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I haven't been on in awhile but I figured I'd rb this because I remember seeing it during 2020 and ngl. it was so fucking WILD and CHAOTIC I want the energy back plus another election is here so

what a week huh?

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If there is anyone who is still actively following this blog, please read my new pinned

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I want you to know that I am saying all of this with kindness, and that I am not defending any of the rapists in this trial. This was fucking horrible and I agree that everyone involved in harming her should be sentenced heavily.

That being said, I do not think that "every cis man" is a healthy narrative to push. You don't know how many "cis men" are actually closeted trans women or nonbinary people. The "all (cis) men suck" rhetoric is far too often twisted by transphobes to paint trans women as inherently dangerous.

On top of that, it absolves the individual men of blame by putting the blame on their gender. "All (cis) men are inherently like that" implies that they do not have control and they should not put in any effort to be better. That's not what we want. We WANT cis men to understand this is harmful and wrong and that they need to be better. The perpetrators made a CHOICE to hurt somebody, they could have not but they decided to anyway.

Also, my dad wasn't in on this. Neither were my brothers. Or my grandfathers or uncles or friends. Should I be scared of my own family because "it's every cis man"?

I do understand what I reblogged about the Mazan case was not in what I usually post but you have to understand that this case is really REALLY big here and we need people to hear about it

Because that case proves that it's every cis man. It can be anyone. It's so sick and we are hoping that everyone involved will have a very heavy sentence

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Aethy is down and I'm bad at not procrastinating so have a bunch of random life updates

Also I still hate Tumblr's new layout hey staff if you're seeing this put the old shit back this thing sucks ass and also fuck you for changing it in the first place

I'm in my last year of college and nearing finals week

I did shrooms over the summer and "kinshifted"? Idk I described my experiences to someone and they said that's what it sounded like

There are other things that are pointing to otherkin but I don't really wanna adopt that label

My 5 year anniversary with my F/O is in 5 days

I may or may not be planning to move into a house of gay with a couple people I know from college after I graduate

I have a consultation for top surgery scheduled for next month

I went on a road trip back to my home state last week to get my car emissions tested and brought those aforementioned college people along, that trip included me forgetting my wallet, one of the other people driving for like 14 hours and also getting us pulled over on the way back, running all around the state because we were supposed to go to a particular place apparently, getting a dick shaped donut, the other person getting a stomachache, a sidequest to get me an aux cord and adapter for my iPhone, and getting high as a fucking satellite when we got back at 4 AM the next day

Grandma's in the ground now

My brother's cat lost his balls

My roommate might have to go back to his home country and I'll have to find a new one if he does

They're taking forever to change my legal shit

I'm very fucking behind on my assignments so I should really stop here

I'm about to pop another Ghost energy so I can stay awake long enough to do more work and then drive to the airport at 4 AM

Happy Thanksgiving ig

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believe it or not that clarified nothing for me because i only knew what it represented and vaguely something about finding it, and guess who just forgot both in the span of like. a few months

math people scare me. math people will be like "math works in mysterious ways TO YOU. i get it though." and they do and it's fucking terrifying.

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genuinely considering deleting my tumblr bc of this bullshit

hey @staff what the fresh fuck is this

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It kind of varies from kid to kid. For example, as a child I ate broccoli, lima beans, carrots, potatoes, peas, cauliflower, and corn willingly and eagerly. But I didn’t eat bell peppers, kale, celery, or eggplant and still don’t as an adult. The ones I grew into were onions, spinach, and brussel sprouts (so long as they are roasted). My oldest younger brother on the other hand wasn’t a picky eater and I actually don’t know of any vegetable he doesn’t eat (but he has a different life than me, being in his 20s also and idk what his preferences are nowadays). My youngest brother was pickier than me for a time, he wouldn’t eat peas or egg yolks (both of which I love) and he doesn’t eat mushrooms (I also like mushrooms). He’s a bit less picky now but we both still have our things that one won’t eat but the other will.

Fruit on the other hand, at least in my household, is a different story. Between me, my father, and my other brother, my mom has to buy two packs of strawberries and two packs of blueberries and those won’t last the week. Growing up we had all sorts of fruit in the house (we actually had an apricot tree as kids and we’d pick and eat the apricots) and honestly getting us to NOT eat the fruit would be more of a challenge.

EDIT: for some demographic context, I grew up in an upper middle class Chinese American family

Question for those who live in the USA:

Is it true that kids usually don't like eating vegetables and fruit over there as it is shown in movies?

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hello this is the part where i mention i do not shred the potatoes, as that takes too much time, and by mixed in, i mean folded into the eggs after they are cooked, like a salad with croutons

I just. dice them. with a knife. Morning of, btw. Note they are the small, waxy, colored potatoes, not like. russets, but you can use starchier potatoes if you wish (and are not on a high protein low ish calorie diet like me) or if that’s just what you have

And no, I don’t pre boil them, if you use small potatoes/dice them small enough you can steam them in the pan and they brown at the same time (just don’t let your heat get too high)

Oighh yeah okay I need to get another curry batch made immediately turns out not having a balanced breakfast fucking kills me

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Infighting only helps our oppressors.

Infighting only helps our oppressors.

Infighting only helps our oppressors.

Infighting only helps our oppressors.

Infighting only helps our oppressors.

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With so many elections coming up worldwide it's probably a good time to remind everyone that tumblr once got infested with agents trying to convince everyone not to vote, or not to vote left because the candidates weren't morally pure enough.

Also a reminder that they were better at tumblr than most of us, comrade interloper was great at memeing. Like, the talent!

Anyway don't fall for it. There is no morally pure option.

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comp sci major here! iirc type safe generally means that the language is constructed such that it prevents you from doing illegal operations (such as trying to do something like 4 / “cat”). wikipedia also says that it makes sure you only reference valid memory (this is good, memory issues are a fucking NIGHTMARE)

i’ve never used rust but digging into it it actually seems like a very useful language, even if it’s not as commonly used as C++ to my knowledge

ETA: if you think rust is bad try ARM Assembly

What game do i make? (Learning happy little crab programming language)(is awful and terrible language)(but it is a cute crab!)

CRBBA SO UCUTE i actually dabbled in programming in my past (2 years aagao) with codecadmdey…however i am out of practiice soemwhat. you should make game of ashe dress up game i don’t know what language you are tlaking about

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Just a PSA that tumblr monitors our messages for explicit content.

I cannot see anywhere in the guidelines that states messages, only posts. Is that even allowed?

This email is a reply from my appeal, but even the termination email doesn’t state it.

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I hope random brands turn their logo rainbow for no goddamn reason. I hope they do it even if its a desperate bid to seem supportive. I dont fucking care if its shallow. Bud light made a limited edition rainbow can and white men with big trucks took machine guns on them. Target runs a line of admittedly cringe rainbow merchandise and is the subject of domestic terrorism. A random company going rainbow for a month is shallow but its showing the people that want to kill us that they can't win. The pride flag will be everywhere and itll piss them off and theres nothing they can do about it. No matter how much violence and hatred they dish out, they'll be too many goddamn companies to boycott, to threaten. You dont have to buy shit from them, just use rainbow capitalism against them.

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We are not going to let that fuckwad DeSantis gain a foothold in the 2024 election.

You are going to fucking vote for Joe Biden, and you are going to give us a fucking chance to save our country from fascism, and you aren't going to fucking complain about it, because there is literally no other choice.

We will not let another election be a close call. Are you listening?

Vote for Biden. Vote for whatever Democrat is most popular in your local elections. Our system sucks, but this is what we're working with. Just fucking vote.

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I've made 12 hour drives across 2 states before, 8 hours ain't shit and ngl long drives are nice

Tbh this is tied with putting together a cabinet though, I LOVE putting together furniture it gives me good manly feels

Being older is weird - so let’s play a game about it!

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Hey. Are you still active?

Yes and no. I check this blog and my dash every now and again and I have side blogs that I run that I am personally choosing not to disclose. Sometimes I’ll reblog something if I deem it important enough or comment on a random post. But I’m not active in terms of the stuff I used to post on here.

Why aren’t you in the self ship community anymore?

Two main reasons: 1) Tumblr wants to sanitize itself way too fucking badly for me, a kinky bastard, to feel safe posting the content I want to post. 2) The self ship community on here is chock full of toxic people who think it’s okay to demonize and harass people for shipping with certain characters. I’ve had enough of that nonsense and have since moved my self ship stuff to another platform where that sort of behavior isn’t tolerated.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: I love my current main (Katsuki) with my entire being, and I’m not giving him up for anything. Frankly I’m insulted that anyone would try to paint my love for my F/O, which is no different than anyone else’s, as “predatory” or “problematic”. If you don’t like it that’s fine but there are healthier and less asshole-ish ways to deal with that (blocking and ignoring).

Where else can I find you?

If you really want to continue seeing my self ship content, DM me for the link to my Aethy (Aethy is 18+ only. Please have your age on your blog if you’re asking for my account), as that’s the only place where I’ve felt safe enough to post my self ship content. I’ve been tentatively examining Bluesky but have yet to make an account as I’m still trying to get a feel for whether or not my more spicy thoughts can be safely posted there.

Otherwise, I’m active on Discord, but your contact with me would be solely via DMs unless we agree on making a server.

Note: I am no longer permitting interaction from minors for safety reasons. I will not respond to any requests for my socials from minors or blogs without ages listed.

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due to some recent developments i will likely be moving all of my personal self ship stuff to aethy. this is not 100% for certain yet but it is highly likely. i will keep this blog up to run some side blogs i have but otherwise i won’t be very active on here any more. if i decide for sure that i’m sticking with aethy i will post my account name so those who want to continue to see my self ship content can follow me there