friends asking them to stop infodumping

How to write a sex scene with an autistic character

What problems might my character have around keeping a pet?

What could be some difficulties with being an autistic cop?

Flying and being at the airport while autistic

Fun posts

Stim toys in a post-apocalyptic setting

Accommodations for an autistic crewmember on a space station

What might an autistic society look like?

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halloween-ish icon series: day 1 🎃

Jasmine Cephas Jones set#3

it would be nice to give credit :)

requests are open !!

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last one before i move to my new account!!!

Ask Away

Put some numbers in my ask (: 

1. What type of criminal would you be? 2. What are you listening to right now? 3. If you had to choose a stripper name, what would it be? 4. If your phone started ringing, who would you hope is calling? 5. Do you drink? 6. Do you smoke? 7. What is the first thing you notice in someone? 8. Do you get attached easily? 9. Do you like your eye color? 10. Have any stupid human tricks? 11. Humor me. What physical ideal do you imagine in a boyfriend/girlfriend/partner? 12. What type of personality traits do you look for in a boyfriend/girlfriend/partner? 13. Any other essential quirks/interests/other you look for in a boyfriend/girlfriend/partner? 14. Any romantic gestures you really like? 15. Any sexual fantasies? Are you daring enough to share one? 16. Have you ever been in love? 17. Do you have a crush/romantic interest in anyone? 18. What’s your sexual orientation (if you feel comfortable answering)? 19. What’s your favorite color and why? 20. What was your most embarrassing moment? 21. Do you ever wish you were someone else? 22. What were you like when you were a kid? 23. What would your dream house be like? 24. What last made you laugh? 25. Do you have a place you like to go to collect your thoughts? 26. What is your favorite/least favorite word? 27. What turns you on? 28. What turns you off? 29. Have you ever been skinny dipping? 30. Would you go bungee jumping/sky diving if given the chance? 31. Do you have any siblings? 32. Do you like to dance? 33. What is your definition of cheating? 34. Have you ever stolen anything? 35. Do you regret anything? 36. Do you have any phobias? 37. Ever broken any bones? 38. Ever come close to death? 39. What is your religion/spirituality, if any? 40. Have you ever been to a psychiatrist/therapist? 41. Are looks important in a relationship? 42. Are you more like your mom or your dad? 43. What is your favorite season? 44. Do you have any tattoos? 45. Do you have any piercings? 46. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had? 47. Have you ever had a crush on a fictional character? 48. What is your favorite thing to do? 49. If you could only visit one place outside of your hometown, where would it be? 50. Do you get jealous easily?

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winx was my childhood *insert I DON’T CARE instead of flowers*

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Thank you all for 500 followers ❤️

Phillipa Soo icons + 🌇 sunset 🌇 headers

Jasmine Cephas Jones

Anthony Ramos

Lin-Manuel Miranda

Reblog if you want to use !!

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Thank you all for 500 followers ❤️

Jasmine Cephas Jones icons + 🌼 flower 🌼 headers

Anthony Ramos

Lin-Manuel Miranda

Phillipa Soo

Reblog if you want to use !!

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Beauty.

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🎉 I HIT 100 followers! 🎉 (I know that isn’t a lot, but hey I’m already happy af.)

Here are some free (badly drawn tbh) icons !! Feel free to use them but if you’re nice enough to credit me, that’d be cool too !!

If you want one without those doodles, just dm me !!

UPDATE: this got so much notes holy crap thank you ahhhhhhh ❤️ but i made more bc i think these are getting old lol

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WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK THIS IS AMAZING

Angelica, Eliza AND PEGGY! 

Again Some modern Schuyler sisters, I just love to draw them! :D

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RP WITH MEEEE

Rp with Marliza, Yup it’s that time of day again where ya girl is desperate for some marliza

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some people believe that being bi is 50% straight and 50% gay, but in fact it’s 10% luck, 20% skill, 15% concentrated power of will, 5% pleasure, 50% pain, and 100% reason to remember the name

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small talk in french 💬

⭐️ (for beginners) ⭐️

When talking to french people, focus on innocuous topics like the weather, current events (“avez-vous lu à propos de..?” Have you read about…?), and cultural topics like food, movies, art, music, and so on. And remember to use vous instead of tu!

I only speak a little French. Je ne parle qu'un peu le français.

I am learning French, but I am only a beginner. J'apprends le français mais je ne suis qu'un débutant.

I have been learning french for 2 days / 2 weeks / 2 months / 1 year / 2 years. J'apprends le français depuis deux jours / deux semaines / deux mois / un an / deux ans.

Will you please correct me? Peux-tu me corriger, s'il te plaît?

What does ___ mean? Que veut dire ___?

What does that mean? Qu'est-ce que ça veut dire?

Can you explain in French/English to me? Peux-tu m'expliquer en français / anglais?

What does that mean in this context? Qu'est-ce que ça veut dire dans ce contexte?

What is the French word for ___? Quel est le mot français pour ___?

Is this/that correct? C'est juste?

Am I wrong? Je me trompe?/Est-ce que j'ai tort?

Am I correct? Est-ce que j'ai raison?

Do you understand? Est-ce que tu me comprends?

I do not understand. Je ne comprends pas.

I want to improve my level in French. Je veux améliorer mon niveau de français.

I need to practice French. J'ai besoin de pratiquer le français.

Do you have time to speak with me? As-tu le temps de parler avec moi ?

Can you help me to learn French? Peux-tu m'aider à apprendre le français?

Do you mind if we speak in French? Ça te dérange si nous parlons en français?

Can you please speak in French? it helps me to learn. Peux-tu me parler en français s'il te plaît? Ça m'aide à apprendre.

How do you say ’___’ in French? Comment dit-on ’___’ en français ?

I struggle with spelling / reading / writing / listening / pronunciation. J'ai du mal avec l'orthographe / la lecture / l'écriture / la compréhension orale / la prononciation.

Can you please repeat? I did not understand. Pouvez-vous répéter s'il vous plaît ? Je n'ai pas compris.

I don’t speak French fluently. Je ne parle pas couramment le français.

I am confused. Je suis perdu(e).

I don’t know how to say it in French. Je ne sais pas comment le dire en Français,

Sorry (or ‘pardon’), what did you say? Pardon, qu'est-ce que tu as dit?

I’ve never heard of that. Je n'ai jamais entendu ça.

That makes sense. Ça se tient.

That does not make sense. Ça n'a aucun sens.

What’s happening? / What’s going on? Qu'est-ce qui se passe?

What do you mean by ’___’ ? Qu'est-ce que tu entends par ’___’? / Qu'est-ce que tu veux dire par ’___’?

⭐️ Personal Stuff ⭐️

Here is a list of phrases you can use and practice when giving and asking for personal information. Take note that the list makes use of the formal “vous”.

Comment vous appelez-vous? What is your name?

Je m'appelle Christine. My name is Christine.

Quel est votre nom? What is your name?

Comment allez-vous? How are you?

Je vais bien, merci. I am doing well, thank you.

Très bien, merci. Very well, thank you.

Quel âge avez-vous? How old are you?

J'ai # ans. I am # years old.

J'ai trente ans. I am thirty years old.

J'ai quarante-deux ans. I am forty two old.

Quelle est votre nationalité? What is your Nationality?

Je suis canadien(ne). I am Canadian.

Je suis américain(e). I am American.

Je suis chinois(e). I am Chinese.

Je suis coréen(ne). I am Korean.

Où habitez-vous? Where do you live?

J'habite en Californie. I live in California.

Quel est votre numéro de téléphone? What is your phone number?

Mon numéro de téléphone est le … My phone number is …

Où êtes-vous né(e)? Where were you born?

Je suis né(e) à… I was born in…

Êtes-vous marié(e)? Are you married?

Oui, je suis marié. Yes, I am married

Non, je ne suis pas marié. No, I am not married

Je suis célibataire. I am single

Est-ce que vous avez des frères et soeurs? Do you have any brothers and sisters?

Je suis fille unique. I am an only child/daughter

Je suis fils unique. I am an only child/son

J'ai - frère(s). I have - brother(s).

J'ai - soeur(s).  I have - sisters(s).

Je n'ai pas de frères. I don’t have any brothers.

Je n'ai pas de soeurs. I don’t have any sisters.

Quel est votre métier? What is your job?

Quelle est votre profession? What is your profession?

Que faites-vous dans la vie? What do you do for a living?

Je suis ingénieur. I am an engineer.

Je suis boulanger/boulangère. I am a baker.

Je suis médecin. I am a doctor.

Je suis infirmier/infirmière. I am a nurse.

⭐️ Interests ⭐️

Quel est votre sport préféré? What is your favorite sport? (formal)

Quel est ton sport préféré? 

What is your favorite sport? (informal)

Mon sport préféré est… My favorite sport is….

J'aime faire du sport et garder la forme. I like to do sports to keep fit.

Quelle saison préférez-vous? What season do you prefer? (formal

Quelle saison préfères-tu? What season do you prefer? (What season is your favorite?) (informal)

Quels sont vos passe-temps préférés? What are your favorite pastimes? (formal)

Quels sont tes passe-temps préférés? What are your favorite pastimes? (informal)

Mes passe-temps préférés sont… My favorite pastimes are…

Qu'est-ce que vous faites dans votre temps libre? What do you do in your free time? (formal)

Qu'est-ce que tu fais dans ton temps libre? What do you do in your free time? (informal)

Est-ce que vous avez un animal de compagnie? Do you have a pet?(formal)

Est-ce que tu as un animal de compagnie? Do you have a pet? (informal)

Non, Je n'ai pas un animal de compagnie. No, I don’t have a pet.

Oui, J'ai un chat. Yes, I have a cat.

Oui, J'ai un chien.Yes, I have a dog.

Qu'est-ce que vous aimez? What do you like?

J'aime le jazz. I like jazz.

J'aime le rock. I like rock.

J'aime le hip-hop. I like hip-hop.

Je n'aime pas le rap. I don’t like rap.

Je n'écoute pas de la musique très souvent. I don’t listen to music very often.

J'aime les films d'amour. I like romance films.

J'aime les films d'aventures. I like adventure films.

Je n’aime pas faire du ski. I don’t like skiing.

Qu'est-ce que vous aimeriez faire dans la vie? What would you like to do in life ?

J'aimerais être chef. I would like to be a chef.

J'aimerais être un bibliothécaire. I would like to be a librarian.