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stained glass pride flags // lesbian & gay & bi, pan & ply & trans, nb & aro & ace

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Friend: How come you’ve never had a crush?

Me, a closeted aroace:

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[ID: Text reading “No one:”, and on the next line, “Me: macaroni and cheese is my favorite food”. The image zooms in four times until the letters “aro” fill the screen. The text transitions from black to green each time the image zooms in. End ID]

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I got an aromantic flag that is so big I can’t even take a picture of it.

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Hi so uuuh video on aromantic experiences in the dating world (specifically allosexual aro experiences) from whomst I believe is a pretty big youtuber! Especially enjoyed seeing a very cutesy aro person talk openly about sex like @mainstream society try call us either ‘babyish’ or ‘cold’ after this. I don’t 100% agree with everything she says but it be like that sometimes and she does a good job of expressing that what she’s saying is just her personal opinions.

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i made an aro monster girl because why not

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I started working on these snakeskin patterns, and like three different people have said to me since I started showing them that they also look like butterfly wings. 

That’s one of the things I love about making these things, and about being queer in general: so much of what we are and who we are exists in these zones of fluidity. How we talk about our orientations and genders involves so much very personal interpretation and I like that this look really has that sort of fluidity of interpretation in it.

Yes, @apocalycious and I have been watching a lot of Project Runway together lately, hush. So anyway these could be snakeskin or they could be butterfly wings. 

Everything except the shoes and boots is available in: aromantic, asexual, bisexual, inclusive lesbian, non-binary, pansexual, rainbow and transgender. I have to head to bed so I haven’t gotten anything except transgender and bisexual done in the shoes and boots. They’ll be added, after this weekend. :D 

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some good arospec pride flags!

(in order: grayro, demiro, aro, apithro)

ahh sorry i couldn’t do more but a lot of them have colors/patterns that would be hard to do because minecraft has a lot of color limitations 

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Hi, your blog is such an amazing space of positivity for aro people, I was wondering if you know of any similar blogs for ace people? You’re really cool so thanks for everything you do!

ahh thank you so much!!!

i have my ace blog, it’s like this one but with ace memes 

fuckyeahasexual have really good resources/memes/support, and was the first ace blog i followed lol

biaroace is good for aroaces 

aroaceconfessions has some personal stories from both aces and aros

dailyaspecpositive reblogs a lot of positivity/pride posts!!

aspecpplarebeautiful is my favorite place for positivity and their posts are all really nice and aaa

whatsnew-lgbtq isn’t ace centered but they do reblog a lot of ace/aro stuff!

i hoped this helped!! (sorry if some of the links are weird/broken i tried my best lol)

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If I start telling everyone that I’m aro am I coming out of the closet… or the quiver

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It’s okay to be aplatonic!

Having QPRs is not a requirement of being aro and while a lot of the community focuses on them, you’re not a lesser aro for being aplatonic.

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Pastel flags

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This Lesbian Day of Visibility, I would like to give a shout-out to aspec lesbians! …

•Ace/grey-ace lesbians

•Aro/greyro lesbians

•Aro-ace lesbians

Your identities don’t contradict each other, and are not “just internalised homophobia”. It’s okay if you want relationships that are sexual but not romantic - it doesn’t make you predatory. It’s okay if you want relationships that are romantic but not sexual - it doesn’t mean you’re “just scared”. It’s okay if you want relationships that are neither sexual nor romantic.

It’s okay if you are on the aro/ace spectrums and do feel attraction but rarely, only under certain circumstances, or if it fluctuates/fades.

Your aspec identity doesn’t diminish your lesbian identity and vice versa.

•Lesbians who are in/want QPRs

Wanting QPRs but not romantic relationships doesn’t mean you’re less of a lesbian. A QPR is an equally valid type of relationship.

Your identities and experiences are valid. It’s okay if you feel like your experiences as a lesbian and as [insert other identity here] are inextricable from one another - you shouldn’t feel like you have to leave one part of your identity at the door today, or at any time when you’re talking about your experiences.

Happy Lesbian Day of Visibility!

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i strive for the day that whenever i type aromantic i won’t have the red squiggly line thing underneath it

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Because this need to be said again

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