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Hi! Hi! So me and my cg/small are starting a blog together where we mix fandom and agere and I'm going to be linking that blog in a post soon! I hope you guys join me & my cg on our shared blog, I think handling that one will be easier for me and once I let you guys know what the blog is, you can ask me questions on there. For now you can continue asking me stuff in my inbox on here!

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Hello! I have a few questions about agere if thats okay if not its totally okay. My therapist recommended to me to try it out for my mental health problems and it seems nice to try out but im also a bit uncomfortable with a few things and i was wondering if you have to follow specific rules when it comes to agere? I dont want to act/talk too much like im younger, have rules on how i act etc and i also dont want to call my boyfriend anything else than our normal nicknames. My boyfriend is 100% okay with this btw. We have now made a list on things we can do and its mostly him being a bit more in control of my (non existing) eating/study/sleep schedule and bottle feeding me before bed but is this still agere? Am i doing it wrong?

If you are willing to answer this thank you so much (english is not my native so i hope it makes sense) have a great day/night🍩

Hi! It made sense, no worries! I'm always up for answering questions. Agere isn't really a fixed thing and don't let anyone tell you otherwise, it's your safe space, anyway is 100% valid. I for one happen to act younger then I am when I'm small, but I'll also do "big" things too so it's kinda confusing heh but that's not how it works for everyone.

Some smalls have rules but even so there's certain things that should never ever be a rule, like not being able to say no. I myself don't have any rules and neither does my small (we're flips, which is someone who is a cg and a regressor) but we do have each other remind things. Like drinking water or eating etc.

I think what you're doing is still agere, as long as you feel younger, for example sometimes I'm 4 and I say I'm 4 and I feel 4 years old. It's also okay not to know your age or if you have an age range.

However there's also age dreaming and that's also valid as well! Age dreaming I think a good way to explain it is you don't actually feel younger, ah I'm sorry I'm not the best at explaining age dreaming but honestly whichever label you feel comfortable using the way you regress or age dream is valid.

You don't have to call your boyfriend anything other than your normal nicknames as long as that's what you're comfortable with.

I hope I answered your questions and that what I said makes sense 😊

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A white shirt that says "hundred acre wood" it has a pink P on it along with Piglet from Winnie the Pooh, and also says "Oh, D-D-Dear!". A dark pink & light pink headband that has black stripes on the back dark pink parts. A pair of pink socks with white stripes and piglet on the bottom. A pair of pink pants. A pink backpack with piglet ears on the front and piglets face. A white lunchbox with a pink front and piglet on the front of as well. A white sneaker that says "We'll be friends forever won't we, Pooh?" Then has Piglet & Pooh holding hands then says "Even longer". A white cup with piglet on it and even says piglet underneath, there's a red covering next to the cup. A sticker sheet with Piglet, Pooh, flowers balloons and birds on it as stickers.

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How to deal with someone who has hallucinations.

Hallucinations vary from person to person so not everything in this post may help but it may be a good start.

Like I said before this is just based on my experience, I am in no way a professional!!! Now let's get started.

Audio hallucinations come in many forms and aren't just hearing voices. They can be hearing car alarms, buzzing, foot stomping anything.

Visual hallucinations are of course seeing something that isn't real. Sometimes it can be obvious to the person that they are having a hallucination but even those times are scary and may even make it scarier.

Tactile hallucinations are feelings of movement or sensation on your body. They can vary from the feeling of someone holding their hand to feeling as though they have bugs crawling around or inside them.

Olfactory hallucinations involve the sense of smell or taste, both good or bad, that are not actually present. 

Signs someone is hallucinating can include

1) Hesitating and or pausing in what they were doing. Once they start again they may be slower at it then before or seemingly distracted

2) looking ahead with a confused look, probably even tilting their head or scrunching their eyes/eye brows and or nose

3) Being jumpy and or seemingly suddenly panicked for no apparent reason

4) Asking you if you've seen and or heard something

5) Zoning out of a conversation or having trouble keeping track of it, maybe even forgetting what they were going to say or saying something that doesn't seem to follow with the conversation

6) Mumbling "Shh" "Shut up" "Not right now" "Please stop" etc

7) Not responding to you calling or touching them or even anything around them. They may be completely still or their body might be moving, they may even look as though they are looking directly at you but

These are just signs for me that I've experienced. I can't stress enough that it varies for different people.

Someone who is regressed or has involuntarily regressed due to a hallucination may start having what you'd call a "Fit" or a "Temper tantrum" involving kicking, screaming, crying etc. This can be very difficult to understand and help them but please do not get ever get angry or upset at them. Not to undermine how you are feeling but I guarantee they are more confused and scared then you are in that moment. The only thing they can think to do is panic.

It is alright to feel panicked yourself but try not to show it too much if you can. Touching them during this may make it better but it can also make it worse, so please unless you feel you have no other choice until they can clearly tell you it is okay, do not touch them.

Play something that is calming and or soothing to them like if they have a little space playlist or a comfort movie, show etc. Often times for me a comfort show/movie can pull me out of a hallucination as I am more easily able to focus on it. Especially if it is a hyper-fixation of mine. Saying phrases such as "I'm here for you", "I love you", "You are safe" and also telling them what is actually going on and where they are etc.

If they have a stuffed animal that's scented give them that. If they have a stuffed animal that plays music or Peekaboo or whatever hit play on it and give that to them.

If they're flailing too much to take it just hearing it or placing it as close as possible so they can smell the scent can be incredibly soothing.

Get them something to drink in a bottle or a sippycup, doesn't matter if they usually use a regular cup even when they're small b/c they are likely to spill it and not because they're little but because they are feeling shaky. If there's no bottles or sippy's then gently help them with the juice or water or whatever drink you've given them. If they use Pacifiers that can be helpful too once they've calmed down a bit.

Once they are able to respond to you ask them if it is safe to hold them. If it is then you'll either need to hold them as tight as possible (w/out hurting then of course) or loosely because some need to feel they can get away but still need to be as close as possible. Not only can it differ from person to person but it can also differ from situation to situation.

They may break down and start crying or clinging onto you while you hold them and that's okay. Just continue to say where they are, what is going on and that you aren't going anywhere.

Don't let them go before they tell you to. Also don't assume they are perfectly fine now once they feel okay to be let go of. Keep a watchful eye on them, offer to take a nap with them, color with them, etc. A calm and relaxing activity should take place next.

I honestly can't think of much things to help during a video call or text so if anyone has anything they can add that would be lovely.

I'd also like to add that you should never ever, even when they're feeling big again, try and force them to tell you what the hallucination was. If you want to offer that to them, please do because sometimes talking about it can help but do not push because it can also trigger a reaction and have them go through it again, cause them to panic etc.

I know this wasn't much but I just wanted to try and bring a little attention because I feel like I don't see anything about helping littles who have hallucinations.

I don't know how helpful this is as this is based on my experience and I wasn't sure how exactly I wanted to write this as I've never really written anything like this but i just keep telling myself it's better then nothing so here it is. My bad if it looks jumbly I typed it on my notes app and pasted it on here.

@bigsisterpaca asked me to tag so they can share it. Which honestly thank you so much!!! Though I don't know how helpful my post will be I did try my best.

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A white shirt with a panda leaning on a tree that says "never give up on your dreams" on top and on the bottom says "keep sleeping". A black & white hair bow with a tiny panda on the middle. A light blue jaw string bag with the face of a panda on it. A pair of grey leggins with panda's all over them. A pair of white socks that have little black panda ears, black stripes near the bottom and on the top front a panda face. A panda ty plush with blue eyes. Clear sippycup with a panda face on it and a light blue top. Multiple sticker sheets all with panda's on them . A pink lunchbox with a black handle and sides, the front of it has a panda on it with a little leaf on the panda's head.

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A white and pink crotchet unicorn hat that has a purple, pink and blue flower. A white shirt white a yellow unicorn horn, unicorn ears n eyelashes. A black & blue galaxy unicorn onsie. A pair of blue jeans with unicorns on one of the pant legs. A pair of purple socks with pink on the bottom along with the heels and also a unicorn on top. A sticker sheet of unicorn stickers. A white pair of converse with pastel rainbow and unciorn with it's eyes closed design. A blue unicorn with white horn and bits of yellow plus pink on it. A white sippycup with a pink top, it says "believe in your own magic" and has a unicorn on it.

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A black sweater that says "always be yourself unless you can be a dinosaur then always be a dinosaur" and on top has a dinosaur while on the bottom has grass. A black shirt that says "Dinosaurs are awesome" with a few dinosaurs on the shirts. A white backpack a bunch of dinosaurs on it, green, orange, blue and red ones! Black leggings with colorful dinosaurs on them. Black socks with colorful dinosaurs on them. A dinosaur sticker sheet! A green sippycup with a blue top, has two dinosaurs, one red and one one blue with a palm tree in between the two. A green and blue nuk pacifier with a blue dinosaur. A green dinosaur plush with dark grey spikes on the back and dark grey spots as well. (The dark grey may actually be a dark green. I'm sorry I can't fully tell)

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A white crotchet hat with rainbow (ie roygbiv colors) on it. A rainbow tie dye shirt. A light blue backpack with mini rainbows on it. White pair of sneakers rainbow laces and the bottom of the sneakers are rainbow. A pair of ripped rainbow jean shorts. White pacifier with a rainbow on it and a white clip that has circles in each color of the rainbow on it. A blue sippy cup with a rainbow on it. A rainbow design caterpillar (slither io?) Plush.

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Galaxy colored sweater, a black shirt that has planets and stars etc on it, a galaxy colored backpack, a black pair of socks with stars, planets and the word "NASA" on it, a graphic colored pair of sweat pants & skirt, a green alien plush with big black eyes, a roll of planet stickers, a gray sippycup with a blue top & planets, a moon, lightning blots and stars on it, a planets & stars 100 pack of planets&stars bandaids.

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I'm back! I'm back! I'm back! And this time I mean it and I'm like so excited aaaaiiishshs aksksk I have made a ton of moodboards! I wrote a couple of headcannon's, for example I did one of Little!Jack (From Supernatural. Aaaahh the show is ending) and I have other ideas to do like Little!Patton & Caregiver!Patton (From sander sides aksks it's a show okay but it's a YouTube ting eeekkk)

I'm so excited to be back! To post some outfit stuffs and moodboards and headcannon's and tips for all of you!!!!

Please send me ask! It could be a request. If asking for a headcannon or moodboard preferably I'd like Bnha/Mha, Supernatural, Supergirl, Sander sides and Umbrella Academy BUT if you have something else in mind I will totally still see if I can do it if it's a show that I do watch! However if it isn't I should still be able to do a moodboard/aesthetic even though I wouldn't be able to do a headcannon. And who knows??? Maybe the show is something I end up being interested in!! Eeeehhhh

I'm sorry I'm just so excited aksks my ask box should be open and like as an Anon, if someone could check and let me know if people can send an ask and on Anon that would be great!!!!!

I also can't wait to go back to giving you other babies ideas and tips for little space!!! Don't ever be afraid to send me an ask or DM me though I know that can be hard, as I get anxious too! But it's alright, I believe in you!

I really hope this makes sense as I'm just soooo excited and it's probably dumb that I'm excited but yeah it is how it is!!!

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Hello! I don't know if anyone is actually going to read this but anyways uuuh I also don't know how to start this off really so I guess I'll just uuuh wing it? Though I'm already doing that I suppose. I said I was coming back and I did post a few things then I went MIA again for around a month. I do wanna come back to posting stuff but my mental health is not so good. I have so many things stressing me out that's making me feel horrible about myself for either not doing or not doing it correctly or quick enough etc and I've been beating myself up about it.

I'm not gonna really explain too much but what I'm saying is I'm gonna try and come back soon but I don't know how long that will take. This is my baby blog in more ways then one and I really like it so I wanna continue on it one day. I don't know when that will be though. Maybe tomorrow? Maybe a month from now? I'm not sure but it'll be in the back of my mind and once I take care of myself I'll get back to it. It's just really hard for me to rely on others even though I know I should ask my friends for help and it's not selfish to do so but I just find that difficult and is something I just have to keep pushing within myself.

What's funny is I always imagine myself telling my friends what's bothering me and just being able to vent and maybe even asking them to do certain things that may help yet when it comes to actually doing it I get so scared. Anyways uuuh idk if I wrote everything I needed since it's like 4AM and I had a big urge to type this type this right now since I'm feeling emotional sooo uh yeah. I think I'll just leave it at this for now?

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Reasons little me needs supervision #1

While in little space I was bored so I decided to watch some YouTube videos. I saw a video of this girl who made a big crayon by using little crayons. She had to unwrap the crayons and found using warm/hot water made the paper peel right off. The crayons looked so nice and fresh that little me decided that was what we're gonna do. And thus I went in the kitchen (It was like 3AM which in of it's self being up so late is another reason aksks) got a bowl and then filled it up with warm water. I placed a bunch of crayons in, then waited five seconds (Impatient little) before moving the crayons with my hands and then I waited a bit more before I tried unpeeling but some didn't go right.

So I dumped the warm water and put hot water instead. I waited a few minutes, not patiently but I was scared to touch the hot water. When I put my hand in it hurt so I just like yanked a crayon out and unwrapped it. Around 20-30 crayons later (and multiple water dumping and getting new hot water later) I was done. With all the crayons. Sooo I dumped the water one final time and then I was feeling one of the crayons and it broke. It made a crack sound which little me found so pleasing and the crayon was so soft that I cracked it two more times and then did this with the rest of the crayons that I just unwrapped. I have a much bigger, other pack of crayons that has over 100 which is like my life saver because otherwise I'd have to buy new crayons aksksk but since I still got that I don't need and impromptu buying crayons store visit.

It did not smell good and thusly I decided to dump the crayons in the garbage (they're now cracked anyways so why not) and when I looked at the bowl it had crayon stains in it.

Like a lot of crayon stains.

Anywho I'll just end this here

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@babieprincesssonnie blog based outfit

A pink hello Kitty shirt. A pair of pink sweat pants that says hello Kitty in black letters and has little stars and dots surrounding the words. Disney princess sticker sheet. A unicorn bag that says Sparkle like a unicorn In black letters. A pair of flats with Ms.Potts and Chip (from beauty and the best) on them. A pair of unicorn socks with little stars on it and three stripes. A brown stuffed bunny with black eyes, pink on the bottom of the feet as well as on the front of the nose and on the inner part of the ears. A pink glitter unicorn cup that has a blue flower, a pink flower and a purple flower. A pink and white glitter pacifier with a crown on it.

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Hi hi! Could you maybeee make an outfit based on my blog? ☺️ dat would be sooo cool!!

I just posted it but aksksk I just realized you said outfit and not an aesthetic 😂😅 aaahhh sorry about that aksks okay so I'll make an outfit as well (hopefully sometime today, if not tomorrow for sure)

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@babieprincesssonnie blog aesthetic/moodboard

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could u do a Minecraft themed Age regression outfit

Long overdue and I'm sorry about the wait buuut hey I'm back!!! Anyways the outfit was just posted and so if you'd like any changes just let me know and I'll do my best.

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(Sorry if my explanation isn't that good like is it really called a creeper???? I don't know anything about Minecraft askkss sooooo 😅)

A black beanie hat with creepers on it. A pair of black mittens with creepers on it and a green circle on the bottom. A red and grey mushroom plush toy. A green shirt with a creeper and a pair of green pants with multiple creepers on them. A pair of vans one with a creeper and the other one of the block men. A red cup that with TNT on it in black surrounded by white and a green cup that says Tony in black letters with a creeper underneath. Three socks, one that's green on the bottom that has words Tnt on it as well as rocks, second sock has rocks as well as creepers and thw third sock has pixels in green as well as black, the top of the sock has a blue stripe. A creeper backpack that has a pocket on the side to put a cup in. Multiple packs of Minecraft stickers.