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i hope one day pr.shippers will understand that if they don't want their beloathed antis to interact with their posts they need to learn to tag their fucking posts <3

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OKAYYYY LET'S GET TO IT GANG!!

I'm opening up short term Valentine's day f/o writing commission!!

They're entirely donation based, so however much you give will determine the product you receive. Starting at 3USD, info below!

So! Basic rules/info: you can ask for any specifics! A scenario, a scene, headcanons, whatever. It'll be finished before Valentine's day, and it'll obviously be Valentine's day themed! If you don't want to choose what you receive, I can pick and craft for you. You can ask for a letter from your f/o too, but I think I'll have to price those a little higher just because I don't have a ton of time and I'm doing these on an emergency basis. Looking to raise 55$ before the 7th of February!

Pricing starts at 3USD, this will guarantee you get a short excerpt about what your f/o does for you, talking about their gifts, behavior, and maybe a short day rundown. 10USD will certifiably get you a fully written scenario piece about them, explaining what they do for the day with you in detail (or... whatever else you request??)

I have my payment methods in my pinned post, and you can dm me here on Tumblr or ask for my Discord to do it there.

Ko.fi here for ease of access!

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good morning oughh

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ough... cried bc overwhelmed

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it's better now srry,,,,,,

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day now completely ruined

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so how am i supposed to "tell my loved ones about my struggles" if the said loved one (mother) made it all about herself and turned the conversation into just having a breakdown

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you and your f/o?

no proship

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Imagine your f/o comforting when you're having stressful or intrusive thoughts. Helping to reassure you that you're not a bad person, you can't control them, that you don't need to worry. They'll do what it takes to help you cope. Whether that be distraction, support, venting, etc., they'll be right there. ══════════════════════════════════ support my ko-fi!

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A safe place.

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being in one room with parents watching news while being openly transphobic 📉📉📉

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Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.

It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.

Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.

Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.

Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)

Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!

You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!

If you want it in a simple phrase:

You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.

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Рил

Я вбила одного майнкрафт ютубера в пинтересте.

Мне выпал около порнушный арт с другим ютубером.

Я в ахуе с пинтерест.

блять люди это серьезно рисуют....

хотя че я удивляюсь, сама видела. гспд.

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WHAT'S WITH PINTEREST HAVING LITERAL P0RN ON IT???????????

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god bless people who are willing to rp as your f/o for you

bonus points for non selfshippers for being understanding

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I MEANNNN MIGHT AS WELL

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laughing with your f/o...... laughing so hard both of your stomachs are hurting, you're crying, you can't breathe, you're both red in the face from laughing!!! the fact that you're laughing so hard makes you both laugh even harder and for so long you forget what was even so funny to begin with!!! its magic!!!

proship dni