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I think that the monogamous expectation that you only ever be attracted to your one selected partner until you die is weird and unrealistic and straight up magical thinking, but also, I think that once you take that to be accurate--or even possible--your standard for realistic expectations is so off-kilter that it effects how you view nonmonogamy even if you believe it's a valid lifestyle for other people.

Like, I think that when people say stuff like "oh, I could never do that, I'd get so jealous", what they are picturing is a sort of logical reversal of typical monogamous expectations. If monogamous people are supposed to never feel desire for other people, then nonmonogamous people are supposed to never feel jealous of other people.

In both cases, people seem to be unaware of the concept of handling your feelings maturely and not blowing up your whole life and relationships because you felt a feeling. Instead, the expectation is that the job of a good partner is just to not feel the wrong feelings, whether those be attraction, love, or jealousy.

People do not work like that.

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I cannot donate but I will post this mutuals please reblog!

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"I don't hate polyamorous people but—" OH MY GOD SHUT THE FUCK UP. NO ONE ASKED FOR YOUR FUCKING OPINION OF POLYAMORY. MIND YOUR OWN FUCKING BUSINESS AND LET PEOPLE LIVE.

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Can we start normalizing polyamory in general? Cause jfc, it's tiring to see anti poly stuff when I'm just existing.

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I think that the monogamous expectation that you only ever be attracted to your one selected partner until you die is weird and unrealistic and straight up magical thinking, but also, I think that once you take that to be accurate--or even possible--your standard for realistic expectations is so off-kilter that it effects how you view nonmonogamy even if you believe it's a valid lifestyle for other people.

Like, I think that when people say stuff like "oh, I could never do that, I'd get so jealous", what they are picturing is a sort of logical reversal of typical monogamous expectations. If monogamous people are supposed to never feel desire for other people, then nonmonogamous people are supposed to never feel jealous of other people.

In both cases, people seem to be unaware of the concept of handling your feelings maturely and not blowing up your whole life and relationships because you felt a feeling. Instead, the expectation is that the job of a good partner is just to not feel the wrong feelings, whether those be attraction, love, or jealousy.

People do not work like that.

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I'm feeling very emotional about the build a bear werewolf

I am him and he is me

The 2015 vers...... :(

He makes me so unreasonably happy. Tears are forming

Wow just look at him go

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SHRIMP CUFF!!!!!!!!!!

Just finished this cuff a few days ago and it's already one of my favorite cuffs I've ever made.

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I'm actually polyamorous bc I need to make as many unloved people feel loved as possible in my lifetime

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Why are monogamous queer people getting so mad at non monogamous queer people like “I’m looking for a partner but they’re all non monogamous UGH 🙄” “It’s so hard trying to find someone monogamous these days 😔” fucking cry abt it ig?

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Omg my two fav things combined polyam pride and ever after high

Afternoon Stroll

The wives taking their girlfriend on an afternoon walk 🫶🏻 inspired by my most recent fic I Kissed A Girl. Basically a ‘what-if’ Briar was put to sleep one-hundred years ago and was kissed awake by Darling on accident, resulting in them being married before ever attending Ever After High.

I never thought Briarling could be so soft, but it is. And the Brapple/Dappling yearning is crazy.

This is just a sketch, I kinda want to clean it up but I’m so lazy and I don’t have the energy today. So please enjoy them 🥹

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We should legalize poly marriage

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— DATING DALLAS ; HEADCANONS 💕

he leaves you

if you have a child, he doesn’t pay child support

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I'm so sorry outsiders fandom but Ponyboy eats too much sand for us to have a beach episode

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What if I write a fic that makes him fail a hurdle jump and fall over and eat shit and die what then you guys?

just remembered ponyboy did track

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No I love u too

Me:arguing abt which outsiders character had it worst defeats the whole purpose of the book. The "moral of the story" is that it's rough all over and the book clearly points out all of the characters flaws weaknesses traumas and experiences in an equal light and not one more important or worse than the other

Also me:

Yea soda had it the worst

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Me:arguing abt which outsiders character had it worst defeats the whole purpose of the book. The "moral of the story" is that it's rough all over and the book clearly points out all of the characters flaws weaknesses traumas and experiences in an equal light and not one more important or worse than the other

Also me:

Yea soda had it the worst