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✍🏻 sorry for not posting ive been filled with lesbian thoughts instead of baby thoughts

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My tips and info for new Caregivers and Supporters

some things i feel like caregivers and anyone who wants to support someone they know should know about regressors:

they geniunely are mentally the age they are regressed to

how they feel and think changes when they regressed

them regressing is for emotional reasons and that its not a negative thing even if they are feeling a "negative" emotion

they sometimes require more patience

their speech, language, and/or spelling can sometimes change when they regress

they are a whole individual and are not broken/missing a part of them when regressed

some important messages for caregivers/supporters:

be in control of what you say and do around someone while they are regressed. i would personally say to avoid being on substances around them while they are regressed because of the potential of triggering or upsetting them. most people who regress do so because of childhood trauma and the people around them acting out of control because they are intoxicated or otherwise impaired can be particularly upsetting and scary for some.

make sure the way you are interacting with them while regressed is appropriate to what age they are mentally. this can vary from each person who regresses due to personal preference or age they regress to but as a baseline you shouldnt be talking about adult, violent, or sexual topics with a 6 year old.

respect and love them both as an adult AND when regressed. appreicate them as a whole person, not just the way they act in one mental state vs the other.

understand that when someone is regressed they might require more patience because they geniunely are mentally the age they are regressed to. if you cant stand children then you might want to reconsider why you are taking care of someone when they are mentally a child. this might seem obvious to most people but the amount of people ive seen complaining about how their regressor acts like a child while regressed is mindblowing.

know that they are a whole individual and are not broken/missing a part of them when regressed. this varies from person to person as most things do, but avoid treating people like they are broken or missing something even if they themselves are under the personal belief that they are, ecpseically someone in the vulnerable state of being regressed.

understand that them regressing is for emotional reasons and that its not a negative thing even if they are feeling a "negative" emotion. it can be hard watching the person you care about seem to only get more upset when they regress, but that doesnt necessarily mean that regressing is bad for them. for alot of people its a way of processing emotions and with support it can actually help people get through "negative" or "bad" feelings.

"but what are caregivers? what do they do?"

caregiver is the term for someone who takes care of an age regressor. they may take on somewhat of a parental role for the regressor, serve as an older sibling of sorts, etc. typically its somewhat of a familial bond, atleast when the regressor is regressed. not every person who regresses wants a caregiver or feels like they need one, and some do.

caregivers can:

- remind regressors of their routines, tasks, or personal rules and help to make sure they follow through with them.

- "enforce" task completion or rule following in related ways (ex; regressor stays up till like 3 am one night by their own free will, a caregiver may decide that the next night they have an earlier bedtime, etc.) nothing done should be breaking personal boundaries the regressor has and vice versa. if you are going to set up rules around certain things or tasks then they should be agreed upon when the person isnt regressed and neither person is being made uncomfortable.

- encourage the regressor to engage in age appropriate behavior such as activities, media, language, etc. this one really differs from person to person because some people swear like sailors while regressed and want to be able to watch their mlp creepypastas on youtube while regressed to like 8 years old and all the power to them.

- check in and watch over what the regressor is doing. one thing most regressors who want caregivers like about it is having someone there that is checking in and is there rather consistently while they are regressed.

- treat the regressor like the age they are regressed to. treat and interact with them as you would someone who is physically the age they are mentally while regressed.

- respond to their needs or bids for connection as much as is comfortable for you. everyone needs breaks and space from time to time, ecspeically when you are trying to care for someone who is mentally a child, so try to voice when you need to step away. when someone whos regressed reaches out to you they probably just miss you and feel safe around you and want to connect in some way, they may just not know how to communicate that while regressed. responding in some way can be very reassuring, even if you are busy and its only a small text saying youll be back later.

- be affectionate, playful, and silly. this ones pretty self explanatory. keeping in mind everyones different preferences, many regressors enjoy being held, played with, and reassured no matter what age they are.

related to the above, here are some things caregivers can remind their regressor of:

ways to control their body; keeping hands to self, not running in some environments, etc.

ways to speak/talk; whining, asking nicely, lowering volume, language, saying please/thank you, etc.

routines/schedules/tasks; bedtime/morning, picking up their room/toys, getting ready to go, etc.

i intend to post a longer more detailed list of these, however here are some ways for caregivers to bond with their regressor:

encourage them to play; play with them, be silly

give them activities; put on shows/movies for them

read to them

spend time with them

chat with them; ask them questions, listen to their ramblings

include them; ask them their opinion, give them choices

be affectionate; hold and hug them

give them tasks/routines

be there for them; help them regulate + put into words how their feeling

have and use nicknames/petnames/titles for each other

respond to their bids for connection

teach them things

help them communicate through verbal shutdown or speaking difficulty

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pastel magical girl stimboard 🌈🩷

idk if i like this im on my phone in english rn ━🐣

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🐥 do you curse while regressed ? cool! 🍰 are you a 420 little ? that's fine! 🌸 you wanna talk about horror ? we have a channel 4 that!

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Reblog if your blog is a judgement-free zone!

Regressors of all kinds are welcome here: regressors of color, neurodivergent regressors, fat regressors, system regressors, disabled regressors, queer regressors, older regressors, hairy regressors, regressors who are addicts, mentally ill regressors, fandom regressors, diapered regressors, middle regressors, teen regressors, regressors who do it just for fun, regressors who do it involuntarily, regressors who post positivity, regressors who use their blog to vent, regressors who are also caregivers, permaregressors, regressors who only age dream, regressors who watch content geared towards adults, regressors who don't want caregivers, regressors of all kinds!

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✍🏻 Decided to expand on the writing I posted on Wednesday. Babyre, neutral CG & neutral reader.

You stir, cooing softly from behind your pacifier. It’s warm in your mouth. Your whole body is warm. Something is covering you, keeping you still. You peek your eyes open. Your caregiver’s above you. Holding you. They notice you, looking down and giving a smile that warms up your whole heart.

“Hey there my little sugarplum~”

They whisper softly, gently rocking you back and forth. You coo, squirming in the swaddling cloth. Your caregiver holds you close to their chest, softly rubbing your head.

“Shhhhh… it’s alright baby, I’ve got you. Just close your eyes…”

You let your eyes drift back closed, deciding not to be too fussy for now.

“That’s it… your little body needs all the energy it can get for playing tomorrow, so get plenty of rest… don’t worry, I’ll hold you nice and safe the whole time…”

Would they really hold you all night? The answer didn’t really matter, your brain already dreaming about all the adventures you could have tomorrow…

[SFW interaction only]

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✍🏻 Baby Daydream

Your eyes drift awake. Talking surrounds you, warmth drifting across your face. It’s the only part of you that isn’t wrapped up and swaddled. You sleepily try and move, but you’re kept in place by the warm fabric surrounding you. The firmness of it holding you safely in place makes you quickly drift back to sleep, just barely aware of a gentle rocking motion before sleep softly overtakes you once more.

SFW FRIENDLY INTERACTION ONLY

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🧸 These all look so comfy !!! Minty NEED she wants to be tucked into one so bad

Cribs 🍼

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✍🏻 i am a baby i should not be at work i should be in a playpen stacking blocks

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hello everyone! people on the agere sub on reddit were really enthusiastic about the idea of me trying to make a new social media site just for sfw age regressors (for reasons that are in my pinned post but the short version is that ive been lonely as a regressor and noticed that other existing sites have their issues due to not necessarily being made for us specifically).

because a lot of people said they really wanted me to go for it, i made a formal interest survey so i can see if it's actually a good idea and find out what kind of features the community would want if i went for it.

if you're interested in having a site just for us, please take a moment to take my survey! if you know anyone who would be interested in having one, please share the link to them -> tinyurl.com/marshmelman <- or send them this cute little flyer!

k thnx byyeeee

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✍🏻 OOO this is really adorable, ochako’s so cute 🩷🤎 also great server totally join

flip ochako stimboard 🩷🫧

himiko is next. server ad below ━🐣

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🎀BWA SERVER !!

୧ ‧₊˚ our server is for all littles.

🐥 do you curse while regressed ? cool! 🍰 are you a 420 little ? that's fine! 🌸 you wanna talk about horror ? we have a channel 4 that!

୧ ‧₊˚ we have channels for sensitive littles too!

★ we even have a tumblr !! 🎀 join us today ･ω･

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✍🏻 I wanna picked up and put in a highchair I wanna be spoonfed I wanna be tucked into a crib I wanna be bottlefed 😫 criminal that I can have none of this

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All bundled up for winter

DO NOT USE, STEAL, COPY, TRACE.

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🧸 Minty wishes she had a crib to sleep in >> she doesn’t wanna roll outta bed she wants to call for her CG and have them come and get her

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🧸 These are really cute!!! They really picture how fixated little ones get (or at how fixated minty gets) on her baba!

bottle emotes for a request we got! || requests are open :3

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✍🏻 Real!!! I need a CG to give me rules for when I'm little and enforce them!

BABY ME.

I wanna be babied and coo’d at SO BAD. I want for my cg to notice when I’m fussy and settle me down, getting my paci and cuddling me while telling me what a small baby I am😖 I want my cg to understand when I’m having a tantrum and actually help me manage it with soft gentle words! I WANNA HAVE RULES LIKE A BEDTIME AND BE TOLD IM TOO LITTLE FOR THINGS! TOLD SOFTLY TO BRUSH MY TEETH EVERY NIGHT AND TO EAT! I WANNA BE SHY AND SMALL WHILE MY CG CHUCKLES AND COOS AT ME ABOUT HOW CUTE AND WHAT A SMALL BABY I AM. MHMHMHMHMHMHMHM!!!!!😭😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖

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Wishlist Ideas for Closeted Regressors

So, it’s a little early to be posting holiday stuff, but I wanted to get this out there so since I know a lot of people start their holiday shopping around this time. So, If you’re looking for agere gear as a closeted regressor, or you just want something that’s subtle, here are 12 ideas-with pics. Note: pics are not mine, they are screenshotted from Amazon. prices are in USD, as Im American. Happy regressing and happy holidays!

1.Kawaii water bottles, specifically in the style below. The straw on most of these is a lot like a sippy or bottle, so if you can’t have/don’t want one of those, then these are a great alternative! Just look up ‘kawaii water bottle’ on Amazon and a whole bunch will show up. Most are between $15-25 USD

2. Funko Pops. I actually use mine as action figures and play with them (just be gentle with them if you do this!) so they can be great agere toys and decor! You can find just about any character and any fandom too. The prices very greatly, depending on what character and where you buy from. Black Friday deals on Amazon and Five Below are great ways to find them for only a few dollars.

3. Fidget toys; they can make great Agere activities! Because they are designed to stimulate your senses, many function similarly to baby toys. Note: when buying in bulk packages, the quality isn’t great. So consider whether you want to invest in better quality or quantity. Most bulk fidget packs are about $25 USD on Amazon. Dollar stores often have similar products as well, though once again the quality is unknown.

4. Fleece throw blankets. They are super cute, soft, and cuddly! Not only can they keep you warm, but I like to use mine as a playmat. Once again, price can very greatly; typically anywhere from $10-30 USD

5. Coloring books. I think this one is pretty self explanatory, as lots of regressors love coloring. If you’re worried about rousing suspicion, then just ask for an adult coloring book; these often have more intricate patterns, but if you ask for a fandom themed one, it’ll still have some awesome characters to color! Typically around $5-10

6. Silicone night light. These are available in so many colors, animals, and foods—and they are appropriate for any age, thanks to their kawaii esc appearance; they usually cost about $15.

7. Snack boxes. If your dietary needs allow for it, then these can provide some really cool little space snacks. They’re all pre packaged and come with a wide variety of things, ranging from crackers to cookies. And if you want something unique, you can try snack boxes that feature food from other countries. Prices will vary greatly, mostly dependent on the size

8. Lava lamps. These are just cute and make for a neat visual stim. Plenty of colors to choose from too! If you wanted, it could be used as a sort of substitute as a baby mobile since it’s very colorful and relaxing to watch. These can go for anywhere between $20-40

9. Microwaveable plushies. Super comforting, and for any Littles with cramps or chronic pain, they can be disguised as heating pads. Many of these also come with a scent, typically lavender, though you can find them without too. Cost around $20-40, depending on brand.

10. Scrapbooking materials. Kind of a random one, but they can be used to decorate a journal, you can make a physical photo album like many of us had in our childhoods, etc. Just a fun craft project you can consider! Typically, scrapbooking kits that include some paper, washi tape, and stickers can be around $10-15

11. Onesie pajamas. Lots of options, and are great if you live somewhere cold! Usually $25-40. These can be animal shaped, character themed, or more subtle like a plaid pattern. Very comfy and make for great little space clothes.

12. Glow in the dark stars. They are cute, fun, and aesthetically pleasing. You can get them in a who,e bunch of colors too! Typically $5