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based on my experience of getting kicked out of every casino on the strip while having arcade follow me around like a child forced to watch their parent go bankrupt

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an incomplete taxonomy of christmas music

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my aunt used to be a beauty pageant kid. had long, beautiful red hair with a curl pattern that made hairdressers jealous. her mother would pay people lots of money to spend hours styling my aunt's hair

predictably, as a young adult, my aunt cut all of her hair off. buzzed down to the scalp. she still keeps it pretty short- long enough for curls to develop, but only on the top of her head. she says she can't stand the feeling of her hair touching her ears or neck.

recently she's started collecting and styling wigs. she'll even wear them, occasionally, to a fancy event or if she just doesn't want to be bothered by distant family when she goes shopping. and she spends hours styling these wigs, even though she doesn't use them all that often.

i asked her about it. she said that sometimes, growth looks a lot like regression with a twist. that she's reclaiming something she enjoyed as a kid, and could have enjoyed more. she said she's practicing having agency, and that it's a skill that doesn't come very naturally for her. having agency, i mean. she's really good at styling wigs.

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me: I have GOT to get weirder!

also me when I do get weirder: *visibly shaking* I'm going to be killed with hammers by everyone for being a freak.

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discord server for silent video game protagonists

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Dogs as a metaphor for dogs

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yknow that thing people say about women on /r/aita? how they'll tell the most harrowing story about their boyfriend/husband and be like "is he an asshole or am i a crazy bitch like he says?"

i have a version of this were every now and then i get an ask along the lines of "i'm the only transfem in a friend group full of transmascs and a while ago i asked them to stop calling me male socialized so they told me i was a misogynist and all stopped talking to me for a month. is that okay?"

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mutuals i'm coming over to be annoying and meow loudly

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tried my hand at a zine!

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i spot a plus size honey across the bar and start to chat her up until her bisexual boyfriend with a magic the gathering tattoo comes over and starts yelling at me so i turn him sideways so he can't make another action until his next turn

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when it comes down to it everything is about ghosts except ghosts, which are about love

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Happy wrapped day to those who celebrate!

What was the highest song in your top 100 with a location name in the title? (real or fictional, generic or specific)