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we awoo togeths

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some affirmations for all my fellow dragons

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I LOVE BEING A WOLF!!!! AWOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO YEA WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOO !!!!!!

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"you're really scraping the bottom of the barrel" girl i am living that balsamic life, that's the mommy down there at the bottom.

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just an FYI for trans people in the US right now

[id: reddit post by user spaghettishoestrings titled "(UPDATE) Just lost my healthcare !" with the flair "Celebratory."

Post reads:

Original post is viewable through my profile. Apologies, since I’m on mobile, I couldn’t hyperlink. The TLDR: my doctor called me on Monday and informed me that their practice would no longer be providing treatment for gender affirming care as a result of a recent presidential Executive Order, even though the EO was for people under 19. Even though I’m 25.

Also, because it was asked a few times, this happened in Michigan, and I’ve been on HRT for 5+ years. It’s a practice that includes like 15+ physicians, and I think that the decision was made over my PCP’s head, given that she once told me that she literally moved states to be able to provide gender affirming care here.

First off, genuinely, thank you so much for all the replies and messages. I genuinely felt frozen after that phone call and didn’t know where to start, and you all really helped me get my feet off the ground.

A couple people mentioned contacting the ACLU, which, truthfully, I thought, “there’s no way that the ACLU will get back to me” but I sent a message anyway. They actually called me a few hours after my post and we talked about the Executive Orders and my rights. They offered to fax my provider a letter reminding them of my rights and some other legal terms. It’s crazy how a post on reddit resulted in my name being on the official ACLU letterhead.

Anyway, today my doctor’s physician assistant called me and shared that their practice is reversing their decision and they will continue to provide gender affirming care. I’m still keeping a bunch of the resources that y’all shared saved, including Planned Parenthood, Plume, and looking into a private endocrinologist.

This whole experience just reminded me how great this community is. I appreciate y’all <3"

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[id: reddit user copurrs commented:]

You should contact Chase Strangio from the ACLU, I believe he is looking for reports of folks being denied their GAC due to these EOs. He's @chasestrangio on IG and Threads.

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genuine question of the evening how to explore bdsm stuff with being extremely touch traumatized & easily terrified of being hurt

like i know we want to experience it and i think we'd be good at it but i also know how easily we dissociate & escalate to life/death danger mind

and general frustration with being tired of being stuck. i really want to process some of this stuff in a way that lets us release it but i really dont know how

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via

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screaming.

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less depression pls

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Ru

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Plural culture is

"this is my collection of familiar strangers, sometimes I don't recognize them, but I live with them, I know they're supposed to be my family, but sometimes they're just my strangers."

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I saw a cute post about giving headmates delicious home-cooked mac and cheese, but it said endos DNI in the tags. :0 So here's some delicious home-cooked mac and cheese for the endogenic headmates out there who would like to have some mac and cheese.

You're in for a treat, mac and cheese is my specialty. :> Even if we can't draw it all that well. We tried. :0

-Luc

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